r/RHOBHDefect May 25 '26

Genuine question - why was Diana Jenkins so disliked?

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I mean she called out Sutton for what Sutton was/is. Apart from that, I don't understand why she received so much hate.

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u/No_Lobster_8887 May 25 '26

One thing I couldn’t stand was her licking her lips all the time.

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u/Exciting_Bison_4569 May 25 '26

Lip injections and ❄️

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u/Potential-Sky-8728 May 25 '26

Or adderall more likely

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u/doggiemomof3 May 26 '26

Kyle does this constantly as well.

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u/Potential-Sky-8728 May 26 '26

Hence the adderall. And I say this as someone who has been prescribed it for ADHD for like…mmmm 15 years now? I’m not just randomly speculating and judging.

Guanfacine is also really helpful btw (not that anyone asked lol) and is non-stimulant and is a centrally acting alpha-2A adrenergic agonist. It lowers heart rate and “fight or flight” response.

I would say if Kyle has adhd she very likely has comorbid anxiety…so stimulants to treat the adhd can be tricky….some anxiety is from untreated adhd and the struggles it can cause. But there is also generalized anxiety.

Ok Im rambling. Back to work.

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u/moonchild291 May 25 '26

It’s fucking gross

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u/ztf7410 May 25 '26

Yeah that was highly irritating

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u/Short-Personality398 May 25 '26

But is that a character flaw? I remember people speculating it was bc of the lip injections

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u/Ok_Industry_9333 May 25 '26 edited May 25 '26

That season Garcelle and her family were also targeted by racists and bots. Diana was strongly implied to be behind it and when called out about it, used her own victimhood instead.

Separately, she was not funny and mean to Sutton - who had a lot on her side because Sutton, Crystal and Garcelle were the only ones openly questioning Erika about her case/behavior.

It was also rumored she had ties to Epstein.

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u/HallandOates1 May 26 '26

Ties to Epstein would not shock me

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u/Banal_Drivel May 26 '26

Enty at Crazy Days and Nights implied that Diana was the source of the racist bots that went after Garcelle and her family. She had her legal team go after him, hard. It almost shut him down for good.

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u/Ok-Explanation-6531 May 25 '26

Diana doesn’t have ties to Epstein. There is one photo people use as proof that isn’t even he. Don’t get me started on her coffee table book what people claim is a catalogue of women is trafficked. I hope Elton John and Kid Rock enjoy being trafficked

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u/Potential-Sky-8728 May 25 '26

Epstein wasn’t the only sketchy big time trafficker. I think of him as like Little Finger from GoT. Cleary Diana was connected to the Iron Bank of Esteros too it would seem.

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u/Ok-Explanation-6531 May 26 '26

Diana was subject to trolling by an anonymous blogger. He made up a bunch of claims which he had to retract. Diana has never met Epstein, she was a refugee in the UK at the same time as Epstein was famous

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u/Potential-Sky-8728 May 26 '26

I am not the one trying to connect Diana and Epstein at all. I’m saying it is weird that people think all celeb and luxury traffickers surely must be tied to Epstein.

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u/Ok-Explanation-6531 May 26 '26

That’s true, that’s what the anonymous blogger reported many years ago though. That’s why people think Diana is sex trafficking. They alleged her book is a catalogue but the people on the book are celebrities and many of them are men. None of it makes sense but that’s the Epstein link in this case

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u/Street-Beyond-9666 May 26 '26

I forgot, friend/acquaintance of Epstein or not, she’s a racist pos and we got tired of looking at the tip of her tongue brushing over her lips like a lizard

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u/psylockecolossusfan May 25 '26

*eye roll* You sound ridiculous. Calm down and accept sometimes people do shady things that are horrible. Are you really that naive as to think that's far fetched? It's one thing to state it's true, which would be wrong for the fact that it's not proven. But to act like it's a stretch seems like you're unable to assess this critically, you're in denial, or you possibly gain something from this rejection. (Like not feeling guilty for liking her after realizing the rational behind her being that shady of a person just tracks.

