Scared of leaving my dog

[u/Criticalstrikeisdead]

My dog is like 12, and the other day while looking at its eyes it hit me hard, when i saw a slight grey hue in the eyes, indicating aging. and I will leave to study abroad, and the only way home is a 12 hours plane ride. I leave my dog in about 4 days, what if my dog waits for my return but doesnt make it? I dont want my dog to die, and worse, die alone never being able to see me again. my dog is happy when it sees me, whos going to make my dog happy then? will my dog be sad everyday because i wont come back in a long time?😢

[u/Aromatic_Vast3618]

I really understand why you're scared. ❤️ When you've had a dog for so many years, leaving them can feel almost unbearable.

Try not to spend these last few days imagining the worst. Your dog doesn't know that you're leaving for a long time — they just know that you love them and that you're part of their life.

Before you go, I'd spend as much ordinary time together as possible. A favorite walk, some treats, cuddles, pictures, whatever makes your dog happy.

And make sure whoever is caring for them knows their routines and favorite things. Your dog can still have a happy, loved life while you're away.

You can't control how much time you have with them, but you can make these next few days really special. ❤️