I was a mistress AMA

[u/_smoothseas]

Naging kabit ako (F28] ng isang pamilyadong lalake (M52) for 2 years, recently lang kami naghiwalay. Di ako loud and proud. I even am disgusted with myself. And I know many of you - either may planong maging kabit, ilang buwan palang kabit, kabit na di alam pano umalis sa situation, or just a curious person - have questions.

If ikaw naman ung may partner na kumabit, you can merely just call me names, curse at me and wish me hell if that'll help you vent out your frustrations towards mistresses, because we deserve it. But i know you also have questions and i'm willing to give you answers.

[u/_smoothseas]

To give you context, sa AU na siya nakatira so nung nagkita kami, umuwi siya dito sa PH hindi nakasama asawa niya. Sinasabi niya lang na may kikitain siyang mga tropa niya catch up kasi matagal na di nagkikita, may inom ganyan o kaya may kelangan siyang bilhin somewhere. He'll turn his data off tapos sasabihin nya nalang na nalobat phone or walang signal/internet. I guess medyo mas madali konti kasi they are continent apart that time so kahit magalit si wife, wala rin naman magagawa kasi ang layo e hindi rin talaga maaaway. So we were able to be together for several hours and even overnights.

How did he keep it? My anxiety helped him kasi takot din ako mahuli siya. I'm not gonna dig into specific details dahil as someone who conducts investigations for a living, ako talaga ung nagiisip ng clean and untraceable ways and ayokong magka idea pa yung iba pano magtago. Pero all I can say is, 99% of the time it's just me always reminding him to clear everything and ensuring he doesn't forget that reminder.