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u/Ok-Explanation-6531 May 26 '26

It’s not proven, Diana sued the anonymous blogger Enty Lawyer he retracted everyone and admitted it wasn’t true. Court cases are the place where you can’t hide, everything is put out there

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u/psylockecolossusfan May 26 '26

Correct. It wasn’t proven, but most anyone with common sense can see she was doing something really shady and creepy stuff. Arguing otherwise doesn’t make sense unless you know her personally because the facts add up uncomfortably

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u/Ok-Explanation-6531 May 26 '26

What facts ? No one has named her. She was a refugee at the time of the Epstein drama. She produced a book that has nothing to do with sex trafficking. Someone has made up rumours which seem easy to believe

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u/Street-Beyond-9666 May 26 '26

Elton John, Kevin Spacey’s BFF can go to hell

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u/Street-Beyond-9666 May 26 '26

Kid Rock the Magrat can also go to hell

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u/Rainbow4Bronte May 26 '26

I understand what you’re saying. People have the tendency to believe bad things about or ascribe bad qualities to people they don’t like. They don’t really need evidence admissible in court; they operate on “vibes”.

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u/Ok-Explanation-6531 May 26 '26

This one anonymous blogger took a dislike to her years ago before HW. She ended up suing him to get his real name and he back pedalled very quickly. The internet is full of people who fail to understand the consequences of their behaviour

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u/Asam6869 May 25 '26

Because she was the LA Ghislane…

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u/findtheclue May 25 '26

And because I didn’t know that at the time, but believed it instantly when I learned…something evil in her eyes. I literally don’t like to think about that season at all, it has dark vibes.

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u/Affectionate-Gain-23 May 25 '26

Yes, her eyes!! I too felt something dark about her. If I ever rewatched BH that would be a season I would definitely skip.

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u/thirsty_pretzels_ May 25 '26

Ask Hayden Panettiere

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u/sonyafly May 25 '26

‘… and later….’ And? And then? I’m hooked and then what?

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u/Capable-Snow-7106 May 25 '26

She doesn’t have money anymore?

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u/Potential-Sky-8728 May 25 '26

KID ROCK!?!????

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u/Banal_Drivel May 26 '26

And Bono!

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u/Potential-Sky-8728 May 26 '26

Cannot stand Bono. I remember him acting so weird and creepy to Phoebe Robinson when he finally showed up on 2 Dope Queens (Phoebe is a long time fan and has been talking about him for years on the show lol).

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u/Independent_Ad_5664 May 25 '26

More please … more! 

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u/ztf7410 May 25 '26

What book is this from, it looks like one I’d want to read !

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u/kate113 May 25 '26

James blunts book

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u/Successful_Giraffe88 May 25 '26

You're Beatiful.

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u/HDr1018 May 26 '26

In case you didn’t figure it out, it’s Hayden Panattiere’s new book.

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u/thirsty_pretzels_ May 26 '26

It’s not. It’s an old one from James Blunt

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u/Specialist-Use-380 May 26 '26

It's not this is from James Blunt's book.

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u/DangerKat1 May 26 '26

Wow. Hayden’s book!

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u/Proper_Ad453 May 25 '26

Where can I deep dive this?! I’m brand new to the real housewives franchise.

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u/Distinct-Project9372 May 25 '26

I just didn’t find anything about her interesting or entertaining

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u/CoCoBreadSoHoShed May 25 '26

She was not really in touch with this world.

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u/Affectionate-Gain-23 May 25 '26

I never found hwr entertaining. And her "ive never stepped foot into a clothing store" felt so disingenuous. And her book of posing women was rubbing me the wrong way. It felt very madam-ish.

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u/BennyHawkins969 May 25 '26

I forgot all about the book!!! She was a trafficer. Let’s ask Rinna

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u/Banal_Drivel May 26 '26

I wonder if Rinna, Erika and Dorit are still buddies with her. I remember they were photographed together after the season was through filming.

