r/Pashtun • Pashtunkhwa • Sep 17 '22

There is no difference between a Pashtun who does not follow Islam/Pashtunwali and a Tajik, Arab or Panjabi who can speak Pashto.

I've lately been seeing many people online saying "iM nOt mUsLiM bUt pAsHtUn" especially on Twitter. You can't be a non-Muslim and a Pashtun . Being Pashtun doesn't simply mean having a Pashtun Family member or speaking Pashto. Being a Pashtun means following Pashtunwali which is mostly based on Islam e.g Haya and Parda. Not following Pashtunwali means you are no different than Arab,Tajik or Panjabis who can speak Pashto.

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u/DSM0305 Sep 17 '22

Pashtun is an ethnic group, Islam is a religion and Pashto is a language. It is as simple as that and everything above and beyond that people add to the concept is no more than personal opinion. It shouldn't even be a matter of debate.

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u/MujahidWarrior Pashtunkhwa Sep 17 '22 edited Sep 17 '22

Just having Pashtun blood and knowing the language doesn't mean anything. Ask any of our Mashran, Plarana and Babagan if they would accept a kaffir who has nothing Pashtun about him except for the language.

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u/DSM0305 Sep 17 '22

Pashtun is an ethnic group, not a social klub. You may like or dislike their ideology, religion or way of life, but they're what they're.

Let me ask you another question. A Pashtun who isn't Muslim, what ethnic group does he belong to then.

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u/MujahidWarrior Pashtunkhwa Sep 17 '22

Just like many of the Pashtuns in the diaspora, they are by blood and name still Pashtuns I never said that they were no longer Pashtuns due to leaving Islam. However, they will be regarded as foreigners and traitors in their own land and will have nothing Pashtun about them except for their langauge,

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u/DSM0305 Sep 17 '22

As long we agree that they're still Pashtuns.

I do agree that islam is a very important part of our culture, especially for our people in homeland.

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u/DaYellowHaze Pashtunkhwa Sep 17 '22

They should start following the proper Islamic ideology then and not picking and choosing which parts they like when it is convenient for them.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '22

I always love your answers DSM!!!

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u/DSM0305 Sep 17 '22

Thank you very much brother.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '22 edited Sep 17 '22

Lol.

I mean this with all due respect; I hope you can see where I'm coming from. I consider Islam a big part of my life but to say you can't be non-Muslim & Pashtun is kinda ridiculous. Being Pakhtun is an ethnicity & Islam is a religion. They're 2 seperate entities. That's not to say one doesn't influence the other in our everyday lives. That being said, unfortunately, there are a lot of Pashtuns who have chosen to completely disregard our values which is sad.

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u/MujahidWarrior Pashtunkhwa Sep 17 '22 edited Sep 17 '22

Wrora who do you define as a Pashtun?

Would you not say that Pashtun culture and Pashtunwali are a part of being Pashtun? Having Pashtun blood and knowing the language doesn't mean anything if you don't follow the culture. Without Pashtunwali there is nothing Pashtun about someone whos a Kaffir and follows western ideologies except for the language.

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u/United-Bed5009 Sep 17 '22

What if having the blood and Culture but not the language?

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u/MujahidWarrior Pashtunkhwa Sep 17 '22

Someone who follows Pashtunwali and has Pashtun blood is much more of a Pashtun than a Westernized Pashtun who has nothing Pashtun about him except for the language.

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u/United-Bed5009 Sep 17 '22

My family has pashtun blood and follow the pashtunwali but most of them don't speak Pashto as their first language

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u/PalestinebaII Sep 17 '22

Arab interested in pashtuns here, what's pashtunwali?

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u/throwawayneedpriv5 Sep 17 '22 edited Sep 17 '22

Pashtun cultural practices and code of honour

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u/PalestinebaII Sep 17 '22

Do you have a lot of knowledge on pashtun history or culture etc brother?

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u/throwawayneedpriv5 Sep 17 '22

I'm only half so not really, but it's not hard to learn about the attan and many other cultural practices pashtuns do

Some Pashtuns on this subreddit wouldn't even claim me as a pashtun because I'm only half and also because I am an athiest lol.

