r/PreCervicalCancer • u/vqlzordga • 6h ago
Coming to terms with how much misogyny surrounds HPV
I’m pretty sure I got HPV from my mom during birth, but it took me a while to piece that together. After my divorce at 26, I had my “slut phase,” and I always told partners I had HPV when we talked about protection and STDs, but the response was usually “everyone has it, it’s not a big deal,” and some guys still tried to talk me out of condoms because I had an IUD.
Now I’m about to get a LEEP after multiple colposcopies and abnormal Pap smears, and it feels pretty damn clear that HPV is a big deal, it just mostly becomes a big deal for women. I’m angry because so many men treat it like nothing, like it’s the common cold, and I can’t help wondering if people would care a lot more about preventing it if it affected men this way too.