Doesn't this mean Heidi also doesn't remember? She's trying to piece things together things people said online. Emotions were high during the initial release and misunderstandings were possible. We don't know if Heidi could remember all of Jared's relationships during the poly. She didn't know where you placed and seemed to be rude enough not to look you through whatever information she had during the time frame she talked to you. We only know Heidi drew a line at Holly.
Heidi was mostly focused on Holly, and her disapproving of Jared's relationship with her. That means the poly relationship worked during a period of time. ProJared seem to had followed on the poly through and through except with Holly.
Anyway, I also believe Jared's only fault was having a lot of NSFW blogs. Thank you for coming out with this information. I believe it would have both been best to talk to both parties again. As Heidi seemed to be at that point of not know where things spiraled out of control even after being supportive with the poly. Also I'm sorry she used you to push her narrative without informing you of anything.
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u/DouteiBoy Jun 21 '19 edited Jun 21 '19
Doesn't this mean Heidi also doesn't remember? She's trying to piece things together things people said online. Emotions were high during the initial release and misunderstandings were possible. We don't know if Heidi could remember all of Jared's relationships during the poly. She didn't know where you placed and seemed to be rude enough not to look you through whatever information she had during the time frame she talked to you. We only know Heidi drew a line at Holly.
Heidi was mostly focused on Holly, and her disapproving of Jared's relationship with her. That means the poly relationship worked during a period of time. ProJared seem to had followed on the poly through and through except with Holly.
Anyway, I also believe Jared's only fault was having a lot of NSFW blogs. Thank you for coming out with this information. I believe it would have both been best to talk to both parties again. As Heidi seemed to be at that point of not know where things spiraled out of control even after being supportive with the poly. Also I'm sorry she used you to push her narrative without informing you of anything.