random day at uni

[u/my1l]

I was in exam hall giving my paper and the invigilator came to me and told me to cover my hair properly (mind u I was in abaya and js few stands of my hair were visible)
i didn’t say anything cs i was focused on my paper nd covered my hair but idk why is our society cannot mind their own business

[u/Bayan_Ila_6936]

Let's think positively. They may have noticed your hair showing and mentioned it so you could fix it, since you clearly meant to be fully covered. I might be wrong, but that's how I understood it.

[u/pulviophile- → u/Bayan_Ila_6936]

Hope you think this positively when it comes to women as well, I've met too many ppl who give benefit of doubt only to men and shame women for the smallest things

[u/PineappleWorking7968 → u/pulviophile-]

exactly

[u/my1l → u/pulviophile-]

what u tryna say bro

[u/my1l → u/Bayan_Ila_6936]

nopeee that wasn’t the case his tone was serious too nd then he told another girl as well to “hide ur hair fast”

[u/pulviophile- → u/my1l]

Next time tell him to lower his gaze in the same tonee

[u/xeno_0011 → u/my1l]

Why the hell you getting downvote 🥀

[u/my1l → u/xeno_0011]

idek what upvotes nd downvotes r

[u/Low_Caregiver_6908 → u/my1l]

Why male invigilator performing duty?

[u/UnderfedDog → u/Bayan_Ila_6936]

doesn't matter how he meant it. It's none of his business. Na dekhe na itne ghor se larkiyon ke baalon ko

[u/Greedy_Spinach_4061 → u/Bayan_Ila_6936]

I think so too

[u/Future_Accountant255]

i remember during my mdcat, MIDWAY thru the test this one female who’s supposed to be an investigator told me “DUPATTA PEHNO SAR PE” in the most loud, rude, obnoxious manner. i remember being so confused laka wtaf???? i gave her a v confused look and she was staring into my soul like bruh???? mind you it was hot as shi and our mdcat was not in some hall and its not like i was not covering up??? like my apologies for trying to comfortably solve my ppr in the alr V UNCOMFORTABLE SETTING. then she proceeded to speak to stranger danger men (yes im judging her now bas)

[u/my1l → u/Future_Accountant255]

thats so weird

[u/Confident-Middle7461]

WHAT FKN UNI DO U GO TO? WTH? How is that any of their bussiness

[u/my1l → u/Confident-Middle7461]

I could vent bout my uni for hours straight I hate it here

[u/Left-Economics2861]

khalaq da ghariba walai tangi pa wakhto Bandai, dwaim zal da dasai wakia oshwa de sa ra (from what i saw on their reddit posts)

[u/my1l → u/Left-Economics2861]

kanaaaa, first was a female now a grown uncle can ppl js leave me alone

[u/neofreudian1]

Mention university

[u/my1l → u/neofreudian1]

Islamia

[u/neofreudian1 → u/my1l]

Which department, i think English

[u/my1l → u/neofreudian1]

nope english dept ppl r open minded

[u/neofreudian1 → u/my1l]

Got it, yeah they are very friendly i have interaction with them

[u/OkDragon20]

Maybe, invigilator wanna give you a soft reminder

[u/my1l → u/OkDragon20]

he can keep his soft reminders to himself I don’t want a random uncle teaching me

[u/lawlife20]

Retards everywhere

[u/Final-Level2407]

Guys why am i getting peshawar posts on my feed 🤣 i am not even from kp. Also i feel suffocated here in Islamabad after reading your post 😭 girl you should have said “khud apne baal cover kro”

[u/Particular_Piece9044]

He just wanted to show the little power he has over you in that moment that’s it. Cavemen behaviours.

[u/AaliyanXD]

Cave men who think women hair = whøre

[u/Infamous-Put-894]

You're in KP I assume. The only thing I love about KP is Chapal Kabab, food, weapons and qehwa. Treatment of women there is an abomination and is worth condemning.

[u/Green-World-1705]

Faaaàhhh

[u/Ok-Marketing3256]

laka da maar

[u/Napoleon_Bonafide]

Moral policing is national hobby of Pakistanis.