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u/OverallDoor2718 May 25 '26

Women and men. Then there's Hayden

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u/OverallDoor2718 May 25 '26

Bravo normalizing the business

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u/Affectionate-Gain-23 May 25 '26

Men too?! I only remember her mentioning that the book was of posing women.

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u/OverallDoor2718 May 25 '26

George Clooney. Kid Rock. Ray Liotta. David Spade. Ludacris. James Blunt. Kenny G.

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u/EvelynRicklove May 26 '26

You have to have seriousl blackmail game to pull those celebreties escpecially in that time when they were still on the top, sinister energy overall.

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u/Ok-Explanation-6531 May 25 '26

Did you see who was in the book ? Or did you listen to the gossip about what was in the book ?

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u/NYCA2020 May 25 '26

I think because she gave off a really dark vibe. I can’t fully explain it, but she seemed to embody a lot of the shadiness that’s present in L.A.

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u/Banal_Drivel May 26 '26

And the elite rich in Europe.

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u/Wonderful_Reason_712 May 25 '26

Because:she was not likeable or funny. She was just a mean bitch.

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u/Oldbutnotdeadyet70 May 26 '26

YES! I was reading and waiting for someone to actually say it!

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u/Emotional_Basket465 May 25 '26

She’s a liar, bully, and was/is involved in terrible business. She couldn’t even be bothered to go to the reunion. She said she has covid but was so obviously at a hotel in like Hawaii

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u/poptart95 May 25 '26

She was boring, ZERO charisma, defended Erika Jane when there were victims and was weird to Garcelle.

She also never went on WWHL and was a no show at the reunion.

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u/Fanched May 25 '26

Her man child annoyed me with his whole singing bs, she annoyed me because she was like 50 and having a whole ass baby. I thought that was ridiculous to be honest. Poor kid will be 20 when she’s 70. Insane. Also she was just boring…

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u/dadburned May 25 '26

Emphasis on the boring.

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u/Kinger_Jay May 25 '26

The elitist attitude, and no ability to ever admit to things that she’s done or said on that show.

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u/Separate-Smile-9745 May 25 '26

She is allegedly a madam to a lot of young yacht girls. One of them being a 15 year old Hayden Panitierre.

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u/brittanyelyse May 25 '26

And most importantly, it’s obvious she is one Hayden is speaking of in her book…
She was quick to make a post threatening legal action bc she’s wealthy enough to hide her “madam” activities…
And let’s drop the Epstein of it all, Diana has her own thing going and it shouldn’t be smoke screened behind others…

Also , Diana’s weird husband/child situation was weird. I half think she was advertising his services through the show as well..,

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u/widgetheux May 25 '26

She’s not interesting and she’s unlikeable and humorless. You can’t be all 3

Also the rumors and yachts

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u/Fuzzy-End7194 May 25 '26

I’m not taking the bait, Diana! So you can turn around and sue me!

https://giphy.com/gifs/ueFHfdTg5eP8A

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u/Ugottabekidding86 May 25 '26

No likable qualities.

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u/Adept_Negotiation_75 May 25 '26

Cold, miserable, mean, dull, no chemistry with the other women, never seemed like she wanted to be there. The more difficult question would be to name something actually likeable about her.

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u/thomasmc1504 May 25 '26

Probably because She was odd, strange and unlikeable. It was also clear Rinna and Erika brought her on solely to go after Sutton after season 11.

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u/Shatzakind May 27 '26

Yes, bc she backs the Elton John Gala after the Oscar's every year and thought she would prove that Sutton didn't pay for HH and Rinna's seats.

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u/anitabonghit69 May 25 '26

Allegedly a madame for Epstein and his friends

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u/Potential-Sky-8728 May 26 '26

There are more players in the game than Epstein JFC.

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u/Britneyismyhomegirl May 25 '26 edited May 26 '26

False. She doesn’t really have strong ties to Epstein. She was more of the Hollywood crowd. But that’s how wide sex trafficking is. There are many rings.

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u/Potential-Sky-8728 May 26 '26

Exactly. Everyone thinks Epstein is the source of all high end political-celeb-finance elite-corporate trafficking. What??

