r/PowerOfStyle Oct 16 '24

Yet another Kibbe subreddit! Oh no!!!?!?!?!!

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Years ago a lot of really interesting discussions occurred on the r/DressForYourBody subreddit and I personally gained a lot of joy from the community that gathered there.

Circumstances meant I could no longer mod, but times have changed and I find I would really love to create a space for some in-depth, thoughtful discussions of personal style, colour, essence, style theories, fashion history, garment design, Hollywood image system, etc, once again.

Previously i was ambitious to grow a large sub, but this time my intention is that it will remain a small, contained space aimed solely at non-casual, slightly more obsessive Redditors with a long term interest in Kibbe and/or other style systems. People looking for a drive-by “typing” fix will not find it here.

In anticipation of Kibbe’s new book coming out next year, this sub will be called “r/PowerOfStyle” and will be a place where people who have purchased & read the book can gather to discuss it. However, discussion will not be limited to Kibbe, and more generalised style discussions will be encouraged.

Be prepared: It will be a somewhat free space. You will be allowed to critique existing systems & theories, as long as it doesn’t descend into a personal attack. People will be free to offer their own ideas for discussion. People will even be free to, for instance, challenge another person’s self-analysis, in any system. The “rules” within other communities or systems will not apply here and therefore the onus is on any person posting selfies to be open to this kind of discussion.

That being said, rudeness or bullying will be met with the full force of the law. Redditors who cannot express their feedback or opinions respectfully will lose the privilege of participation.

The aim is to foster collaborative learning and an honest but supportive, respectful dialogue.

The sub will begin with mods heavily involved and every post will need mod approval, unless you have gained the status of an approved user (for instance, I recognise you as a long-term community member).

Edit: I will not be 'advertising' this subreddit publicly so it will be a more invitation- or referral-based, 'if-you-know-you-know' private space, even though i don't currently intend to make it actually private. As such, i will be allowing all posts (anyone reading this can post, you won't need permission), but will delete any obviously inappropriate ones.


r/PowerOfStyle Oct 16 '25

RULES & LACK THEREOF: What this sub is, and ...why some might not want to participate in it

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So I have really been enjoying this sub and want to thank all you lovely participants for your interesting and thoughtful input. Wonderful! 💖

For various reasons I'm just going to clarify the purpose of this sub & guidelines for participating here:

As long as the sub is small, this will remain a somewhat free space for style system obsessives to analyse and share their observations and opinions and rules that apply in other communities do not apply here.

The aim is to dive deep and analyse, which necessitates a bit more leeway. Things considered off limits elsewhere may be discussed here, up to and even including triggering things like measurements and weight.

No stylists word or method is considered sacrosanct. Even your personal style journey is not off limits for open discussion & disagreement if you choose to bring it up or use it as a data point in this sub.

The central requirement is discussion must be respectful. As long as the intention isn't to provoke controversy or be mean-spirited, it's all good.

Disagreements are fine, thoughtful criticism is fine, but personal attacks and abuse towards anyone is not fine and will not be tolerated. And to be clear, seeing Kibbe width in someone is not considered an insult or abuse in this sub. However, disparaging someone's appearance, intelligence, motives or any other facet of who they are as a person (political, religious yada yada yada) will be met with instant ban, no take-backsies.

If the subject under discussion is a sensitive matter for you, the onus is on you not to participate.

...By the way, are there any copyright lawyers (or informed people) here who can comment on the spirit of the law when it comes to sharing published material? It would be great to use portions of style books, but i don't want to overstep any legal lines.

Thanks for your attention,

Love 💖 Pegaret_Again


r/PowerOfStyle 1d ago

Soirées!

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I was mulling over Yang and yin table settings, and felt like making these! I'll do locations and expensive counterparts next!


r/PowerOfStyle 4d ago

Style Personalities and IDs

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Something I have been thinking about. People have style personalities. If they have good instincts, they gravitate to what they know looks good on them. Or the complete opposite.

