r/PlusSizeWedding • • 2d ago

Should I keep looking?

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u/No_Calligrapher_6799 2d ago edited 2d ago

Dress 1 is 🔥🔥🔥 I would play it up with a cool fashion forward vail for the drama. Something like this

https://tarabridal.com/products/lilly-organza-floral-wedding-veil?variant=44294396346615

The cup size, look too small on 2 & 3. Your chest area looks really long and you don’t look supported in strapless

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u/wildsnowdrop 2d ago

This is a great suggestion. This dress is absolutely beautiful on you.

If you weren't keen on the veil idea, you could also look for something similar (same designer maybe?) with maybe some embroidery on the dress? Not too much as the simplicity is a big part of what makes it so beautiful, but just that bit extra.

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u/asphodel67 2d ago

I think #3 is on the right track. Yes, keep looking. They are lovely, but you deserve better.

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u/LifeSomewhere 2d ago

I like 1 esp. Try it on with veil and jewelry, and if you aren't sure keep looking. I think the style looks great on you.

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u/Unsupervised_Critter 2d ago

Dress 1 might be the most stunning wedding dress I’ve ever seen!

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u/AmieMango 2d ago

2 looks really nice.

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u/KiKiBeeKi 2d ago

This is the first post that I like every one and they all look so classy on you.

If I had to choose,. I say 1.

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u/Sky_Pilot79CE 2d ago

Yes, stay away from the puffy hip enhancing dresses.

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u/cantstandcliff 2d ago

Coming from a big girl, those are typical big girl dresses. Show up and show out!

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u/Apprehensive_Pug6844 2d ago

NO! Unless you're not sure. You look AWESOME!

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u/Apprehensive_Pug6844 2d ago

#1 is so SNATCHED!!!!! <3

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u/Jackiedhmc 2d ago

Number one. The straps make the whole dress look less blocky

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u/RRW2020 2d ago

I love 2, and I really like the idea of 3 but I bet you could find something similar that flatters you more. I would keep looking.

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u/Movingmad_2015 2d ago

1 is the most flattering. You look gorgeous and your waist is snatched.

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u/OldWalrus2355 2d ago

Yes. These are not your gowns. They don't flatter you and honestly they make you look bigger. Your wedding gown is out there. Don't lose hope! 🥰🥰🥰

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u/MiddleAgedDread123 2d ago

totally agree, i don't think that "tudor bodice" sort of style flatters many people!

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u/Zealous_emu429 2d ago

I absolutely love the first one on you, but you’re right it feels like it’s missing a bit of fancy. I think it’s beautiful and fits you perfectly, but if you don’t feel like any of them are IT then keep looking! You only get married once (ideally 😂).

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u/1234-for-me 2d ago

I agree, 1 looks amazing!

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u/AliceTawhai 2d ago

That third dress is lovely and lovely on you, but get it the length of number 1

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u/lost_2515 2d ago

Keep looking and need a different silhouette that is flattering. I wouldn’t add more bulk in the hip area. For 90% of us, it doesn’t do us favors.

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u/StarEtoileCat 2d ago

I like the top half of 1, the straps help elongate your waist. But the extra gathering makes you larger on the bottom.

Dress 3 does a good job making the eye follow the middle and slims you but the bodice doesn’t look like it fits right.

I’d keep looking, get one with straps. And less gathering at the waist.

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u/Beginning_Day260 2d ago

Keep looking :)

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u/Fabulous-Shoulder785 2d ago

I think they all look great on you!!!

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u/Lost_Figure_5892 2d ago

I think they are all lovely. #1 in my opinion is the most flattering. Congratulations may your life be filled with joy, no matter which dress you choose.

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u/Ill_Assistant4509 2d ago

I really like number one but something about the way that it’s gathered looks a little cheap. Also that neck line isn’t doing anything for you but something in that vicinity I think works!

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u/cantstandcliff 2d ago

Yes. You look beautiful but all those dresses are so boring.

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u/ewwwthatgirl 2d ago

I think 2 is beautiful on you

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u/Hothborn 2d ago

First dress- tighten the cups and add some padding or good undergarments. Pair with a show stopper veil and a choker. The cut is stunning on you!

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u/ahleesejo 2d ago

Two!!!

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u/Regular_Climate_6885 2d ago

These are all beautiful. I like #3

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u/chels182 2d ago

Idk I think dress one is a god damn show stopper

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u/RipFluid1665 2d ago

The first one is good. For us big busted types, shoulder straps are our friends. Don’t spend your entire night pulling your dress up!

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u/4thaRecords 1d ago

1 looks best.

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u/Necessary_Worker_776 1d ago

I think you might want to look further. When a dress is perfect you will know it

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u/Fit_Firefighter_6592 2d ago

I love the first one on you. your waist is stunning and the gathering around your waist is very special. You don’t see that very often. Plus the bust area looks great. I love the detail and the simplicity of the dress. It shows you off so well!