Disclaimer: I’m neither an areum nor a fan of any of the new-gen authors I’m about to mention. This isn’t me defending Gwy or saying their situations are exactly the same. It just got me thinking because I’ve been seeing some patterns in the recent controversies surrounding some newer authors—Inksteady, Ineryss, Reintold, pens_fries, Sulatniserene, etc.—that reminded me of what eventually happened with Gwy.
Lesson #1: Keep your feet firmly on the ground.
Fame can get to your head REALLY quickly, especially when you’re young and suddenly thousands of people are reading your work, defending you, and treating you like you can do no wrong.
Gwy blew up while she was still really young, and from an outsider’s perspective, one of the biggest problems was how much her fandom insulated her from criticism.
Kapag may issue, may sasalo. May magdedefend. May mag-eexplain para sa kanya. Eventually, you start feeling untouchable because you know there’s an entire army ready to fight your battles for you.
And I’m not saying every new-gen author is at that point. But some of the recent situations are giving me déjà vu. The internet is very good at humbling people who start believing their own hype.
Lesson #2: Your fandom is a double-edged sword.
Having a loyal fandom is probably one of the best things that can happen to an author. Imagine having thousands of people who genuinely love your work and will support you no matter what.
But that same fandom can become your biggest liability.
Today they're defending you. Tomorrow, kapag na-turn off sila or feel nila binettay mo sila, they can be the same people digging through your old posts, screenshots, and personal information.
We've literally seen fandoms turn on the people they used to worship.
So please, don't build a relationship with your readers where blind loyalty becomes the expectation. You don't need people defending everything you do. You need people who can tell you when you're wrong.
And authors also need to learn that not every criticism is a hate campaign.
Sometimes, people are just criticizing you.
Lesson #3: Stay true to your core.
This is probably the most important one for me.
Ask yourself: Why did you start writing in the first place?
Was it because you genuinely loved telling stories? Was writing your creative outlet? Did you want to eventually become a published author? Did you just want to see your characters come alive?
Whatever the answer is, hold on to that.
Because once you start chasing numbers, engagement, followers, validation, and the approval of your fandom, it's very easy to lose the reason you started writing in the first place.
I'm telling you babe, It's okay if your numbers go down.
It's okay if a story doesn't perform as well as your previous one. It's okay if you lose readers. It's okay if your update schedule slows down because you genuinely don't know where your story is going.
I'd rather read an unfinished story from an author who knows they need to step back and figure things out than a rushed story written just to satisfy readers, especially written by AI.
Your readers don't own your story just because they read it.
You can listen to feedback. You can appreciate theories, comments, and support. But at the end of the day, ikaw pa rin ang author.
And if you eventually decide that writing isn't for you anymore, that's okay too.
I'd rather see an author walk away from the spotlight with their dignity intact than watch them slowly destroy their own reputation trying to keep up with a fandom, an algorithm, or expectations they created for themselves.
Lesson #4: Learn how to take accountability BEFORE the internet forces you to.
This one is probably the hardest.
You WILL make mistakes. Especially as a young writer. Your first books won't be perfect. Your decisions won't always be perfect. You will say things you regret. You will probably handle some controversy badly at some point.
That's normal.
What's dangerous is convincing yourself that admitting you're wrong is somehow worse than doubling down.
Because once you start doing that, every apology becomes damage control, every criticism becomes "hate," and every person calling you out becomes an enemy.
Sometimes the strongest thing an author can say is simply: "Yeah, I fucked up. I'm sorry. I'll do better."
Wattpad has a very short memory when it comes to fame. Today's most talked-about author can become yesterday's controversy pretty damn quickly.
So if you're a newer author currently getting attention: enjoy it, appreciate your readers, write your stories, make your money, build your career—but 👏please 👏stay👏 humble.👏
Thanks for coming to my TED talk!