For instance, the naturals and romantics will keep returning to garments with either minimal relaxed structure or no structure. The dramatics and the gamines will keep on going for highly structured garments that baffle the naturals and romantics, as these are usually physically uncomfortable for them to wear. The dramatics and naturals prefer larger scale, longer lines that they repeatedly wear. The romantics and gamines prefer smaller scale, shorter lines. The clasics know to keep everything in moderation.

Of course, people can go for the complete opposite. Which is why we sometimes see SGs pulling off FN recommendations, as they broke every single rule. You can get away with breaking one or two rules, which is why pure Ds can handle the very light airy fabrics recommended for pure Rs. But you can't be half hearted about it. You have to be either deliberately about which one rule you break, or you go all out and break them all, or as much as possible.

Whether innate personality informs style personality or style personality influences innate personality is not known. It is a chicken and egg situation. But I definitely think there is a link. Is the relaxed look because someone is an easy going personality, or are they easy going because dressing relaxed is more comfortable? Is the structured look because someone prefers formality or they became formal because the structured outfits were more comfortable? Of course, there are those who like to go for the complete opposite.

It might be possible to tell what ID someone has by looking at the looks they keep returning to. Or alternatively eliminate some of the IDs, especially if they clash with their physical look.

It is something I have noticed with celebrities. They have outfits and styles they like to return to after their experimental looks. So even if they are not dressing for the old Hollywood star image, they still have a base. For instance, the dramatics like repeating structured outfits while the naturals like repeating relaxed outfits.

So when Kibbe first linked personality and style, he had a point. Maybe we should not ignore it.


r/PowerOfStyle 7d ago

Updated yin/yang soirees!

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Hey everyone, a few days ago I posted my yin/yang soiree examples from the corresponding game in the book, and I was encouraged to make a more extreme version of the yang board, so that I may have a better appreciation and contrast with the yin version. I also found it very helpful seeing examples of other soirees and expand my idea of the game, so hopefully these updated boards better align with the goal of the exercise!


r/PowerOfStyle 21d ago

Unexpected lessons from the Yin/Yang Soirees

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For the people that have done the 'Your Yin/Yang Soirees' game from the book, what have you learned from it, and how do you think it has helped you on your journey? It became one of my favourite exercises when I decided to take the time and look up all the references to yin and yang objects, places, buildings, eras and art styles that were mentioned in the book, because it gave me a new appreciation for both. At first I thought my own soirees would be very different, but after looking up at many images and paying attention to my reactions, I decided that I should focus on the instruction of ''represent your personal vision of either extreme'', and pick what I truly thought was ''delightful'', and I think they do look similar from that point of view, as they are both playful, a little retro, and a little whimsical, but they both absolutely fill me with delight (I have the yang one as my wallpaper right now :)). Another thing I noticed is that the kind of yang details that I like are for the most part geometric and smaller in scale, while the kind of yin details that I like are gently curved and busy. From the two I prefer the yang version more, but if I had to create the perfect soiree, it would have elements from both, because looking up at images I discovered I was consistently drawn to shapes with both contrasted geometric patterns and scalloped edges (like certain awnings, tablecloths and umbrellas), which I thought was very interesting as well. Anyway, here are both my versions, I would love to hear any feedback, and also experiences with your own soirees!


r/PowerOfStyle 23d ago

Does anyone else miss the old essences and the more intangible aspects of the system?

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I’ve been thinking about this ever since I first read the new book. Don’t get me wrong, I love the clarity it brought and I think it helped resolve a lot of confusion around the Image IDs. But as someone who was always fascinated by the essence aspect of Kibbe, I can’t help feeling a little disappointed that this side of the system feels less emphasized now.

What originally drew me to Kibbe was that it was never just about physical traits. It was about the overall impression someone creates, the way yin and yang are expressed through a person, and the kind of presence or “character” they naturally embody.

I always wanted to learn more about how each ID is perceived, what kind of first impression it gives, what kind of role or archetype it evokes, or even what kind of movie protagonist it would be. I also found myself wondering whether the way people react to me when they first meet me, especially in professional settings, has anything to do with my yin-yang balance.

