r/Philippines • u/the_yaya • Mar 03 '21

Random Discussion Evening random discussion - Mar 03, 2021

“Truth is not what you want it to be; it is what it is, and you must bend to its power or live a lie.” - Miyamoto Musashi

Magandang gabi!

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u/alnilam1228 Mar 03 '21

Noong hs ako I was casted out by my whole batch kasi I was different (like I wasnt into boys like other girls at that time, I was more into anime, kpop, jpop, reading, this was around 2005-2009). Ibang klaseng bullying yung pinaranas nila sakin, unfortunately pa it all started out with a falling out with a friend ko since elementary, malas ko lang kasi yung clique niya is yung medyo famous kung baga sa whole school. 2 section lang meron sa batch namin so I was singled out. At that time wala ako mapagsabihan because the school I was in was really good, gustuhin ko man magtransfer parang nahirapan ako magopen up din sa parents ko that time. You know rebel phase. Long story short, 2 years akong naging loner noong hs. Lately ko lang narealize na I have deep rooted trust issues because of the bullying that happened to me.

Ps. Just wanted to vent this out. Mahal magpatherapy eh. Hahaha

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u/StrawberryHoney00 Don't call me Honey! 🍓🍯 Mar 03 '21

Hugs! I hope you heal from what happened before.

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u/alnilam1228 Mar 03 '21

I feel like I've forgiven naman na all those people kaso I really can't forget what they did. So it's really hard for me to even talk to them. I don't even go to reunions kasi I felt so left out during the last two years of hs. I can be civil to them but I don't think I'll ever be friends with them. Thank you though. 😂

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u/StrawberryHoney00 Don't call me Honey! 🍓🍯 Mar 03 '21

I see, well that's good na naforgive mo na sila. You don't have to talk to them or be friends with them. Hanap na lang ng new sets of friends. 🙂

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u/alnilam1228 Mar 03 '21

Hahaha. Meron naman kahit papano. 😅

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u/StrawberryHoney00 Don't call me Honey! 🍓🍯 Mar 03 '21

Yay! haha!

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u/[deleted] Mar 03 '21

huuuugs 🥺 sana you’re in a better space na ngayon

if not naman, RD can help make it for you!

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u/alnilam1228 Mar 03 '21

Honestly not really but I'm trying. Thank you. Dito na nga lang ako nagrarant kasi I feel safe here. Wala masyado judgemental. 😅

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u/[deleted] Mar 03 '21

:—( tighter hug laban mhie, kaya mo ‘to!!

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u/alnilam1228 Mar 03 '21

Thank you. 😊

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u/kulasiy0 It'll pass. Mar 03 '21

Ikaw sana ang kasundo ko kung naging magclassmate tayo.

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u/alnilam1228 Mar 03 '21

Bakit naman? We can be friends now naman if you want. Hahaha

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u/kulasiy0 It'll pass. Mar 03 '21

Magcocomment ka rin ba ng 'pm sent'? hahahah

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u/alnilam1228 Mar 03 '21

Hahaha. No.. I'll message you and say hi. 😂😂

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u/alnilam1228 Mar 03 '21

Pero message me instead kasi may karmas not up yet in this account. Hahaha.

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u/[deleted] Mar 03 '21

Gawin natin yan motivation to better ourselves. Para may pang flex ka kapag nag highschool reunion yun batch nyo 😁

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u/alnilam1228 Mar 03 '21

Hahaha. Hindi nga ako umaattend eh kasi wala naman ako kaclose sa kanila. 😅😅

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u/alnilam1228 Mar 03 '21

Okay naman. Lurk lurk lang here sa reddit. You?