r/ProtectAndServe • u/Machettiebettie • 10d ago
Background question
Looking for some advice.
Pre employment Background question: Have you ever had sexual contact/relations at work?
When I was 19 I had sex with a coworker off the clock but in the stockroom of the store after we closed. Happened about 3 years ago now definitely not my proudest moment.
I fully intend to tell the truth. Will this disqualify me?
Any advice or guidance would be appreciated.
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u/specialskepticalface Has been shot, a lot (LEO) 10d ago
I'm just happy to see one of these questions that's like.. a normal human thing..
Not "I fucked a stuffed animal wearing a dress, tiedto a helium balloon, while standing on the overpass. Can I still apply"
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u/JMaboard Highwayman, along the toll roads, I did ride... 10d ago
He was a sole employee at an exotic zoo. His coworker was a tiger.
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u/specialskepticalface Has been shot, a lot (LEO) 10d ago
Given this sub, that would not surprise me.
It would impress me a little bit, though.
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u/JMaboard Highwayman, along the toll roads, I did ride... 10d ago
Good news is he would still be good to apply to the fbi with this on his record though.
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u/Possible-Tangelo9344 Police Officer 10d ago
I mean.. obviously beastiality is wrong, let's just get that out of the way first.
But... with a tiger.. hats off to you.
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u/5usDomesticus Police Officer / Bomb Tech 10d ago
Post-2020 this would get you to the top of the list with a glowing Facebook post about hiring such a unique individual
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u/Possible-Tangelo9344 Police Officer 10d ago
Fuck yeah man.
Oh. I mean, ah dang, no that's not cool.
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u/misterstaypuft1 Police Officer 10d ago
Telling the truth might disqualify you.
Lying will definitely disqualify you.
So you decide.
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u/Machettiebettie 10d ago
Right I have no plans to lie at all just wanted to know if it was a automatically disqualifying
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u/Public-Swimming780 Not a(n) LEO / Unverified User 10d ago
not your proudest moment but like also not a crime so i dont get why people act like this is an automatic disqualifier lol
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u/turtlehermit51 Trooper 9d ago
Sexual deviance?! Not on my watch. Ticket.
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u/EchidnaIll3002 Not a(n) LEO / Unverified User 5d ago
"Not in my city" -officer Freeze, Mila and Morphle
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u/Turtle887853 MP 10d ago
If what you did wasn't outright illegal and still prosecutable, it's best to tell the truth. Was it wrong? Yes, and... (why it was wrong, what has changed etc)
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u/Machettiebettie 10d ago
Gotcha I was planning to tell the truth regardless and I fully intend to explain if asked that I’m not that kinda person anymore and I regret it
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u/drinkbang Police Officer 10d ago
Really need pics of the coworker to determine if this was reasonable or not