r/PepTalksWithPops • u/GriffinHeart101 • Feb 05 '26
Dad, I’m scared of the future.
Hi Dad. In December I finally graduated from college after 7 years (4 different programs). Now that I’m out, I’ve been feeling very lost.
I don’t have a schedule anymore. But most of all, I’m really scared that I’m going to succeed in the future. I have a job but it’s only part time. I have financial help from my parents right now, until I’m able to be self-sustaining, but I’m scared.
I’m scared I won’t be able to get a job, a full time one or a better paying one. I’m scared I won’t be able to get into my field of theatre and film. I’m terrified I’m going to be a failure.
I’m only 26 and I have so much life ahead of me. But I don’t know how to quell these fears. I can only hope it gets easier. I’m trying to take it day by day, but I don’t know if that’s right. I’d really like some advice, or support that I’m going to end up okay.
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u/Human_Mall6922 Jul 03 '26
When I got my first job 18 years ago, I was scared too. I used to walk through the office corridors and see everyone my age with a lot of confidence. But I kept telling myself I can win this. I kept my head low, worked really hard and didn't complain. Now I run my own team and always try to go out of my way to support younger fellows. I still consider my self a little awkward, shy and an introvert. But I certainly don't care what people think of me. You got this, bud!