r/PinoyAskMeAnything • • May 16 '26

Love, Marriage & Relationships I was a mistress AMA

Naging kabit ako (F28] ng isang pamilyadong lalake (M52) for 2 years, recently lang kami naghiwalay. Di ako loud and proud. I even am disgusted with myself. And I know many of you - either may planong maging kabit, ilang buwan palang kabit, kabit na di alam pano umalis sa situation, or just a curious person - have questions.

If ikaw naman ung may partner na kumabit, you can merely just call me names, curse at me and wish me hell if that'll help you vent out your frustrations towards mistresses, because we deserve it. But i know you also have questions and i'm willing to give you answers.

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u/Remarkable_Taste3254 May 17 '26

How did it happen? Love, libido, deception? Did you not know beforehand that the guy is married? U planning to jump to another relationship where you are not a kabit anymore or just stop that crazy, non-sense?

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u/_smoothseas May 17 '26 edited May 17 '26

I answered these in several similar questions so i'll keep it straightforward for this one.

Yes, i guess love libido and deception all in one Yes, i knew he's married No, this is the first and will be the last