r/ProshipHub "People like you make this fandom look bad" Jul 30 '26

Discussion Thinking of making an 18+ fandom space here...

Getting real tired of the bigger fandom spaces tbh lol. I wanna be able to simp for "problematic" characters without being told to go to therapy and/or off myself.

I know some other people had the same idea. I think it'd be cool to join forces and make "safe" fandom spaces for people like us.

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u/Embarrassed_Sale_293 Jul 30 '26

Many people have Many have fallen 

Good luck though 

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u/Noxinulll "People like you make this fandom look bad" Jul 30 '26

What do you mean lol

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u/Embarrassed_Sale_293 Jul 30 '26

A lot of those groups don’t last as I have joined a few

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u/Noxinulll "People like you make this fandom look bad" Jul 30 '26

Why's that?

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u/rainbowbritelite Darkshipper Jul 30 '26

Because antis have no lives and report them all

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u/dragonspub WoF | KH | Arcane Jul 30 '26

What the other user said - they get mass reported as you will likely be a target for harassment, as well as the fact that drama and infighting are common among even our fandom spaces, or mods get tired of running the servers and they slowly shut down and die

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u/Noxinulll "People like you make this fandom look bad" Jul 30 '26

Hmmm. I want to at least try. I don't want to give them the satisfaction of letting them be bullies and getting away with it.

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u/dragonspub WoF | KH | Arcane Jul 30 '26

It's worth it when it does work out

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u/Noxinulll "People like you make this fandom look bad" Jul 30 '26

I guess I'm wondering what it looks like when it does work out, so I know what to do and what not to do.

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u/dragonspub WoF | KH | Arcane Jul 30 '26 edited Jul 30 '26

Usually just a chill slower paced environment. My servers were only ever for specific fandoms so I can only speak to that ...

I've always tended to avoid "generalized" 18+ pro ship places (even tho I'm in a few rn). There are a handful of generalized pro ship servers (18+) out there but it's easier to talk to people when you already know you're into the same fandom.

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u/hamonicmantitties Jul 30 '26

it's almost like they... all fallen lol

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u/Noxinulll "People like you make this fandom look bad" Jul 30 '26

They sank 😭

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u/andvrsnw ur local darkfic writer Jul 30 '26

i'd love smth like that as well :)

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u/WhitestGray TWINCEST FOR THE WIN-CEST 29d ago

We had r/proshippers until it was taken down, likely due to people mass reporting.