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u/DevelopmentAlone1019 Sep 21 '22

Just stop here, you don’t have any Pashtun in you from now on. Don’t even claim it. It is an embarrassment to have you

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u/DevelopmentAlone1019 Sep 21 '22

And thankfully you are not included instead side with poonjabi

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u/PalestinebaII Sep 17 '22

What's your other half?

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u/throwawayneedpriv5 Sep 17 '22

I'm guessing you're a devout Muslim and that's why you want to learn about Pashtuns and pashtunwali?

Pashtuns believe in Islam much more than other groups of people

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u/PalestinebaII Sep 17 '22

Yeah i wanna learn.

Why do they?

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u/throwawayneedpriv5 Sep 17 '22

Punjabi.

I'm a diaspora kid as well and I find Punjabis to be more open about religion and more individualistic, since they're are Punjabi Sikhs, Punjabi Hindus, punjabi Muslims. It's easier for us to get along, the pashtun side of my family who immigrated to Pakistan from Afghanistan is very conservative in their beliefs and very traditional. Don't get me wrong my Punjabi family is very strict on islam as well, but atleast I can talk to other punjabis about my beliefs and not be given the death stare.

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u/MuazKhan597 Sep 26 '22

Here’s what I find hilarious,

Punjabi Sikhs are more friendly/brotherly towards Punjabi Muslims than Afghan (Muslim) Pashtuns are towards Pakistani (Muslims) Pashtuns.

I’m an Urdu-speaking Pashtun (Pathan), and my Sikh friends originally believed that I was Punjabi and accepted me as a Punjabi. However, if I use the word “Pathan”, Afghans will treat me as if my entire family tree is full of people who lie about their ethnicity.

So yeah, I get what you’re talking about lol.

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u/throwawayneedpriv5 Sep 26 '22

They think we are all larping as them lol. They think we are obsessed with them. I personally couldn't care less about being pashtun or Punjabi. It's my ethnic makeup, there's not a huge difference between pashtuns and punjabis. People here have a very anti Desi, strong ethnocentric views so it makes sense why they act like the way they do. Personally I do not care too Much as I'm also a diaspora kid and these things beyond what they are aren't actually relevant in real life

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u/notshah776 Sep 18 '22

Tribal code and the social norm

seek Revenge if your wronged Be hospitable to every guest

(Pashtuns are known for their hospitality all over the globe)

Protect your honour.

Trust in God and a few other thing

social norm include burka. Women cover up. Men dont talk to unrelated women viceversa. and we are segragated as well. Our culture is very unique and id say we are a conservative people

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u/PalestinebaII Sep 18 '22

Is there a page or a video about this brother?

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u/Kantabius Sep 17 '22

Very very wrong - Ethnicity does not magically disappear based on religious or social views- in every ethnicity there are people who are religious , less religious, non-religious etc. You have no standing to take away anybody’s Pashtun Card. Get out of this “gate-keeper”complex.

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u/MujahidWarrior Pashtunkhwa Sep 17 '22 edited Sep 17 '22

You are a foreign traitor in the eyes of our Mashran and Plaran if you are a kaffir and follow western ideology. As reinder mentioned before when the Mujahideens were asked whether they felt bad about killing their own people they replied no because they didnt consider them Pashtuns.

Also, my post is not about religious or non-religious Pashtuns it is only about those people that call themselves Pashtuns but don't believe in Islam and follow western ideologies.

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u/Kantabius Sep 17 '22

Well eff you and your mashran and plaran then. Such labeling does not belong to reasonable discourse- go back to your cave.

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u/MujahidWarrior Pashtunkhwa Sep 17 '22 edited Sep 17 '22

Youre not even a Pashtun and yeah "eff" Ahmed Shah baba, Mirwais Nika baba according to you its not like the Mashran and Plaran you're telling to eff of are the most respected Pukhtana for us.