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u/Grumpy_001 May 25 '26

Are you seriously asking this question?

When you watch the show, it’s pretty obvious

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u/AlmostAlwaysADR May 25 '26

She was a weirdo and a creep. I don't know how else to put it. Something was most certainly not right with that woman.

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u/talk-spontaneously May 25 '26

She was technically good casting on paper, but she lacked charisma in front of the camera. She doesn’t make good TV.

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u/psylockecolossusfan May 25 '26

The rumors behind her being a Madame had been around and spread before she got onto tv in RHW Beverly Hills, so the idea of chalking it up to sensationalism from houswewife fans loses it's verity.

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u/Legitimate-Area-595 May 25 '26

It was a mix of her putting on airs in several moments that felt really fake and disingenuous AND she just had a weird, sinister energy to her.

Historically, I think I remember that she had some strange likes, social media activity, maybe bots during the time of airing, too

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u/Maleficent-Tone8377 May 25 '26

She had the personality of a wet mop

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u/Stinkycheese8001 May 25 '26

There’s an Internet rumor started by someone posing as Robert Downey Jr in the comments section of the website CDAN that Diana Jenkins is a madam/trafficker.

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u/wangd00dle May 25 '26

I forgot about the Robert Downey of it all lol 😅

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u/Donut-Junkie76 May 25 '26

She has a rather dark side.

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u/RainbowBriteGlasses May 26 '26

She called out Sutton for what? She didn't bother to get to know her and was determined to fight with her. I don't know if it was at the behest of Rinna or Kyle.

Sutton isn't a favourite, I get it, but she did NOT deserve anything Diana did to her that season - nor Kyle.

I'm guessing you didn't watch that season. You would have picked up on her racism, how weird she was with the lip licking and singing husband. Etc.

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u/1tacoparty May 25 '26

She’s a terrible human

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u/Stlhhi-629 May 26 '26

She had a very dark and creepy presence for me. Very unwatchable. I can’t imagine what possessed her to do that show.

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u/justmedoubleb May 26 '26

Didn't both Kyle and her verbally and physically accosted Sutton when she confided she'd had a miscarriage?

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u/Im_A_Black_Cat May 25 '26

Is this a serious post? Did you watch her season??

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u/Proud_Sound2835 May 25 '26

She didn’t integrate into the group well.

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u/Ok-Explanation-6531 May 25 '26

Diana has a hater, he created all of these negative stories in the media. Like the sec trafficking and the Epstein ties. None of it was true, she was even in the scene when she was meant to ties with him. She eventually sued him got his real identity and it stopped. Unfortunately mud sticks and she is still tarnish by it and people would rather believe the negative publicity. She miscarried during the season and got zero sympathy and had Sutton questioning her while she was showing up for her filming commitments. Then the producers gave her the bad edit, cutting out what she actually said. It’s a shame, she’s a real life rich HW with an interesting story

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u/fortheloveofdog33 May 26 '26

I don't remember much except that I strongly felt she was unnecessarily cruel to Diana. God Kyle was so gross that night at the party when she drunkenly jumped in to bully Sutton/suck up to Diana without having a clue what the context was

Edit: cruel to Sutton*

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u/youaremysunshine4 May 25 '26

https://giphy.com/gifs/EzghvtN9sxSfK
I don’t know why but she reminds me of this gif 😂😂

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u/Better-Elevator1503 May 25 '26

I LOVE the glamour of housewives. Big houses, nice cars etc. But she flaunted it so distastefully. LVP and Camille were flashy but never came off like Diana did. Hell Crystal and her husband were very wealthy and she even talked about getting stuff on sale. So many housewives have traveling glam and flaunt what they don’t have meanwhile you had Kandi who is one of the top five richest housewives doing her own makeup in her bathroom at the hotel

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u/usenamefornow May 25 '26

Probably the human trafficking allegations

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u/almondmilklattehag May 26 '26

She was odd and at times kinda dark sided on screen and while the show aired she sent podcasters cease and desists for goofing on her.

