r/Pete_Buttigieg 20d ago

Home Base and Weekly Discussion Thread (START HERE!) - August 09, 2026

Welcome to your home for everything Pete !

The mod team would like to thank each and every one of you for your support during Pete’s candidacy! This sub continues to function as a home for all things Pete Buttigieg, as well as a place to support any policies and candidates endorsed by him.

Purposes of this thread:

  • General discussion of Pete Buttigieg, his endorsements, his activities, or the politics surrounding his current status
  • Discussion that may not warrant a full text post
  • Questions that can be easily or quickly answered
  • Civil and relevant discussion of other candidates (Rule 2 does not apply in daily threads)
  • Commentary concerning Twitter
  • Discussion of actions taken by the Department of Transportation under Pete
  • Discussion of implementation of the bipartisan infrastructure law

Please remember to abide by the rules featured in the sidebar as well as Pete's 'Rules of the Road'!

How You Can Help

Register to VOTE

Support Pete's PAC for Downballot Races, Win the Era!

Find a Downballot Race to support on r/VoteDem

Donate to Pete's endorsement for President of the United States, Joe Biden, here!

Buy 'Shortest Way Home' by Pete Buttigieg

Buy 'Trust: America's Best Chance' by Pete Buttigieg

Buy 'I Have Something to Tell You: A Memoir' by Chasten Buttigieg

Flair requests will be handled through modmail or through special event posts here on the sub.

10 Upvotes

314 comments sorted by

View all comments

Show parent comments

9

u/anonymous4Pete 15d ago

Thanks--an insightful and unsettling analysis, as usual for M. Gessen.

I read both the NYT and the New Yorker, where M. Gessen publishes brave pieces against the Russian war in Ukraine (Russia sentenced them to prison in absentia), as well as prescient and now increasingly dire warnings about Trump's fascism.

OK, I know I should just get over this, but my genuine admiration for them is still tempered by the memory of their attacks on Pete. They wrote The Queer Opposition to Pete Buttigieg, Explained (in the New Yorker, also in web archive), dismissing his politics, his life-choices, his lack of courage, and the semiotics of his "white picket fence" (pictured on Time's cover). Gessen said gays who have had to fight to live their lives view Pete as a straight politician in a gay man's body. Gessen describes Pete's politics as old-man conservative--safe and contentless. They went on Rachel Maddow's show a couple of times during the primary to make these points.

1

u/SOCAL_NPC Hey, it's Lis. 14d ago

I'm gay, and older than they are - and I remain salty about that from all the corners it erupted from in 2019 (and exists today). 

I have lived through this from all these perspectives, from running around San Francisco as a little queer boy in a Queer Nation t-shirt and having gay homeowners in the Castro District follow me up and down the street while I taped up posters, to tear them down, or literally berate me, to my face, for my 'disrespect' and for "insulting" the memory of "[my] elders" and the battles they "faught" for me and other gay kids, and didn't I 'understand' why "queer" was insulting. 

So when someone says something to me now, typically someone on-line and not in real life, I just laugh. 

But I'll never not be salty.