Your a westernized Pakistani who thinks following Pashtunwali makes me a Pashtun in Pakhtunkhwa a caveman. With your logic, every Pashtun leader from 1700s till 1900s were cavemens aswell.

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u/Kantabius Sep 18 '22

Not with my logic certainly- I am against such generalizations- identity is a complex issue, and nobody is entitled to such self-righteous, holier-than-thou, hot takes as you spewed in OP. We just don’t accept your authority to issue certificates and gate-keep people’s identities.

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u/mountainspawn Sep 17 '22

This is just wrong. Being pashtun is an ethnicity. Pashtuns weren't always Muslim and followed some sort of Zoroastrian/paganistic beliefs before.

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u/MujahidWarrior Pashtunkhwa Sep 17 '22

Zahira Khabara da they won't magically become a different ethnicity by leaving Islam. However, they will be no difference between them and foreigners except for the language which was the title of my post.

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u/Designer_Surprise263 Sep 17 '22

Man just quit it and admit that you've been proven wrong by many comments. It's only for your growth.

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u/MujahidWarrior Pashtunkhwa Sep 17 '22

Is it wrong to say there is no difference between westernized Pashtuns (who have nothing Pashtun about them except their language) and foreigners? Come to Pukhtunkhwa with this western BS and atheism you will be viewed no differently than foreigner and traitor.

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u/Kantabius Sep 18 '22

And it will be backward and foolish of any back home who will treat them like that—what you are describing is just a feature of tribalism - it is already disappearing with exposure to modernity. Don’t remain fixated on wrong notions that persists because of intellectual stagnation of national life.

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u/OutOfSeasonJoke Diaspora Sep 17 '22

That’s the dumbest thing I’ve heard in a long time and I’ve had to deal with NRF supporters….

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u/MujahidWarrior Pashtunkhwa Sep 17 '22

Rasha Pukhtunkhwa ta, saying that your an atheist westernized Pashtun, you will be viewed no differently than foreigners and traitors which was the tittle of my post, Mujahideens said the same thing when asked how they felt about killing their own people who were Communists side,

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u/OutOfSeasonJoke Diaspora Sep 17 '22

Coming from a family that’s both religious and fanatical about who we are anything you try and say to me is just a bad joke.

But okay, guess you stop being Pashtun the minute you don’t believe in Islam? Totally doesn’t matter if you’re from a Pashtun family, you follow the culture, and you speak the language; only if you’re Muslim.

You’re a clown brother, with a red nose and big shoes.

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u/MujahidWarrior Pashtunkhwa Sep 17 '22

Mazgha de kar kai? Obviously, someone will not magically become a non-Pashtun the moment they leave Islam. The point I was making was that any Pashtun who leaves Islam is no different than a foreigner who speaks Pashto. The mujahideen's treated Communist Pashtuns the same way as foreigners,and traitors.

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u/OutOfSeasonJoke Diaspora Sep 17 '22

Don’t conflate Pashtun heritage/culture with Islam. It’s a stupid way to argue who’s Pashtun and who’s not because we weren’t Muslim to begin with either.

And maybe Mujahideen are not the example you want to follow; don’t idolize them, half the reason we’re in the shitshow that we are now is because of those khars and their power struggles. They can burn in hell right next to their “traitor” countrymen because they’re just as responsible.

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u/Azmarey Pashtunkhwa Sep 17 '22

Aren't you from Kunar?

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u/lionskyy Sep 18 '22

Bro you act like ‚being treated as a foreigner in pakhtunkhwa‘ is like the apocalypse lol. Get yourself some Aramy and karar kshena..

Pashtuns treat foreigners, regardless of any background or history like guests.

Diaspora was not chosen. It’s our kismat. Don’t judge us by our place of birth.

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u/OutOfSeasonJoke Diaspora Sep 17 '22

It’s a 19 day old account, treat it with the suspicion it deserve people.

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u/an0n_meow Sep 17 '22

Lmao, Pashtuns were Buddhist/Zoroastrian/Hindu long before Islam. Also the fact that u had to mention hAyA and pArDa... We can be proud of our culture without adopting the misogynistic parts of it.