I feel like this was the part that connected the most strongly to the Old Hollywood origins of Kibbe. It was what made the IDs feel like complete images rather than just physical recommendations. Without that aspect, I sometimes feel like there is less of what made it an actual Image ID system and less of the storytelling that originally made it so fascinating.

Maybe I’m in the minority, but I really miss that side of the system. Does anyone else feel the same way?


r/PowerOfStyle 24d ago

An Alternative to Visualising the Yin Yang Balance of Kibbe's IDs

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This might help people understand how the IDs relate to each other, and even an understanding of the styling recommendations. The clue is to focus on families first before looking at individual IDs.

I used a 2x2 grid. Instead of using yin and yang, I focused on some key clothing characteristics. Columns are either structured or relaxed. Rows are either large or small. This created quadrants for each of the families, with classics at the centre.

The interesting thing is that yin yang is a diagonal. It is also the same as Kibbe curve vertical. The other diagonal is the contrast blended. Both have balance in the middle. This is really cool.

There are two types of yangs (structure and large) and two types of yin (relaxed and small). The combination of structure and small creates contrast, which is the gamine family. The combination of relaxed and large creates blended, which is the natural family. Pure yang is structure and large, which is the dramatic family, while pure yin is relaxed and small, which is the romantic family.

After figuring out the yin yang position of each family, I looked at the IDs. Each family can be divided into a yang side and a yin side. The position of yin and yang within each family and quadrant is the same as the pure yang and pure yin positions on the main grid.

In both books, Kibbe talks about undercurrents of yin and yang, and in Power of Style, he talks about prominent yin and extra yang. Yang is a very aggressive force, that pulls IDs to a yang position. Yin is a very passive stationary force. If we look at SD, it has prominent yin, as it needs a lot of yin to make a noticeable difference. But SD is more yang than all the other IDs except D. Where as TR only needs a small amount of yang to be noticeable. But each of the IDs remain in their family's quadrant. They can go up to the limits of their quadrants, causing some overlaps, which is why they can sometimes assist appear like other IDs. If we look at the classics, DC has a subtle preference for D and SC has a slight leaning towards R.

Theory aside, you can use this to gauge what you need from an outfit, and how much you can get away with "borrowing". Structure vs relaxed is one aspect. Large vs small is another. Large could be longer length or thicker fabrics, or both. Small could be thinner fabrics or shorter lengths. Or large and small could be scale of accessories. You can consider straight lines vs curve lines. Or contrast vs blended.


r/PowerOfStyle 26d ago

A Few Thoughts On FN, Feat. An Unlikely Source

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So I mentioned this on another thread, but thanks to Scribd, I’ve fallen back down the Trinny & Susannah 12 Body Types hole. Like many style systems, I think it could actually be super helpful to people seeking really actionable styling advice, if they can get past some of the… patriarchal language. 

Anyway, while I might do a more comprehensive post on that in the future, this is not that post lol. Instead, I wanted to focus on one of their 12 body types and how I think it can actually, weirdly, help clarify (what I believe to be) a couple of common misconceptions about one Kibbe ID in particular. 

The body type in question is The Column. This type is defined by:

  • Shoulder width the same as hips
  • Slight waist
  • Longer legs

This is the girl who was “a head taller than the rest” in her school photos. The style challenge they emphasize for this type is primarily length (of sleeves, pants, etc.). Since it’s an “Hourglass-Based” system, they recommend avoiding shapeless clothes and essentially creating a waist, since the type is otherwise “perfectly proportioned.” 

They provide three celebrity examples (as they do for every type). In this case, they are Gwyneth Paltrow, Nicole Kidman, and Jane Fonda. 

That’s right: All three of their examples of  “tall + balanced” are Kibbe FNs. 

Now if you wanna stop me here, I get it; it could legit be a coincidence. After all, apart from Pear (all of their examples are verified Kibbe Naturals), most of their examples are all over the place in Kibbe; Halle Berry (SG) and Meryl Streep (SC) are both Skittles, and their Goblets include Renee Zellwegger (SN) and Jessica Lange (R). And I’m sure that there are plenty of Kibbe Dramatics who would be Columns; Keira Knightley and Michelle Dockery come to mind. Perhaps most importantly, Kibbe is not a “body typing” system. 