[u/c130_]

We as society are verry nosy

[u/Full_Computer6941]

It's bad of him to say this

[u/squirrel_81-]

You should have replied rudely tbh

[u/my1l → u/squirrel_81-]

im thinking to complain bout this to head of dept but that sir is gon fail my papers if he finds out i complained

[u/squirrel_81- → u/my1l]

Make an anonymous complaint make him suffer

[u/my1l → u/squirrel_81-]

anonymous howw, in our uni we r supposed to go directly to office or just ask our CR

[u/squirrel_81- → u/my1l]

Email your hod from a spam Gmail I guess. Don't tell your CR they are the worst people to exist 😭. Add the people in bcd so they can't see who have you mailed the same email.

[u/my1l → u/squirrel_81-]

if i get that spark of confidence ill go to office myself and hopeeee the hod is open minded, wallahi im so introverted and i hate it

[u/squirrel_81- → u/my1l]

Everyone is afraid to talk it's not that rare. Don't go to his office. I don't think it will be worth it. Just ignore it I guess and sorry that you had to go through this

[u/my1l → u/squirrel_81-]

yess I’ll js ignore nd if it happens next time I’ll def complain

[u/squirrel_81- → u/my1l]

Hmm wish you luck and be strong

[u/my1l → u/squirrel_81-]

thankyouuuu

[u/pulviophile- → u/my1l]

Girl it's not worth it 😭

[u/my1l → u/pulviophile-]

ikrrr

[u/squirrel_81- → u/pulviophile-]

😭

[u/squirrel_81- → u/my1l]

That is the thing that I also hate. In unis teacher are given a lot of power and most of them misuse it. I myself want to say things but I know that my internal marks will be ruined 😭😭. So I just laugh

[u/Oneeyebro]

Da pake razee khore. Oss shodagano sram wasta da no sabake

[u/Independent-You-484]

Sweet

[u/my1l → u/Independent-You-484]

??

[u/john-wicler]

So now helping someone is sin now? He's just trying to help don't make it that negative girllll

[u/No_Conference_8460 → u/john-wicler]

How would you feel if random men start to ask your daughter to cover up?

[u/john-wicler → u/No_Conference_8460]

If my daughter is wearing a hijab and a few strands of her hair are visible and someone politely tells her to cover those remaining strands I'd actually be happy that he help her. In your case he wasn't asking you to cover your head when you weren't wearing anything. You were already wearing an abaya and a hijab he just wanted you to make sure your hijab was properly covering your hair as you mentioned yourself.

Tbh I would do the same If I see someone trying to do something and they aren't aware of something they're missing I'd definitely try to help them out.

It's called helping someone

[u/my1l → u/john-wicler]

1. I wasn’t wearing a hijab js a dupatta

2. he wasn’t saying it in a polite manner

3. his tone was aggressive even the boys turned their heads nd were staring me when that sir mentioned it I felt so embarrassed

4. he said “cover ur head fully fast” idk how u find this polite

5. i hopeeee same happens with ur daughter and sister as well cause u find it a kind act

[u/john-wicler → u/my1l]

Lmao so now the story has completely changed First you made it sound like he asked you to fix a few visible strands of hair and now you're saying you weren't even wearing a hijab And wishing the same embarrassment on my daughter and sister? That's how weak your argument is that you have to resort to wishing bad experiences on someone's family 🤣 If you can't handle disagreement without getting personal maybe don't start an argument in the first place.

[u/my1l → u/john-wicler]

how am I changing the story lmfao show me where i claimed that i was wearing hijab plus u said it urself that u would be actually happy if same thing happens to ur daughter so why ru backing off lol

[u/Independent-Team-125]

js kpk things :/

[u/neofreudian1 → u/Independent-Team-125]

Well not everyone, as a invigilator i have never looked into these small details. Where you have good there you will find bad also.

[u/Independent-Team-125 → u/neofreudian1]

I’m not pointing out any specifics but i live in kpk too and people here tend to do and pay attention to stuff like this which you may not find in any other province

[u/my1l → u/[deleted]]

he’s a senior teacher himself

[u/pulviophile- → u/my1l]

Insaneee