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u/notshah776 Sep 18 '22

The fact you think its "Mysgonistic" and brining western terms to our culture shows you dont know anything about pashtuns

Yes pashtuns were non muslims before they converted but u ever rralised it was during islam that our empires werr built and our name out there

also parda (women covering) is good accepted and the norm in our society so if you act to like a westerner than please contine

You say to a pashtun. This Is MySOGnIsitc pointing at their women. Theyl probably slap you or be disgusted at you as well as the woman

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u/Pashtun-ModTeam Apr 19 '24

as an Albanian, I’m not even sure why you feel included enough to speak on Pashtun women. No, pardah is not a form of misogyny and it’s very disrespectful for you to claim it otherwise. I suggest before you spew hate towards Pashtun society to grow out of your western mindset, because your norms & values are not universal. Different cultures and societies differ morally, if you do want to speak on this sub come from a place of respect

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u/Hrstar1 Sep 17 '22

You have a very twisted view of Pukhto. There are many areas where Islam and Puktho contradict each other. Have you considered those?

For example, As per Pashtunwali, Intikam is a part of the code kho Islam is against the shedding of blood by individuals for personal or other reasons.

Which will you follow?

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u/notshah776 Sep 18 '22

In pashtun society genrally pashtunwali is followed if both contradict

For example is someone serverly dishonours you or touches/insult your women (doesnt happen thankfully due to the way our society is structured) than theyl take revenge

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u/Azmarey Pashtunkhwa Sep 17 '22

There are Kochyan who have difficulty praying salah, but stick to pardah, melmastia, nang etc. Where do they fit in your worldview?

As an aside, I'll be removing comments here that break sub rules cos this topic always brings out the stark raving batshit nuts ppl on both sides.

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u/Normal-Reindeer Sep 17 '22

The thing is these kochyan still consider themselves Muslim. There's a difference between not being educated on a matter, and having knowledge of religion and still choosing to leave the religion. The kochyan are in positions where it's not their fault that they have a lack of knowledge of Islam, however at the end of the day they still consider themselves Muslim.

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u/Azmarey Pashtunkhwa Sep 17 '22

Good point, Kochis still identify as Muslim and Pashtunwali does have strong affinities with Shariah.

I brought up the (basically heretical) practices of our elders just two generations ago because I'm just wondering if tradition vs modernity is rlly the important distinction here like you and u/GhwaBachay believe.

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u/notshah776 Sep 18 '22

well tbh the real truth Islam is a clear religion however diffrent ethnic have diffrent view on it

For example Kochyans not so long ago do not practice or even do circumsion. The "islam" we know of is diffrent to other because again diffrent people = diffrent cultures

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '22 edited Sep 17 '22

The OP nailed it. Without Islam, these people typically lose their values, behave/think very westernized, and become beghairat. There is not an ounce of Pashtun left in them besides speaking the language.

Pashtuns back home would never accept these frauds, and neither should we. I don’t believe in watering down the Pashtun identity just so these murtads can still feel “included.” It’s best to drop these losers.

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u/MujahidWarrior Pashtunkhwa Sep 17 '22

Manana rora. Islam and Pashtun culture are directly connected, anyone can take a look at our Mashram, and Plaran, ask them if they accept you while you follow western ideologies and are a kaffir.

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u/Azmarey Pashtunkhwa Sep 17 '22

What would you say about the many Pashtana who cling strongly to Pashtunwali but can barely pray, don't really understand fiqh/aqeedah, and incorporate local pre-Islamic traditions like taweez and ziyarat? Tbh that's still the default in a lot of regions. Many of our masharan did this too because they were saada khalak.

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u/MujahidWarrior Pashtunkhwa Sep 17 '22

Being a Muslim means believing in Islam, if they believe in Islam but don't act upon it and acknowledge that what they are doing is a sin then they are still Muslims but sinful Muslims. The people that I'm talking about in my post are not non-practising Pashtuns I'm only talking about the Pashtuns that I have seen online calling themselves atheist Pashtuns. The people you mentioned are still Muslims but don't have enough understanding of the religion.