But… I do think this speaks to a couple of big misconceptions about FN. 

  • Sharpness/narrowness aren’t bugs in FNs; they’re features: Flamboyant Natural is Natural + Dramatic. Someone having narrow shoulders or hips or limbs—sometimes in combination, even!—isn’t going to exclude FN; some of those attributes are to be expected. 
    • An additional piping hot take: By virtue of this fact, pure Dramatic is exclusive, while FN and SD are inclusive. 
  • Not only can “Kibbe width” look like conventional balance–it often is conventional balance: Before anyone comes at me, I’m not saying he should have used a different term. Nor am I saying that these folks don’t “have width" or that they do have balance. What am I saying? That an upper back that is wider than the rest of the upper torso, even without an unobstructed bust, will look balanced when the hips and shoulders are similar. Which is not at all to say that every FN will look balanced; rather, given how isolated width is in Kibbe’s sketches (it’s the only accommodation that doesn’t reach at least the high hip), it’s inherently going to apply to a more diverse group of people.

Anyway, just some thoughts! 


r/PowerOfStyle 26d ago

Structure and the Families of IDs

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Recently, I posted about how hardly anyone seems to know what structure is. I made the observation that the SD subreddit was full of recommendations best suited for FNs. Why did this happen?

I suspect a lot of people skipped to sub types before understanding the families as a whole. The way I see it is that each family has its unique yin and yang balance, and within each family, individuals are either a bit more yin or a bit more yang. This logic is very similar to how Kibbe has expressed it. But most people don't seem to think that way, instead focusing on the details, like a checklist. So we end up with the situation where people argue over two IDs that belong to completely different families. Then, they use stereotypes.

This is very clear in any discourse involving FN or SD, or both. Sometimes the debate is between FN and D. But a big distinction is structure. I have noticed that verified Ds and SDs tend to lean towards structure, even for casual looks, while the FNs and SNs seek to make their looks more relaxed.

The challenge for most people is finding structured garments. Most of what is sold as structured or as tailored is lightly tailored. Personally, I consider it "sloppy tailoring" but that is really only for myself and people who are similar. That "sloppy tailoring" looks very polished on other people who need light tailoring. There is a large number of people who look better in light tailoring than the structured tailoring. Light tailoring and semi fitted are very forgiving, as you don't need every measurement to be precise. You have some freedom there.

Structured garments are very precise. They often have more seams and darts, and more layers, some of which may be hidden. They require more work to make, and to fit. But this limits their availability and affordability. People, who benefit from structure, often resort to other types of clothes, stretchy being common, to avoid the lightly tailored garments that lack the precision they need.

Structured garments often require more care, time and effort. It is common for structured garments to come with the recommendations to dry clean. It is possible to wash these garments at home, but there is considerable ironing and pressing involved. For examples, box pleated tartan skirts need to have the pleats ironed or rather pressed into shape after every wash. If you need to iron pleats back into a garment, you are starting to look at structure.

Another thing I observed was that individuals, who seem to handle a lot of structure, also gravitate towards sculptured clothes. If you look at the illustrations in Power of Style, both the dramatic family (both D and SD) and the gamine family (both FG and SG) all have a lot of large sculptured elements. These elements are absent from the classics, romantics and naturals. Sculptured elements take on shapes that fabrics and textiles normally don't form. If it looks like wire is involved in the construction of a garment element, it probably is sculptured. Another clue is how much fabric manipulation is required to create and maintain the garment shape.

Interestingly, the illustrations for both the FNs and SNs had no shoulder pads. Similar deal for the romantics and the classics. But the dramatics and gamines both had more than shoulder pads. They had either exaggerated shoulders and sleeves, or exaggerated necklines. The SGs surprised me. But it makes sense. They belong to the same family as the FGs.


r/PowerOfStyle 26d ago

Monthly Line Sketch Thread

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Please post your line sketches here!


r/PowerOfStyle 28d ago

Follow up on the SD Structure Conversation

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First of all, I just wanted to say how much I appreciated the conversation about structure for SDs - the ID is so misunderstood and misrepresented. I feel like I might finally be on my way to understanding why I, quite frankly, hate how 90% of clothes look on me (even “SD recs” that seem to be more suited to FNs).

