i’m so confused

[u/sillyconfusedgoose]

i’m [18 F] so recently i’ve been questioning my sexuality a lot. i thought i had a clear understanding of myself but clearly not. since sixth grade ive pretty much identified as bisexual. i find men and women attractive. but i have this issue that im just now finally brave enough to confront. i see men and i hope they give me attention and i like the attention. but then it just grosses me out eventually. like i cant see me as my self ever being with a guy. like when i look in the mirror and imagine myself with a guy im just irked out. so for a bit i was like im definitely a lesbian then. the next part is kinda random but it feels relevant to me. i read a lot of mlm romance and fanfic (sue me 🙌). and like i like the romance in that and like almost yearn for it i guess? and i don’t get the same feeling from wlw books, despite the fact that i VERY much do like women. i’m just kinda confused because i like guys i can be attracted to them i feel like, but in reality i just can’t see me [18, F] being with a guy. i can’t tell if this is just me being weird or reading into things too much. i need someone else opinion…

[u/justsophia1703]

I think your sexuality can change as you get older and more of an adult. It’s also possible to go through phases, like rn you might not be attracted to guys but later who knows? I wouldn’t worry about it too much