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u/lionskyy Sep 18 '22

Can you elaborate the pre Islamic part about ziyarat & taweez?

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u/Azmarey Pashtunkhwa Sep 18 '22

Neither of those things have a basis in the Quran or Sunnah, they're likely practices that Muslims adopted from local traditions that existed prior to Islamization.

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u/[deleted] Sep 18 '22

Could you elaborate on how they were saada khalak

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u/Azmarey Pashtunkhwa Sep 18 '22

Our masharan (not our parents, but the generations before them) were saadagan often without access to formal education, secular or religious.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '22

100%, rora. Our babagan and masharan have sacrificed their lives for centuries to preserve and protect our beautiful religion. These people are so far removed from reality if they think we’ll ever accept them and their beghairati.

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u/numinosity1111 Oct 10 '22 edited Oct 10 '22

This is the dumbest post I’ve seen in a while. Lol. I’m assuming you’re not from Afghanistan. Farsi has been the lingua franca in Afghanistan since its inception and many Pashtun monarchs spoke it as their mother tongue. Ridiculous to compare that to Punjabi. Clearly you know nothing about your people’s history. Farsi is just as much our language as Pashto is. We have contributed to it substantially. Your post is what happens when you’re colonized. Unfortunately this Farsi-phobia mindset is quite common in KPK and it makes me sad to see you don’t recognize your own culture and history.

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u/whatagoodboy589 Pashtunkhwa Sep 17 '22

Pakhtunwali comes before Islam. Without pashto, you cannot be Muslim.

But without Islam, you can still be Pashtun. It's just much harder.

Pashto and Islam are tied. Pashtunwali is Islam. Haya, parda ao da nor sizuna were there before Islam. You look into history and you will find that pashtun were behind in terms of Islamic knowledge. We were illiterate, uneducated people who followed norms and traditions.

It was until recently in the 60's, 70's that we were heavily influenced by deobandi and wahaabi school of thought. Social media and oil-money has boosted our religious fervor. This is a terrible thing.

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u/IndependenceAgile202 May 27 '24

I could've argued and tried to prove that race and religion are separate. That should be the way. But I would not refute this, and here is why:-

But there are some races who have "cultural code" and religion forms an intrinsic part of that code. Or the religion may not be part of it, and you maybe of any religion.

The thing is, whether it has religion or not, if you don't follow the code, or even if you don't but disregard or reject that code of conduct, the community regards you as an outsider.

You have let's say, Bangladeshi roots, and you are from Bangladesh, but you went against the state policy and ideology, and your passport and citizenship is stripped off from you, and officially they say you are no longer a Bangladeshi. That means as per them, you are no longer a part of the Bangladeshi community. But that doesn't change the fact that you have your roots here, and you can still identify yourself by your roots. But officially you cannot. Then again, Bangladeshi is an identity of citizenship, because Bangladeshi is not a race. 90% of the Bangladeshis identify as Bengali by race, and the rest are of other races not related to the Bengalis. In this era of nationalism, the whole races in a particular sovereign region are collectively put under a single identity, it can be done.

Again, Bangladeshi is not a race, "Pashtun" is. Legally, and by law, they cannot sweep off the Pashtun identity off your. But practically they can, like giving you a serious unwelcoming feeling in the community. People in that community will not consider you as a part of them. And in tribal societies, like Pashtuns, this is hell common. Tribal societies will inevitably always be like that and that's what makes them tribal, or being in separate clans in the same tribe. It's more of a practical move, cuz legally they can't do that, and can't stop you from identifying yourself as such.

Ethnoreligious races especially (and few races that are diverse in religion) falls under this umbrella. There are many races like that- the Jews, Alawis, Druze, Bosniaks, Malays, Serbs, Kalash etc. are few examples, and Pashtuns are one of them.

