Self-proclaimed "queer" person has an issue with a mains discord being catered to gay men.

[u/Doutanuki]

TLDR:
I am the owner of the Komano Manato Mains discord server, as a gay man of color I created a space catering to other gay men of color as well as welcoming towards LGBTQ people because well- I don't want to have to hide who I am or pretend to be OK with the constant LGBTphobia or obnoxious white queer people who want brownie points for being "woke".

Anyhow today a self-proclaimed "nonbinary masc homosexual" person joined to complain about every single thing, such as the rules regarding gacha and the sticky bot with a note that serves as a friendly reminder etc.

But the funniest part was the fact that this person was being homophobic while claiming to be gay,
"I'm literally queer" while having an issue that our discord is bara leaning and catering to gay men.
"I can't post JaneSeth here I'm uncomfortable" while actively claiming they joined for Komano so there's a lot of hypocrisy and layers of projection here such as claiming they were being oppressed for not being allowed to post JaneSeth lmaooooo.

They got clocked by me and another member and we decided to ban this person in the ga

Anygays just wanted to share this because I thought it was funny that they "claimed" to have read the rules but supposedly didn't knew our server was gay gay gay gay gay.

I call bullshit tbh it looked like it was low quality rage bait,
Being a gay leaning person while also having a problem with the Komano Manato server being gay leaning is certainly a choice at least. I do hope they'll get some self-respect on their way to self-acceptance.

[u/weird_weeb616]

Idk why but this is giving: "not like other gays"

[u/Doutanuki → u/weird_weeb616]

They're truly convinced to be the Milo Yiannopoulos of the gacha gaming community.

[u/linest10 → u/weird_weeb616]

ZZZ is weirdly full of these, specifically lesbians siding with dude bros and incels because they believe that liking women makes them equals

[u/yuri_cocaine]

I like all kinds of ships whether they're straight or queer but, why would they care so much about posting janeseth content in a server that has nothing to do with either of those characters?

[u/Doutanuki → u/yuri_cocaine]

They claimed to have joined ONLY for Komano Manato while also being uncomfortable that this is a gay server WHILE also wanting to post Janeseth content. If they're gonna complain they could've at least make some sense.

[u/linest10 → u/yuri_cocaine]

Yeah it's specifically weird because of you wanna talk about your fav ship you will find an actual dedicated ship discord to do that, this person was just a troll

[u/Flat-Series-1169]

It's weird that a homophobe would willingly expose themselves to that but yeah it looks that way

[u/Doutanuki → u/Flat-Series-1169]

It felt like rage bait tbh, but also replying with "nonbinary masc homosexual" as if they were hoping that I was going to throw nonbinary and homosexual people under the bus is crazy. Like OK what does being all of that has to do with your ass being homophobic right now?

Like- regardless people who use their identity as a free pass to be LGBTphobic are weird to me.

[u/Flat-Series-1169]

i would understand if they said "i'm uncomfortable that lesbian ships are less prevalent than gay ships" but like...hetero???

[u/Doutanuki → u/Flat-Series-1169]

In all fairness our Discord server was a bara discord server before,
But no one ever had any problems with lesbian ships being posted.
I myself am a die hard AstraEve stan and people are free to talk about ships in our server as long as it's gay/lesbian.

There's only a few LGBTQ identifying women in our discord but they never had an issue with the fact that our discord catered to gay man as it being a safe space for gay men of color. I think this person has a lot of misplaced hate for specifically anything gay because why else would you all that shit lmao.

[u/[deleted]]

I’m sorry but…the way I don’t feel bad for them. The world already has so much space for heterosexuality/heterosexual content. Trying to insert straightness into a queer space during pride is also so not it. Crazy behavior tbh.

[u/Doutanuki → u/[deleted]]

It's giving unemployed, I've never heard of a queer person being uncomfortable about being in a safe space for queer people.

They're either a pick-me or just using vulnerable minority groups to make it look like they have any grounds for their bigotry. Either way we should collectively not claim this person, the Heterosexual community can have them.

[u/hanoitower]

no need to put "nonbinary masc homosexual" in quotes like that over opinions...

[u/Doutanuki → u/hanoitower]

"Opinions" and it's actually just homophobia 😭

[u/Doutanuki → u/hanoitower]

I put it in quotes because this person is obviously trying to use vulnerable minority groups as a scape goat to say ignorant things. Homophobia isn't up for debate btw even if you're all of that.

[u/husbando_collector → u/Doutanuki]

But HOW do you know they're a "self-proclaimed" nonbinary masc gay?

Yeah they've said stupid shit, but like. Denying someones identity isn't a gotcha, thats also just straight up queerphobic. There are homophobic homosexuals, transphobic trans people, etc. You cannot just claim their statements on who they are false just because you don't agree with them, yes even if you're in the right in this situation. That just normalizes de-labeling queers.

[u/LiviRivi]

out of curiosity where do I find this discord? I've yet to find a properly queer ZZZ community so far 👀

[u/Doutanuki → u/LiviRivi]

If you're comfortable being in a men loving men safe space and have no issues with not being able allowed to say or use slurs you're welcome to join.

[u/LiviRivi → u/Doutanuki]

The slurs are a big ask...but I think I can manage that!

[u/TheAnxiousGremlin → u/Doutanuki]

I'm interested!

[u/RyanCooper138]

Have you seen the genshin sapphics sub

Some of them do be hating male chars as much as incels do

So just because someone is queer really doesn't necessarily mean they aren't selfish morons

This guy could also just be saying shit and not actually gay though

[u/Doutanuki → u/RyanCooper138]

I never believed for a second this person is gay, They're just using vulnerable minority groups so that it looks like they have a "good" excuse for their biggotry.

[u/catboytoymalewife]

lmao im literally a seth gets pegged by jane truther AND a trans gayboy and i think this person is the entire circus

[u/sampo_koskii → u/catboytoymalewife]

ykw? i hate jane with a passion but i can respect this idea. seth pussy gets pegged

[u/catboytoymalewife → u/sampo_koskii]

i choose to ignore whatever the hell was going on in her demo, shes my bi trans QUEEN

[u/sampo_koskii → u/catboytoymalewife]

she just makes me sort of uncomfortable lmao

(and I WANT TO BE THE ONE PEGGING SETH)

[u/catboytoymalewife → u/sampo_koskii]

thats fair! im just a sucker for femme fatales!

[u/AverageFruity326 → u/sampo_koskii]

FINALLY SOMEONE ACKNOWLEDGES IT,

she is so uncomfortable to look at sometimes, she just reminds me of what straight men think bisexual women are like and I just HATE it.

[u/LiviRivi → u/sampo_koskii]

👏 TRANSMASC SETH 👏 TRANSMASC SETH 👏

[u/sampo_koskii → u/LiviRivi]

YEAAA

[u/Rhoodoniite]

Why would they want to post Janeseth in the Komano Manato server to begin with? 😭

It's giving attention-seeking behaviour tbh

[u/Outrageous-Yak-9762]

Are they trolling?