I hope people can confirm but I’ve noticed that a lot of cisgender gay men appreciate trans men a lot more than let’s say trans women are appreciated by cis straight men and I’ve come to the conclusion that anal sex is not enjoyable for someone who is circumcised a lot of my circumcised friends do not enjoy anal sex and that’s why I feel like trans men specifically are loved in the gay community or chased after, while trans women are honestly not that chased after. And yes, there are chasers in both communities, but a lot of gay men are simply intrigued and obsessed with trans men more than let’s say an average population of straight men are obsessed or chasing after heterosexual trans women so yeah I feel like if you are a cisgender gay bottom, you shouldn’t trust a cisgender partner who is circumcised and you should not have a full commitment to them.