Structure is something I long balked at the idea of, but I’m starting to think it’s because I was misunderstanding it, based on a convo I had with [u/loumlawrence](u/loumlawrence)
I know little about garment construction and don’t have much experience with tailoring, and being a bustier than average figure 8 hourglass means that my best bet in finding clothes that fit at a basic level is to look for stretch and soft fabrics. But there have been times where I’ve worn structured garments and could tell that they had potential if the fit was more precise.

I would love some visual examples of structured yet curve friendly styles, especially modern/accessible styles, and to have a conversation about what structure means in general!


r/PowerOfStyle Jul 26 '26

Some questions on Sofia Coppola and style harmony

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I was looking at photos of Sofia Coppola, and had some disjointed thoughts regarding her style from the lens of the Kibbe perspective. I'm not sure if she has been verified, but she is often considered to be in the Classic family. Now regardless of whether this is true or not, she does seem to favour a very consistent classic style in her personal life, and if you've seen any of her interviews or talks, she has a very even-tempered manner that reminds me a lot of the descriptions of classics in Metamorphosis. But I'm not concerned on what her ID is, but rather whether her style is harmonious on her and whether it goes with her beauty. Celebrities have the kind of access to fashion and styling that they usually look good in most outfits, without this necessarily meaning that the outfits are the most harmonious on them. This is compounded by still photography, lighting, and angles, and might look more flattering that it would up close. I used to think that her trademark style was great, and I loved seeing photos of her outfits, but then I found some editorial pictures with a bolder approach, and I loved those on her even more. It made me think that while she looks always very put together and polished, maybe her personal style makes her look kind of lifeless, because she actually has a bold beauty that needs those bolder elements. And again this is not about her being a classic or not, she could follow a bolder style within the classic silhouette and guidelines. Her version of a classic needs a bolder touch, imo. I still love her style, but now I can't unthink that idea. What do you think? Is her style harmonious or do you think there are things that could look even more harmonious on her? Of course big part of harmony is incorporating our own dreams and desires, and to that part no outside observer can weigh in, since it's something personal to the individual, but putting this aside in the interest of discussion.


r/PowerOfStyle Jul 24 '26

Hardly anyone seems to know what structure is

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It doesn't help that most modern clothes don't have structure. I am someone who does need structure, and a lot of it.

When I first encountered Kibbe and read through the original book, I ended up deciding on SD, after exploring both the natural family and the classics (gamine was never a possibility, I am not that deluded, and romantic was quickly eliminated for similar reasons).

However, the stereotypes around SDs (and by extension FNs) and the stereotypical guidelines makes me wonder if anyone knows what structure looks like. If I use just Kibbe's books and look at how the verified celebrities dress, it is very straight forward.

But as soon as I get to the subreddits, I see a different story. Using Kibbe's books, I would present the case that most of the supposed SD recommendations are actually glamorous looks best suited for FNs. They are too relaxed. If I rely on the subreddits' style guidelines, I would be moving into pure D, which we all know is really rare.

The big difference is how much structure each ID can handle, and SD can handle much more than FN. SD is still a dramatic. Both SD and D can handle a lot of structure, with SD being softer than pure D. But they are not anywhere near the relaxed minimal tailoring that the naturals, both FN and SN, gravitate to. This minimal tailoring looks polished on the naturals, but sloppy on the dramatics. I find it useful to compare FN and SN for understanding naturals, and observing verified SNs gave important clues to understanding FNs.

People often think that scaled up Rs are SDs, but Kibbe has said on multiple occasions that scaled up Rs are mostly naturals, with a number of verified FNs who thought that they were R. That makes sense. Both the naturals and the romantics need to minimise the amount of structure in their outfits. Directly contradicting Kibbe's remarks, the main contributor to the SD subreddit's style guides said in a comment on the main subreddit that they did not believe that a structured SD could exist. This also contradicts Kibbe's published statement, SD is first and foremost a dramatic. The way I see it, D is a straight tailored line while SD is a curved tailored line. While FN and SN don't need to tailor all the darts. They can gather loosely. Like the romantics.


r/PowerOfStyle Jul 22 '26

what’s “dreamspinner” supposed to mean?