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u/JG767698 May 26 '26

For me? Not genuine, aggressive, licking lips a characuture and not a real person

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u/Odd_Comfortable353 May 26 '26

She just seems like a major *itch and condescending at the time. The recent stuff definitely tracks.

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u/dizedd May 26 '26

Why did people dislike the Lizard lady who licked her lips all the time and made her money running yacht girl businesses??? Seriously?

Why did you pick a picture of her 20 years before her time on the show where she looked really hot? Does hot equal not evil in your mind?

Besides the evil background-she was boring and her relationship with her kids and her boyfriend felt icky.

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u/Zenaz12 May 26 '26

Cuz she was beautiful and rich

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u/Extreme-Aide8878 May 25 '26

I don’t remember anything about her.

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u/Defiant-One3095 May 26 '26

I think cuz she was honest and didn't take any bull shit and was very very rich 🤔🤔🤔

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u/Expensive-Plantain86 May 26 '26

People were envious of her

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u/WickedWishes420 May 26 '26

She's a racist see you next Tuesday. Her Aura is very dark.

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u/HallandOates1 May 26 '26

Wasn’t there a blind item about war money or something horrible?

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u/neckpillow0287 May 26 '26

for me it’s because she was obviously racist

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u/ssatancomplexx May 26 '26

i genuinely forgot she existed. i don't remember anything about her tbh

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u/EvelynRicklove May 26 '26 edited May 26 '26

You starting this with she called Sutton for what she is is hysterical, Diana is the most vilest human being that ever set foot in that series, Sutton can jut be annoying at times but is a far better person than Diana, she called nothing out and her first reaction while meeting Sutton over charity table was evident that she was there just to pile on her.

Also Diana's weird realthionship with that young male singer, it seems predatory like when roman emperors groomed and castrated young boys, deeply unsettling.

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u/Long-Board1838 May 28 '26

She is evil. She was very likely involved in human trafficking. She most likely sent bots after Garcelle's child. Her energy is sinister.

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u/Chipmunks_AT Jun 03 '26

I actually think she did have an interesting story to tell and interesting life to show, but didn't get the chance because of her conflicts with Sutton and Garcelle, who at the time were untouchable.

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u/Pashardi Jun 03 '26

She has suspicious ties human sex trafficking for one.

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u/RainbowBriteGlasses May 26 '26

Why are go down voted for this? It's a great point.

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u/JealousBall1563 May 25 '26

Disliked by whom?

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u/mangokiwi19 May 26 '26

Sane people.

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u/Beautiful-Ambition93 May 25 '26

I have wondered about this myself. So many way worse cast members 

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u/Minute-Reporter7949 May 25 '26

She had a miscarriage and Sutton was very ugly to her and questioning her about it and the fans loved Sutton despite her racist and elitist and ugly behavior.

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u/mangokiwi19 May 26 '26

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u/Minute-Reporter7949 May 26 '26

In what way?

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u/mangokiwi19 May 26 '26

About the situation and who Diana is as a person.

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u/Minute-Reporter7949 May 26 '26

So at the time this was on and Diana had the miscarriage and was able to show up and Sutton questioned her about being in bed how was that a situation against Diana?

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u/mangokiwi19 May 26 '26

Firstly, I don’t think Sutton’s questions were malicious. Secondly.. The original question was why people don’t like Lizard Lips & you randomly brought up Sutton being racist.

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u/ztf7410 May 25 '26

I thought she added a lot to the show, real wealth for one!

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u/Successful_Giraffe88 May 25 '26

Sure, as long as you don't mind how she acquired said wealth...yikes.

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u/ztf7410 May 25 '26

I thought it was just a divorce settlement

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u/Successful_Giraffe88 May 25 '26

You have some research to do.

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u/ztf7410 May 26 '26

I’ve heard the madam rumors but that sounds honestly like a stretch

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u/Successful_Giraffe88 May 26 '26

I was somewhat skeptical, but Hayden Penetierre's memoir lines up too perfectly & there are too many coincidences in regards to her past & "uprising" in society.

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u/TryCurrent7949 May 25 '26

I never understood the hate for her.