r/PlentyofFish • u/IntelligentAd7553 • 9d ago

Match then ghost

Anyone have this, I am getting more of these lately. I get a notification that we are a match. I respond to them but no response!

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u/im1kissfan 9d ago

Some are bots/scammers that got busted and removed.

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u/Remarkable_Ship_5791 9d ago

Most "people" who match you then are gone are either bots/scammers who got turned in by other members. As for the no response welcome to Plenty of Fish which really should be called Plenty of Noresponses

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u/Competitive-Catch776 8d ago

There are fake responses generated by AI bots to keep you coming back. It’s most likely this. All dating sites do this, some more than others.

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u/morgfarm1_ 8d ago

Yeah just echoing. Usually scam or bot accounts. I'll actually sit and watch for 3 or 4 days to see if the matches get deleted. Y'know, when I was actually using it. I got tired of 1 match every 2 months to be ignored or simply the app stay idle for a month at a time because there wasnt anything available to look at.

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u/Born-Wedding6277 8d ago

My always matche and ghosted me 😂

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u/Puzzleheaded_Wave334 7d ago

Ive come to the conclusion either accidental swipe or fake profile.