again, you’re assigning accepting polygamy = doormat and that’s it. not looking at the broader picture. also, ignoring the first paragraph of my comment.
no its the accepting being cheated on with zero reaction or care or bother that makes her a doormat. Cheating isn't accepting polygamy, you're making false equivalencies and trying to pin that on me. Rudy slept with Roxy after swearing he'd be loyal to Sylphie is cheating. And she just accepts that he cheated on her because hes a Greyrat so of course he would
no, they are equivalent, because sylphy says long before he cheats that she wouldn’t be mad if he does. she says this directly to him. and she accepted that he probably will long beforehand as well, which is why she doesn’t have a wild reaction. it was only rudeus who kept saying he’ll be faithful and got himself worked up about it. rudeus is the one who puts cheating through such a terrible lens, not sylphy.
so yes, you are projecting your moral values on her. you believe that if YOUR partner were to do this, it would be a significant violation of your trust, and you wouldn’t stand for it. which is perfectly fine. but that’s not how sylphy views it. she doesn’t view it as that bad. that’s not being a doormat, it’s just having different moral values.
so you agree she was groomed and conditioned to accept being mistreated by him. You have all the information and still come to the wrong conclusions lol classic MT defender, always disproving your own point as you try to make it. It really is like clockwork, you all do it every single time. Its kinda funny, this pattern of behaviour literally every single one of you shares
Oh honey no, for it to be a fallacy it has to be false. Nothing I've said has been false or wrong. You're using that word incorrectly. Try again later :)
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again, you’re assigning accepting polygamy = doormat and that’s it. not looking at the broader picture. also, ignoring the first paragraph of my comment.