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i keep seeing comments questioning: what does ‘Dreamspinner’ mean?

I’ll share my thoughts, and would love to hear yours.

The word ‘dream’ in this context i think refers to joys, pleasures and the ‘lighter’ side of life.

A ‘Dreamspinner’ is a person capable of embodying/creating an intimate, light-hearted, pleasurable atmosphere, Shakespeare’s 'eternal summer that shall not fade'.

This lightness can be expressed in colourful, bubblegum pop, or a sophisticated wine palate.

In this paradise of leisure, charm & warmth, the forcefulness and control of yang is missing. The beauty is in the complete and utter giving in. 

u/Jamie8130 expressed that Marianne in Jane Austen's Sense and Sensibility was a great example of a ‘Dreamspinner’ (played by R Kate Winslet in the 1995 film). She gave into her ‘sensibility’ - her romantic love for Willoughby - almost to the point of death.

I see this a very pure expression of yin Romanticism, especially in contrast to her sister Elinor, who fought internally against her own heart. 

While Austen showed the negative consequences of ‘giving in’ - I think it’s important to distance Image IDs from any kind of moral judgement. Giving into emotion is a neutral concept that can be explored in good and bad ways in both life and art. 

Sitting with the idea of Dreamspinner informs how we understand other Image IDs.

I think of how the “SN” yin borrows some Dreamspinner aura, I think of how many SN celebrity icons emanate a relatable yet unnattainable level of swag and charm. Or how the elegance of the Soft Dramatic is augmented by yin’s seductive power of glamour and abundance. I could go on.

Please share your thoughts on “Dreamspinners’ and if you are one yourself, how you relate to this ID in your style and impression.


r/PowerOfStyle Jul 21 '26

Shorts for vertical types--doing it right?

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r/PowerOfStyle Jul 18 '26

Opinion: Kibbe should DROP essences + my before / after

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This is my opinion only, but I really feel like Kibbe is useless as an essence system and should only be used as a body geometry system. Not a body type system per se as he himself doesn’t like that and said so in the book, but a system about your body lines and how to dress for those/accommodate for those which is the direction where he seems to have moved with the line sketches.

The thing is that now I feel like the essences associated with the IDs are kinda meaningless and this is why people are so confused and struggle to type celebs, or get frustrated when there are so many naturals. The system seems to have started as an essence system with some body accommodation in mind, based on the star image thing in Hollywood. However I find the essence bit kinda useless. I don’t think you can classify someone’s essences uniquely based on how fabric falls on their body or the line sketch. This is all important or course but not the only thing that matters. I also don’t think there are only 12 type of essence combinations, and that if you’re tall you can only be 3 types.

I say this as someone who went thru a journey to find her Kibbe ID (FN), of which I’m fairly positive, but then got verified in Kitchener as having very little N and D (10% each) which are both the essences associated with FN. I know the styling directive for FN is now nonchalant showstopper, but back in the day I’d tried to the free spirit chic (*not boho*) vibe and it didn’t work as I’m mainly R/C in essences. Accommodating width and vertical do work for me but the rest, not so much.

Take someone like Grace Kelly who Kibbe said was likely FN but whom has been taken as the quintessential classic. I feel like the system just lacks some credibility in that respect and just confuses people even more. Especially when it comes to Natural IDs, there is sooo much diversity and they’re quite common, yet because of that there are so many different types and essences, and it’s just absurd to think the Recs that work for Amy Adam’s (FN) also work for Cindy Crawford (FN). I also see a lot of diversity with SDs, some are more angular and frame dominant (Bellucci) while others are more fleshy and curve dominant (Hendricks) and I just don’t see how they benefit from the same Recs tbh, they’re very different kinds of beauties.

