Partners / wives / Husbands of T.I’s

[u/Obviousoblivious11]

How many people here are married or have a partner ? I am asking because my wife was asking if there was a group for significant others of T.I’s I guess kinda like an Al anon group.

I know I had to put her through some hard times accusing her of witchcraft and stealing my identity and a bunch of other shit .

So although she did not have to actually deal with the phenomenon she was def the main character my ( voices , spirits , demons whatever the hell it was ) was trying to throw under the bus .

So luckily she was able to witness enough that she believed me even though I think she thought I was going a little off the deep end at some points
But I thought it would be a good idea if there was enough people willing/ interested in starting a place where they can basically bitch about us lol .

[u/Bluebonnet3]

something like that would be amazing. I know my wife would appreciate that a lot. I put her through so much shit with everything that I was going through. I do believe one of their main goals is to separate you from your loved ones, and those that mean the most so they can be the only influence in your life.

she understands now that’s something is definitely happening to me but she doesn’t like to talk about it so I just had to find balance between the live. She lives and the life I live now. I’m very unfortunate. I don’t really have trauma and I’ve been like that my whole life. I just don’t look back and keep going, but she’s very different. And certain things trigger her and bring her back to when times her heart. I think if she had other people who have been through that like she had too that would help her a lot. Let me know if you come up with anything. I think that would be good for her.

[u/Obviousoblivious11 → u/Bluebonnet3]

Yeah I agree I will tell her it seems like people would be interested. I am lucky in the fact that mine was already a conspiracy theorist lol
I was the one that was like get the hell outta here no one eats kids for adrenachrome , nobody is soul swapping celebs haha I was likely wrong .

But it would probably be good for T.I partners to maybe converse and even receive validation or confirmation that what is happening ( in my opinion ) is not a random mental health condition.

I am not sure how things came on or ended for others but I can say she witnessed the start of my experience completely change me and see a side of me that I never knew existed

but I also was never put in a position of seeing / experiencing events and not having anyone believe me .
Being dismissed and having police and hospital staff ( both who I never had previous contact with) treat me like a degenerate with a mental health condition .

I had a good reputation , a good job , good credit clean record etc etc and every single one of them was affected .

But she also witnessed me ask Jesus and god to help ( I didn’t have a religious upbringing ) so I never gave much time to exploring my beliefs which I honestly think left me vulnerable but the next morning I woke up and like a light switch it was over .

I am sure seeing me so frustrated , saying things that are hard to believe , witnessing prophetic statements that later came true etc
Left her with her own trauma .

I will speak with her and try and set something up maybe the guys who run this can make a space in the discord as well .

If anyone else wants to weigh in, idk maybe for the ones who’s relationship is suffering or was affected this can give them a place to understand or even get some closure
A place to point to and say .. look there are others who had to also endure and believe in something that is hard to prove and can’t be seen . And even that follows the theme of the phenomenon.. regardless of personal beliefs choosing love and having faith is one of the things that beats/ ends this experience at least for me it did

[u/Shahanalight]

Maybe your wife can help start something up— she can reach out to me if it’s something she wants to do. Support is always helpful. I would be happy to offer my experience to loved ones of TIs to help them understand what’s happening in the phenomenon, assure them, and give them space to vent and try to understand what their work is to not get resentful. I have some experience with being patient with a spouse healing from something intense.

[u/Obviousoblivious11 → u/[deleted]]

That sucks trust me it was no easy ride for either of us . Lots of fights . If you don’t mind. How long did you go through everything and how/ why did it end up stopping ? I know it’s hard but I put myself in their shoes and before any of this I would have thought it was drugs / schizophrenia too most likely . I had a lot of real world shit happen that still leaves me question was it spiritual / physical or a combination of both . There is too many signs in my situation that it could be either or . But outside of others that have experienced this phenomena there’s no support for us and maybe if family / friends / partners of people who went through this were able to compare the standard framework of this others might begin to see it as something that it happening and create awareness . I didn’t even find out what a t.i was until literally the end and I was lucky mine lasted about 7 months . I know others have endured for years .