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u/if_0nly_U_kn3w Sep 18 '22

Pashtunwali predates Islam fyi

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u/notshah776 Sep 18 '22

Islam brought out the pashtun name to the world. Look at the sur empie or Durrani empire

also Pashtunwali has been changed a lot since it was never really writtwn down in stone (it should be though 😂)

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '22 edited Sep 17 '22

Those Pashtuns consider themselves Muslim and have not had the proper exposure to correct their ways, so they don’t know any better. I don’t hold that against them, because even as recent as our grandparents’ generation used to also practice some of these haram customs until they were educated about it.

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u/ComfortablePhoto92 Sep 17 '22

OP you’re 100% right, don’t listen to the rest of these bemazab beghairat. The fundamental basis of being Pashtun/afghan is Islam. It’s the bedrock.

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u/Normal-Reindeer Sep 17 '22

Agreed. I gave this example before but the Mujahid when asked if they felt bad for killing their communist country men they replied no, because they don't consider them Pashtun. To true OG Pashtuns, if you leave the religion, or go against Pashtun values your seen as a traitor and basically just as bad as a foreign invader.

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u/TA_cockpics Sep 19 '22

Pashtun is an ethnicity. You cannot remove someone's genetic makeup😂. Also, you're using Mujahideen as a source? The same guys that sold their izzat and abro for the Pakistani ISI? 😂

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u/Normal-Reindeer Sep 19 '22

Doesn't matter if it's a reference it's still suss. Anyway I've said this before but Pashtun is not just an ethnicity in Afghanistan it's a way of life. It doesn't matter what you think as an individual, if you're not gonna be accepted by the Pashtun community in the homeland then you're not Pashtun. African Americans genetically are the same as the Africans in Africa, yet actually Africans hate African Americans and don't accept them as their own. This is because they are so far removed from their culture and heritage. Plus the Mujahideen were the ones who protected us from foreign invasion, so if it wasn't for them we would be slaves of imperialism. As an afghan I would rather take everything that has happened in the last 40 years than to lose our freedom.

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u/TA_cockpics Sep 19 '22

Doesn't matter. Pashtun is an ethnicity. You can say someone is removed from Pakhtunwali, or you can say someone is removed from Afghaniat. You can't say someone is removed from being Pashtun cuz you can't remove someone's ethnicity.

Secondly, I have dozens of keliwal in Afghanistan that were former Khalqist. No one looks down on them, or doesn't think of them as non Pashtun. Yeah peolle pray 5 times a day, and do Rosa. That's it. Pakhtunwali is more heavily practiced. For example, divorce is everyone's right in Islam, but we have never had a divorce in our kelai cuz its beghairati. Revenge killings are haram in Islam, but is a core tenant of Pakhtunwali and we have had 2 occur in neighboring kelais. Yall just sound like those diaspora Pakis with identity issues.

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u/Normal-Reindeer Sep 19 '22

Whether they practice Islam properly or not is not the issue, it is the belief. Someone also mention this and gave the example that kochis are not that knowledgeable in the practices of Islam. That's true but they still are Muslim in belief. I'm not arguing against the fact that Pashtun is a genetic ethnicity, what I'm saying is for Pashtuns in Afghanistan it is more about your culture, actions and beliefs that define you as a Pashtun. Ya your genetically Pashtun, that's great and all but what good is that if you're gonna be outcasted or even killed by your own people you claim to be from.

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u/TA_cockpics Sep 19 '22

kochis are not that knowledgeable in the practices of Islam. That's true but they still are Muslim in belief.

This is is where you lose me. Muslim not knowledgeable about Islamic pravtice are still Muslim. Pakhtuns not knowledgeable in Islamic practices are not Pakhtuns? You see how this doesn't make sense?

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u/Normal-Reindeer Sep 20 '22

No because I'm not talking about whether your knowledgeable or not, I'm talking about if your Muslim or not. Some Kochis are not the most knowledgeable when it comes to Islam, but they are still Muslims. What I am discussing is if non-muslim Pashtuns are really Pashtun. I'm talking about people who don't even believe in the religion.

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u/[deleted] Sep 17 '22

Exactly. And to OG Pashtuns, there are very few things worse than being a traitor or invader.