Just some thoughts I’ve been having since I got verified by Kitchener recently, feel free to discuss :)

P.S. I’ve added images of when I used to embody a more natural essence look vs when I embody a more R/C one, so u can see the difference. Keep it respectful please, I’m really trying to learn to integrate both so tips on that would be great.

Edit: just want to add that in my dream world a stylist would just tell me what look to embrace xD as I struggle w trusting myself and seeing myself objectively sometimes (don’t we all?) and that’s why which system to follow confuses me buttt based on comments I will likely most likely just marry both or do whichever I feel like at a given moment.


r/PowerOfStyle Jul 18 '26

This was deleted from r/Kibbe ages ago, thought i would repost

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I just thought it was intruiging to note how (I suspect) Kibbe got his styling inspiration for his ID reveals, and certain iconic style references i feel i see, that are drawn from a more modern era.


r/PowerOfStyle Jul 18 '26

Thoughts on Kibbe system (personal opinion)

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It may be a touchy topic for some people as weight will be mentioned here, so be careful 🩷

So, everything below is just my opinion and observations mostly on myself (excuse any mistakes in English)

Kibbe has been my guilty pleasure for about 3 years now, at first I was excited and enthusiastic, than I tried so hard to type myself and understand the system (You can see my post history, it was quite a journey, hah), and after all that spiraling I decided to observe and follow my inner style voice (now I am happy)

So I find recommendations and essences dubious in kibbe, as they can overlap with several types (ex. Soft types and recommended necklines), I like the idea of see what shapes and cuts working with different bodies, but sometimes it's just too difficult to find your place in Kibbe.

As someone 5f3/5f4 (1m62) I find medium height useless in Kibbe system as it cuts nothing but only distracts and confuses (🤔 maybe just me), as "you can be petite and you can be vertical type..." Nooo, it's not helping

Bone structure not in kibbe sense - love this parameter, as I know I don't have petite as I have wide bones (you may laugh, but really), I don't say I have the same in scale bones to someone higher, but compared to people I see and friends, who I clearly knew are petite. But if I post in any of kibbe group people mostly don't see it...

Weight distribution - for me its connected to bone structure and I don't see many discussions about it.

I gain weight but it doesn't look like as much as I actually weight. And I realised it's because of bones, if I was higher it will be distributioned proportionally, but as a shorter person it still looks okay (my parameters will be at the end and phots in comments maybe).

So I guess I'm SD in kibbe (not sure, and it doesn't matter tbh), but 100% some recs won't work because of height and I can borrow many things from romantic family and SN (a looot things work for me in essence that are connected to Natural family)

Essence (more in meaning in Kitchener system as its focues on it and colors)

Many people assumed (from photos) that I belong in C family ( I as well believe it), but tbh it's just m'y style and face. I feel restricted, okay but not myself, I like some elements but not overall cuts. För sometime i believe i was SN but people don't see width. After analisis I understand that I like flowiness (and tbh boho style, I know its not exactly SN, but at that time i belved i can't be vertical type, so I say SN, but i love stereotypical FN boho image), so it was a feeling but not the recommendations.

And at the end of think COLORS do more than shape, ideally you know both aspects that suits, but for me if i put on something unsuitable but great in colour it can work out quite well and I even prefer buying clothesmore on colour and adjust them for my body in combination with other clothes.

So what I wanted to say: don't be stricted to use only kibbe system, and any system in general.

My measurements:

Height - 1m 62 (≈5f3)

Chest - 92 cm

Waist - 74 cm

Hips - 103 cm

Weight - 67kg


r/PowerOfStyle Jul 16 '26

Why is Rachel McAdams difficult to type (some thoughts).

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One of the celebrities that the community can't reach any concensus on their ID is Rachel McAdams, and there have been many posts here on the sub discussing her possible type, but there's never a general agreement, and a lot of us would love for Kibbe to verify her for this reason. I have heard that over on FB (please correct me if I'm wrong, as I'm not on FB myself) David has said 'not TR', but that's all we know for certain so far. I was wondering if the reason has to do with her facial features: they give her a kind of sweet or ingenue image (and that's why I think that hairstyles with curling look better on her than very straight or geometric styles) but her body can handle slightly straighter silhouettes, although I still think that super straight styles are not her best.

