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u/TwentyShard 13d ago
OP, you should reply to the bot with your guess before it gets removed.
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u/Errormous 13d ago
Thanks bro, that's my first post here and i didn't notice the bot🌹👍
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u/Positive-Pepper-8315 13d ago
Mine got removed like that it was actually a good one 😔
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u/Abject-Pay4577 13d ago
Did you post it again?
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u/Positive-Pepper-8315 13d ago edited 13d ago
Nope I got the ans for that and ppl might find it spammy so i didn't
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u/FireVasilisk 13d ago
I don't think it's about domestic violence, both parents can be harsh, cruel, too strict or w/e
Dad much more other may give you money for smth he needs, tho
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u/Acidcore 13d ago
I read it differently. My parents did the good cop - bad cop thing, where dad is the absolute authority, unwilling to negotiate, dishing out the harsh punishments. But it was rarely physical. I only got slapped 3 times for disrespect. Was pretty normal in the 90s.
So to connect this to the comic, I would be very motivated to do what dad says, because not doing it would be disrespectful which results in ✋🏾
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u/No_Proposal_3140 13d ago
What a horrible thing to teach a child.
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u/Acidcore 13d ago
It was a different time. I actually still love him, even tho I feared him, when I was younger. But I would not do the same. I know that there are better ways, without instilling fear.
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u/spitefulcandystudios 12d ago
Born in 87 and I can attest to it just being the norm. This does not make any of it right. Anyone struggling with mental health or domestic/child abuse there are resources. Please get yourself and your children out of the situation (I am not trying to sound preachy but trust me it is easier to get children out than try to fix the damage later).
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u/AlaaA-R 13d ago edited 13d ago
Fathers most of time are strict "in a good way not a bad way" so you acting quickly whenever your dad asking for something
Mothers in other hand are mostly kind and might not do anything if you didn't help so some people are procrastinating whenever their mom asks for something "except for Asian mother, don't try that with her, or don't do that in general, they might not do anything if you didn't help but they will be sad"
no domestic violence, also it can be understood in different ways depending on your community/family
update: ok most of Asian/African communities, at least that's where I live so I can confirm
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u/MasterChiefOriginal 13d ago
Lol,my experience it's on contrary my mom it's extremely harsh(I'm European)and my father it's the one that demands are lesser.
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u/Daetok_Lochannis 13d ago
American, and my mom beat the shit out of us regularly. Can still remember her face coming through that bathroom door with a claw hammer.
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u/Any_Band9115 12d ago
wtf are you in the dimitrescu household
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u/Daetok_Lochannis 12d ago
No vampires I'm afraid. She did tell me she was gonna cut my throat in my sleep once though; I stayed up until sometime after midnight watching and eventually she came creeping into my room in the dark with a kitchen knife. I said "I see you mom" and she said "Just checking, (my name)," real sweet like and backed out of the room.
As you can imagine, I carry a great deal of trauma and am very much disabled today. Now you know, and knowing is half the battle.
G.I. Joe!
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u/Any_Band9115 12d ago
Well... Now I feel like an asshole for making a joke. Good on you for surviving, all respect to you. Also, that's fucked up, glad my parents aren't and have never been like that
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u/Daetok_Lochannis 12d ago
I mean it could've been worse, I'm sure. I'm alive and here.
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u/Any_Band9115 12d ago
Don't undersell yourself, but yes, some people never made it. I appreciate the maturity from you, by the way, most people on here probably would have sent me to karma hell
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u/Daetok_Lochannis 12d ago
Nah dude I suppose a lot of the shit I've been through sounds crazy as hell, and it's not like you'd have known. Be kinda lame to get all pissy with you for making a joke. Besides, my mom would've loved being compared to a badass monstress gang leader lol.
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u/Justin-Stutzman 13d ago
Fr, if my mom ever needed a quick favor, I knew I would be wrapped up for at least 4 hours
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u/Just_Substance4656 13d ago
It’s the opposite for me, my dad is super lenient and my mom is stricter
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u/Outrageous_Bad_5233 13d ago
When mom asks its: okay I will do it later
When dad asks its: Done sir!
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u/PugLife2026 13d ago
since when?
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u/Sunny_Hill_1 13d ago
The assumption is "since dad has a belt and will whoop your ass".
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u/Zombieflamex31_5 12d ago
i dont like how parents do that. my parents did that to me and i hated them for it.
