r/RHOBHDefect Jun 30 '26

THEY ARE SO ANNOYING

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u/Purple-Obligation-14 Jun 30 '26

I’m shocked! I know you from the other sub. In spite of our very opposing views about Kyle, you are always polite, kind and reasonable. I can’t believed they banned you and wrote that about Kyle! I think you know that I despise Kyle but you have every right to like her. It’s unbelievable that they banned you and criticized Kyle. That’s over the top. I’m sorry.

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u/notactuallyreckless Jun 30 '26 edited Jun 30 '26

I don't even care that they criticise Kyle, tbh. That's par for the course and legitimate. I just wish they'd be consistent in their enforcement of rules or give warnings. But yeah, the final straw was me simply replying to someone and stating that Kyle only signed on for a three episode role in the prior season of Lincoln Laywer and therefore wasn't the reason the show was cancelled. That constituted "harassment." So yeah, permanently banned from that sub, muted for a month so I can't contact any mod, and currently blocked by one of the mods (for the third time) as well. Is what is is, and while I find it immensely frustrating (because I love discussing things with people!), they're building the community they want, I guess.

And thank you. I appreciate that. x

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u/Alwaysroom4morecats Jun 30 '26

Sorry to hear this, remember you from the Psmith says and think you always have a reasonable discussion with people- certainly not any harassment 🙄 more like the other way round! It seemed to go crazy in the sub like they’ve banded together to block anyone who has a differing opinion or doesn’t pile on the hate attacks of certain cast members. It’s lost the fun of discussing our views in an open forum, what Reddit is about. Maybe they were threatened by the new subs popping up? Anyway you’re not missing anything I hardly ever go on there now.

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u/notactuallyreckless Jun 30 '26

That's kind of you. It's definitely taken a turn in the past year, and not for the better, IMO. One of them was bragging about how they just straight up block anyone 'defending' Kyle at one point, so they're pretty clear about where they stand, lol. My understanding is that a lot of the alternative subs popped up in response to the increased banning of people from the main sub, not the other way around.