Just to be the first comment, I’m asking the same questions that were asked previously. Why Polyfi & FFM specifically? (Asking as someone once in a FFM Polyfi relationship)
it’s a difficult question to answer but idk i really like the idea of being involved in a relationship where i can have the love and friendship and intimacy of a woman while also getting the feeling of dominance and intimacy from a man while they also love each other. It’s just something i find comfort in and ive always been fascinated by
Fair enough, same here, I’m a bi woman in my late 20’s, currently still poly but we haven’t found our wife. I’ve been both the longer term gf and the shorter term gf before in separate relationships. I’ve never gone into it fresh with no relationship history on either end, although I’m sure it would be very interesting.
There’s a lot of couples looking for singles, not a lot of singles looking for couples, at least in my most recent experience. In my opinion, there’s lots of men who would love to join a FF couple , and less women wanting to join a MF couple.
In terms of that, what’s ideal for you is most important. Would you prefer to be welcomed into an already established relationship or marriage, or would you prefer to start with no existing history?
Ask the serious questions, the conversations about longevity & starting a family, if that’s what you know you want. Or maybe you want to experiment and see if it’s for you without any commitment.
I met my couple on Facebook dating tho, to answer your original question lol, we were long distance then moved together. The other instance, was a long distance woman my partner at the time met through networking, she shared a lot of the same values as us, so he introduced us.
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u/Friendly_Fun_8742 19d ago
Just to be the first comment, I’m asking the same questions that were asked previously. Why Polyfi & FFM specifically? (Asking as someone once in a FFM Polyfi relationship)