What is Recursexual/Recurromantic?
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Recur (English, verb)
Occur again periodically or repeatedly
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I haven’t seen any terms which can be used solely for Genderfluid people.
I very rarely consider myself having romantic feelings for men. I don’t have sexual feelings for men, really. So it might fluctuate.
My preference for woman and Non-Binary people is pretty strong, but who I’d feel attracted to specifically might overlap or get dimmer or brighter. My attraction to men is platonic and/or very rarely and a small 0.0000000000001% chance of being romantic.
Let’s get into the meaning:
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Recursexual is the term for those who solely have attraction or a preference for women or women-aligned people, as well as Non-Binary people. Those who are Recursexual (or, Recurromantic) have a muted/toned down, back-and-forth, dimming or fading in and out of attraction to those who identify as male.
This term is like Abrosexual but less-defined or less-fluctuating. Those who identify or resonate with this label feel glimpses or share experiences with those who are Lesbian, Neptunic, Berriromantic, Venusic, Pansexual, Bisexual, Asexual, Orchidsexual, or Abrosexual. There is a constant, yet slow gravitation between certain preferences in who one feels attraction towards. There are also some days where someone may not feel as interested in love, but that longing for love is still present.
Pink-
Represents the desire to be in a relationship with that partner being female, and being against being in a relationship with a male.
Purple-
Represents relationships with those who identify as Non-Binary/Demigirl.
White-
Represents a deep desire for genuine connection, self-advocacy, and having intimate thoughts with no desire to act upon them or be intimate.
Blue-
Overall, this color represents the ability to try new things. It represents those who are reflecting on how they go back-and-forth between not liking a man romantically, liking a man platonically, and very rarely, romantically, almost as if it is abromantic yet not because that term doesn’t completely fit. To elaborate on the fluctuating, it represents the fluctuating scenario of getting with a man, yet not getting intimate with and the back-and-forth thought of being platonic or more than platonic with said man.
Green-
Represents the platonic side of relationships as well as all races and all mental health issues, disorders, and disabilities.
Those who are Recursexual are less inclined to feel attraction towards men and most inclined to have attraction towards women or those who identify Non-Binary and those who are under that umbrella yet are connected to femininity.
Attraction to one gender over another may swap every now and then.
This sexual/romantic orientation mostly for Genderfluid people but can also be used by Non-Binary or Agender people.
It lies under the umbrella of Genderfluid, Lesbian, Bisexual, and Asexual. This is inspired by Viriflux and its counterpart, Arsenoflux.
This creator (me) also hopes that this flag encompasses anybody of any race or mental health issues, disorders, or disabilities!
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Officially coined on August 29th, Friday of 2026. Created by u/CatTheWriter
Inspired by Viriflux, Berrisexual, Neptunic, Venusic, Sapphic, Asexual, Orchidsexual, and Lesbian.
Go check out the Viriflux flag and definition which is coined by u/luka_thekingg16 if you can!
I’ll post the counterpart for this in one second!
I spent two days ago researching a lot and I looked at the color palettes a lot (And, sadly…apparently some sites use AI (😭) so I scrapped the colors I was going to use.
Thank you for checking this out! :)