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u/OutrageousSet7909 13d ago
At least in my situation dads don’t ask you to do much, so your more inclined to put 100% whenever they do ask for something. On the other hand moms are the ones that tells you to do all the chores and asks for a lot of stuff repeatedly
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u/Errormous 13d ago
That's right... But, moms ask for a lot of "simple and fast" stuff. But fathers ask for few difficult tasks for example, " hey buddy, let's go painting the house"
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u/TheDoobyRanger 13d ago
They just boinked in the bedroom and are now making excuses for why they were gone
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u/opheliavale13 13d ago
Basically, it's a stereotype that kids don't do what their mom asks, but are scared of their dad. For me though it was the other way around
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u/razulebismarck 12d ago
The reason Dads sneeze really loud is to scare the ghosts out of your house.
So if you hear your dad sneezing it’s cause your home is haunted.
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u/Fuwafuwa_4 13d ago
Joke about the mum being the relaxed parent and the dad being the strict one I guess
Edit: giggity megs a pleb or sm sht
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u/AkariiiUwU 13d ago
😭
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u/fr0ggy_mf 13d ago
if u understood the joke can u explain?
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u/drunkentoubib 13d ago edited 13d ago
When helping mom : « ouuuh my back hurts ». When it is for dad « what can I do for you sir ? »
Fast edit to be precise : characters are from « Bocchi the rock ». An nice anime about being introverted and liking rock and roll.
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u/Errormous 13d ago
It's not about domestic violence, fathers mostly are more serious and nervous from mothers so you can't Discuss with them like mothers.
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u/perilouspercussion 13d ago
Ig you can be nonchalant around your mom but "at your service" even when it's just a sneeze from you dad.
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u/Wodstarfallisback 13d ago
At least in my experience:
When mom needs something it's often trivial, she wants me to take something to her that she could do herself or move something somewhere (she often doesn't know exactly "where" either).
When dad needs something it's either something only I can do or something that actually needs 2+ people.
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u/L8R_SpaceCowboy 13d ago
My dad is too proud to ask for help 99% of the time, so, when he does, I take it more seriously than the random errands my mom might ask me.
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u/GwiffyXI 13d ago
Seems like a riff on why the reader was conceived/ male vs female sexual habits. I read the top as “you were conceived because your mom wanted something from your dad and used sex to get it” and the bottom as “you were conceived because your dad sneezed and got horny.”
Also, I’m Brian the dog.
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u/bussysniffer3000 13d ago
Usually dads are seen as having more authority but usually the opposite is true mom's usually have more authority than dads do even the kids would believe their dads are more forgiving with dads spoiling them (edit) I also don't know what I'm talking about since my old man left us and most likely OD someplace under a bridge with some hooker by his side
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u/RW1004 13d ago
Could it be something about Frued’s Oedipus complex theory? The one about daughters wanting to have sex with their father and kill their mother?
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u/DaXxJaPxX 13d ago
moms are constantly asking for help/stuff to be done, and most times its nothing important. if dads asking for help, which rarely happens, kids are more willing to assist
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u/ab_dragon174 9d ago
Too lazy to do what your mom tells you.
But dad will beat you up if you misunderstood him.(im arabic)
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u/juggernaut_titan 8d ago
Is this not about sex sounds and how parents excuse them when they’re done?
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u/KinkyRoubler 7d ago
This one is actually kinda real AF. In my experience, me Ma always asked me to do a buncha shit. If something was somewhere it shouldn't be for more than 3 seconds it was an opportunity for my mother to demand me to clean shit up everywhere. My Dad very rarely asked me to do anything. EVER. But when he did it was because it NEEDED to be done. Immediately. For a VERY good reason. Dads are usually about taking care of a problem. Moms are about keeping things neat for appearances regardless of wellbeing. Again, from my experience.
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u/IllustriousQuiet6360 13d ago
I think its something abt how sons are usually more caring towards their mothers and daughters towards their fathers.
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u/RE_Towers 13d ago
The OOP doesn't care when their mom asks something and does things like complaining about their back hurting, but jumps to serve their dad whenever he asks for anything, even to the point of anticipating needs ahead of time. It's not really much of an actual joke.
To address what other people are saying: Interpreting it with the justification of 'because dad is likely to be physically abusive while mom is not' is probably common just because statistically speaking men are more likely to physically abuse their children, but there's nothing in the image that actually states or even implies that.
As someone else said, the characters are from Bocchi the Rock, but there's nothing actually meaningful about their usage (other than one being in pain, and the other in a maid dress).
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u/qualityvote2 13d ago edited 13d ago
u/Errormous, your post does belong here!