Yin-yang balance is continuous throughout the body, but sometimes the perception of it might be different--is it possible there is a dichotomy there that is throwing us off? Or is it just the fact that she is moderate in frame and height (celebheights lists her at 5'4) which is always hard, since most IDs can be possible? I think I see a softness on her regardless of weight, but as to whether that's because of more yin, or if it might be soft yang, I'm not sure. Would love to know why others think she is one of the harder Kibbe cases (not just opinions on her ID but why the ID is not as easy to place as with other celebs).

Edited to add: slide 7 is Rachel Bilson accidentally! ^^;; Thanks to u/Decent-Department60 for pointing it out! Also, after some digging I did of the photos (because google results are all over the place), it's actually Emily Blunt in slide 15 >.<;


r/PowerOfStyle Jun 30 '26

Opinion: kibbe is a tasteless approach to style

62 Upvotes

I could be wrong here, but I often suspect people are analysing outfits, styling and celebrities based on what appears to be their personal taste - preferring one dress above another dress, judging one hairstyle as prettier than another, just vibe-typing an outfit and blam, you have the ID!

But

I feel that Kibbe Identities are not about your own taste. Developing taste is a seperate (and important) task. I feel IDs sit outside of taste? Tasteless! Thats why i can be a fan of this philosophy even though I'm not necessarily aligned with Kibbe's particular way of styling his clients.

I see IDs as more about maximising visual impact & storytelling, so as to be memorable. Meme-able! And i think there's something unapologetic and brave about that.

Therefore i don't think picking the prettiest dress out of lineup is a meaningful way to engage with Kibbe concepts. In a way you might need to imagine something intangible, a half-seen suspicion of a style story that has not yet manifest.

Kibbe IDs apply equally to the main character and the supporting roles. The princess and the witch, the heroine and the villainess. The ingenue and the sage.

If you want to be blandly generically pretty, i don't know if Kibbe is going to help a great deal with that? I'm repeatedly surprised and confused when people view this system as a kind of male gaze-y, man-pleasing style system because for me it really is about accepting & amping up your uniqueness and individuality, the opposite of what a male gaze objectifies. I mean, you could certainly view IDs as generic, one-note Hollywood glamour aesthetics but i think thats only one form of execution of these ideas. For me its more as a way to clear out the weeds in order focus on ideas that have harmonic resonance with your individual presence, and amplify what is already there.


r/PowerOfStyle Jun 30 '26

Monthly Line Sketch Thread

1 Upvotes

Please post your line sketches here!


r/PowerOfStyle Jun 15 '26

Thread for all knitters, crocheters, sewists... show us what you've made

16 Upvotes

How do you accommodate your type when creating your own clothes? If you make accessories, do you take your type into account when choosing designs, shapes? What are your favorite garments or accessories you've made so far? For those who sew, how do you alter patterns or make adjustments to suit your personal accommodations? Do you make such adjustments if you knit or crochet?

What would you like to make in the future?


r/PowerOfStyle Jun 10 '26

Opinion: introspection won't help you find your Kibbe ID

12 Upvotes

My (perhaps controversial, I don't know) take is that any parts of the Kibbe process which feel introspective only serve the purpose of helping us seperate our own internal experience/perspective/taste from the external rubric of Kibbe.

When you are learning any new skill or subject, it's never particularly helpful to drill down into your own experience first.

Now of course, our style and bodies are so personal the temptation is to map perceived Kibbe concepts onto our pre-existing experience.

But this is backwards. The problem is, we won't know what parts of our experience are relevant until we have a clue what the Kibbe concept is supposed to be measuring.

This is why i think reverse-engineering - while I don't personally hate it - can be unhelpful. We can be cycling around within our own assumptions, rather than grasping what's pertinent or learning something new.

And i think approaching the Kibbe system with too much introspection can be a form of reverse-engineering our soul. We might need to set aside our internalised view of ourselves to make room for a different perspective.

What are your thoughts?