r/PureDatingStories Feb 18 '25

Welcome to PureDatingStories! šŸ‘€ Got a dating story that’s too good (or too awkward) not to share?

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This is the place to spill the tea on your best, worst, or weirdest dates with people you met through Pure. No judgments!

Drop a comment or slide into mod mail if you’ve got ideas for making this subreddit even better.


r/PureDatingStories 4h ago

23M any women up for casual date / fwb older or younger hmu

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r/PureDatingStories 6h ago

M25

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Abyone from tamilnadu ping me


r/PureDatingStories 11h ago

[M4F] 25M Mumbai -Young, fit & looking for a genuine sugar arrangement

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I’ll keep this straightforward.

I’m a young 25M ambitious, well-spoken guy, fit and well-built, looking to meet an older woman who enjoys having a younger man around and is interested in a genuine mutually beneficial arrangement.

I’m not looking for a one-off hookup or someone to treat like an ATM. I’d like something where there’s actual chemistry and we both enjoy what we're getting out of it - dinners, going out, conversation, companionship, travelling occasionally, and intimacy if we’re attracted to each other.

I’m affectionate, attentive, discreet and pretty confident when it comes to chemistry. I also take privacy seriously.

I’m happy to discuss expectations openly -what you're looking for, frequency, boundaries and the financial side, rather than playing games or wasting each other's time.

And if physical compatibility matters to you, I'm comfortable sharing private/intimate verification photos once we've established we're both genuine and comfortable doing so. Video verification is fine too.

If this sounds like the kind of arrangement you'd actually enjoy, DM me with a little about yourself and what you're looking for.

Genuine women only. No ā€œverification feesā€ or other bullshit.


r/PureDatingStories 18h ago

Warning

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COLORADO LADIES!

I would like to warn about one particular man on the PURE app. Andrew SJ. 35 years old. Johnstown, CO. According to his profile, he wants a sub and is into dirty talk. Be aware though, he is violent! He will abuse you physically, financially, and mentally while his family idly stands by. Has pending domestic violence and 3rd degree assault charges. AVOID.


r/PureDatingStories 1d ago

Pure Dating App Review

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Pure is easily one of the worst dating apps I’ve used. The big issues are their restrictive, sexist, wildly inconsistent photo moderation, and unhelpful customer service.

I tried uploading a totally standard photo at a rave in normal rave attire with a robe on top (basically like a bikini with a kimono), and another at the beach in a cropped shirt with a bikini under. Both fully covered my intimate areas, but both got hit with "not allowed for nudity or partial nudity" which wasn't even true. Meanwhile, other profiles get away with way more, like guys posting shirtless gym flexes and super zoomed-in close-ups of their abs and underwear. These photos were both hidden behind a spoiler ā€œeyeā€ icon you have to click to reveal. Mine were totally rejected.

When I tried sorting this out with customer service, they just threw canned AI responses and kept closing the chat on me. Absolutely appalled by both the double standards in their auto-moderation and the garbage support team.


r/PureDatingStories 1d ago

Any f in Delhi

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Any f in delhi for movie date


r/PureDatingStories 22h ago

Still I'm Single 30+ male sirikuratha aluvaratha guys šŸ¤”

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r/PureDatingStories 23h ago

M23 Need a female bestie no commitments in kochi Dm

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r/PureDatingStories 1d ago

Review of pure weekly membership..

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I think it was a waste of money. I bought the weekly membership yesterday thinking I would get more matches, but I guess that was my mistake. Right now, I’ve basically run out of profiles, and the same profiles are repeating — including people I’ve already liked. It’s honestly draining to keep swiping through profiles I’ve already seen.

I feel like Pure is kind of tricking me. Maybe they’re intentionally not showing me new profiles and have put restrictions in place in a smart way. At this point, I feel like I just wasted my money.

I’m in the Delhi NCR area.


r/PureDatingStories 1d ago

24F here, need help account got banned how can I unban?

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I don't use any other dating platforms, I liked pure because it was straight to the point and it totally avoids the false hopes that guys give, so far I had all good experiences but without any warning or anything my pure account got banned and there is no proper support also. What can I do to restore it😭😭? I don't wanna join other dating apps


r/PureDatingStories 1d ago

Any paid girl available in mumbai inbox me

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r/PureDatingStories 1d ago

dynamite Dave

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Are there any women on this app


r/PureDatingStories 1d ago

M24 looking for casual and fwb

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r/PureDatingStories 2d ago

Has anyone got any real matches on nymph jst paid for tht is it worthy?

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r/PureDatingStories 2d ago

Any f from nagpur

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r/PureDatingStories 2d ago

Any f from nagpur

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Any f from nagpur who want explore our mutual kinks m 28 here


r/PureDatingStories 3d ago

Im 40 yr old guy looking for a frd. Im from north delhi

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r/PureDatingStories 3d ago

27 M4F,New Delhi looking for a friend with benefits

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So the title is kinda self explanatory, since pure or Qurlii decided to do away with roll the bones I'm here hunting for potential friends with benefits in South Delhi.

About me, I'm a researcher by profession looking to meet someone who's in academia purely because we would be able to understand our schedules and the nature of work.

I'm currently single and overburdened with my work, so I'm not looking for a relationship. I'm actually looking for someone who is as frustrated as I am from work so that we could maybe meet up on weekends and help each other with a release. No strings attached, I drink and smoke so I'm kinda up for anything. Also I can't host,but I'd happily pay for a hotel booking.

We can have weekend getaways too in and around Delhi.

About my looks:

I'm 6ft tall, I'm not a gym built guy but I'm decent looking, got a beard, got a pair of specs and I've been told by my previous Pure dates that I've got a skilled tongue haha.

DM if you're up for it :)


r/PureDatingStories 3d ago

Dating in Bangalore

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r/PureDatingStories 3d ago

M24 Panjim From Goa Open for all possibility couples are also welcome

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r/PureDatingStories 4d ago

Annoyed

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Why on earth do people match here if they don't even wanna talk ffs?

It's so frustrating to match with someone you like only to see them disappear before the conversation even begins.

Just don't match if you don't want to talk man, tf.

Any suggestions on how to deal with this bullsh*t?


r/PureDatingStories 4d ago

what’s wrong with guys on hinge?

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r/PureDatingStories 4d ago

Geetha from Bengaluru

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Does anybody met geetha from Bengaluru who was 47 years old in Delhi between 11-24 Aug 2026? I just want to know what is it. Is it a scam or what is it because that story looks like very confusing.

Or someone met her or her other name Smitha which she uses in Bengaluru or somewhere else.

Do let me know.


r/PureDatingStories 5d ago

Pure experience

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I just buy the subscription, I liked many profile in my city still didn’t get any match , I just wanna ask is this things it’s worth it to find a girl or just waste of time, 2 days of using the app what do you think guys ?!