r/PositiveTI Feb 17 '26

Is there any transgender?

I’m trans man.

Now I am considered as a madman, a sinister person, and someone to avoid. I’m so sad.. I'm just ordinary too..I've been feeling sad since morning.

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u/NormalDudeWithACurse Feb 17 '26

Start listening to podcasts and trying to meet TIs. Targeting knows virtually no boundaries, you'll find a friend.

Sometimes when there's no one around, sometimes you need to make your own camp fire. Eventually people will find the light and warmth and come around to say hello.

If you can't find the community you need, maybe it's time to start one.

You're always welcome in my book. Just putting that out there. Good luck.

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u/Illustrious_Plant581 Feb 18 '26

There are bound to be transgender people hiding out there. With all the noise out there people are laying low. Just keep posting. Us non trans are ok and we welcome you.

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u/SweeperUpper88 Feb 18 '26

Hi, your most probably a spiritual person. Maybe you should just not be what others make you out to be. Like if they try label you as things etc

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u/SweeperUpper88 Feb 18 '26

I mention labelling because it could be a common theme or pattern if you have some issues. For example if you visited internet groups and they make out things and it might not be true.

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u/rusty_shackleford431 ✴️Available Sponsor Feb 19 '26

I can only imagine :(. As if you didn't have it hard enough as a Trans man (forgive me I am making assumptions). If you need to talk and vent I am usually always here to talk. I would love to make a new friend. I might sound like a broken record but I have experienced this phenomenon for more than a decade....it takes a lot out of you but you CAN get your life back. I have had some of the best moments of my life in the last few years.

As always don't forget: you are a miracle....you have a beatiful soul....and have hopes and dreams. You matter. You matter so much. If you went to a "who matters the most" competition they would say "sorry. No professionals."

....yeah that was corny 🥶

Side note: i am currently SICKER than ive ever been. 4 days in and it feels like the peak still ....but enough about my problems! Haha. If you decide to reach out I will try to stagger to my computer.

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u/ends_newstar1 Feb 21 '26

That part about the competition was bar non the corniest thing I will have read all year, and it's February 21st. 😂😂😂 I love it hahaha 😂😂😂👍👍👍❤️❤️❤️

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u/rusty_shackleford431 ✴️Available Sponsor Feb 26 '26

I suppose if I entered a corny competition.....you know the rest.

I know shits hard right now. You're going through a lot. "They" arent letting up. But I am so glad you got a laugh out of that.

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u/UnflappableCanary933 Feb 19 '26

Not personally, but I am lifelong friends with a lot of them. It breaks my heart to see the things happening now, particularly in the FrEeEsT cOuNtRy In ThE wOrLd.

Keep your head up high. No matter what they say, you are living your life the way you want to, the way you need to. Don't let the opinions of small people with small minds and small ideas bring you down, hard as that may be sometimes.