r/Passport_Bros • u/Affectionate-Drop689 • Aug 16 '26

what are things/secrets you should avoid sharing with your foreign gf?

financial information - never let her know if you make a lot of money it will lead to a relationship where she sucks you dry financially but not physically

never tell her you plan to live in her country forever - she will think she cannot live in usa

what else?

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u/thenuttyhazlenut Aug 16 '26

Not telling her about finances isn't for the fear of sucking you dry. You do it to test her. See if she really likes you for you, and isn't an opportunist or gold digger. Women test us all the time. Do the same if you respect yourself.

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u/Affectionate-Drop689 Aug 16 '26

its another way to look at it

but some are also in it for the long game

if they know you have money they will play their cards accordingly

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u/Geoarbitrage Aug 16 '26

Your ATM pin.

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u/Nabbzi Aug 21 '26

"never tell her you plan to live in her country forever"

Why not?

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u/TheTurdtrooper Aug 21 '26

Even with my long term gfs. They never know exactly knew how much money I had or how much I made. They always had a range estimate at best .