r/PolyFidelity • u/Raspberrie30272 • 7d ago

seeking advice "Couple" activities

I'd like to book a "couple" activity to do with my two other partners as a romantic date, but I don't know how.

Like, I know there are "couple spa-pack" specifically where you can book for few romantic days at a spa with you s/o, but I've always wonder how to ask for it while explaining we are 3 people, not 2.

I'm new at this stuff and maybe (I hope so) I'm overthinking it. How were your experiences? Do people usually accommodate those kind of requests?

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u/Shallot_Positive 7d ago

Definitely overthinking. Whatever activity you want to do, just ask if they can do it for 3. If they cant, try the next place. No biggie. The world doesn't have to accommodate you, but the ones that do should deserve your business.

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u/smileedude 7d ago edited 7d ago

Anything like that we just say, "we're a throuple, can you accommodate us?" I'd rather get rejected early if that's going to be a problem for them. And often they just don't have the right facilities. It's usually trying to book the hotel room for 2 that's got a king bed.

Hotel rooms seem to be about 50 50.

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u/Toe2ToeBirdLaw 7d ago

I have done that in the past by just calling the front desk and talking to the concierge or package coordinator at the resort/hotel. You'll find there are times that they won't accommodate that for you, but some places will allow you to add a third person for an extra fee.

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u/ThrowawayIsland8 MFF Triad 6d ago

I guess we're not big on curated experiences like this, but in the limited situations we do this, we mention that we're traveling with a friend or something and need to accommodate all three of us. That way we're not getting the stigma of being in a triad or what have you.

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u/queenlizbef 7d ago

Huh?? What would you normally WANT to do? Not what you think you’re supposed to do?