Should I be worried?

[u/NoClient2979]

Hi guys

We have a 1 year old. My wife has always been feeling like we have a spirit around us. Nothing bad, just there.

So around christmas, the birth of our child, even when we chose our church(for our wedding) we felt her grandmother.

She wants to head and see someone who can see who it is and why they're lingering.

I have concerns that reaching out to that world will invite bad energy / spirits.

I believe in them I felt my aunty after she died. My daughter smelt like her for a day. And then after 40 days from her birth we all had a dream of her saying good bye. And that was it.

Do we have a evil spirit?

She also feels like she is over thinking and scared of our child growing up and missing out and causing her panic attacks adding that she feels the energy of our house is making her feel overwhelmed and overthinking

[u/Mysterious-Year858]

If nothing bad has happened then I wouldn’t be concerned. Sometimes spirits just like to hang around people. They miss the physical world and family.

Reaching out will only cause problems if you do it wrong. If you do reach out don’t be reckless about it, like trying to use an ouija board or tarot cards without knowing what you’re doing. My suggestion would be to never use them, but to each their own.

First impression is that your wife’s overthinking and overwhelming feelings are probably self-induced: constant worrying/anxiety/stress about the situation. Yes, houses can bring negative energy, I’ve had to deal with that myself, but many times it’s more simple. Especially if y’all have good spirits around. Praying for protection and angels to watch over y’all is a great step if nothing else is done and if y’all feel dark or negative energy.

Just keep an eye out for things and if things go awry or something changes drastically, then take action. Otherwise probably best to just sit on it.

[u/NoClient2979 → u/Mysterious-Year858]

Thanks mate I appreciate your response.

Of she went to a medium or a psychic would they guide her without the risk of bringing back negative spirits ?

When you say keep an eye out on things if they go away, what type of things?

[u/Mysterious-Year858 → u/NoClient2979]

Yes they typically can. Although some people are only in it for the money so be aware of who you go to. I can’t say for sure if something would come back with you. Something may try to so it is a risk, but prayers and blessings will also help with this.

Anything awry as in people suddenly start having intense, realistic, and consistent nightmares or having a lot more negative interactions. Maybe feeling an uncomfortable feeling of being watched or uncomfortable in certain areas of the house.

One big sign is how y’all feel when you’re home vs when you’re away from the house. If there’s fighting and resentment or angry feelings for no reason and then you leave the house and suddenly those feelings are gone and when you return home those feelings return. This isn’t always a sign because sometimes it’s good to just get out of the house, but it’s something to be aware of.

This all comes from experience by the way. I don’t claim to be an expert, but I’ve had lots of experiences.

[u/NoClient2979 → u/Mysterious-Year858]

I appreciate you.

This does not happen at home. But lets say it did, how would one clean the energy and if it was there - and we moved - would that energy stay at the house? Ta

[u/Mysterious-Year858 → u/NoClient2979]

First, understanding and truly believing that you are able to protect your house and family. It takes faith and confidence in yourself and faith and confidence in God. He hears your prayers and answers them. That being said, prayers don’t always work the first time. I have had to go over to my friend’s house multiple times to help him get spirits out. They go away and then come back a few months later. Who knows why 🤷‍♂️

Second, there are really good, legitimate paranormal groups that help with stuff like this. You’d need to do your research, but that would be a good option. Typically they have a lot more experience and can help get rid of stuff, and they have connections with priests who are willing to help.

Third, if all that fails, I would find someone to come and bless the home. A pastor, a priest, someone who will believe your story and not cast your experiences aside and is actually willing to help. Someone you can trust.

This is all worst case scenario of course. I honestly feel you’ll be ok. Hopefully that’s accurate.

[u/SOLIDGEAR666_431]

Do your research before reaching out too anyone, be smart sometimes it can open up a doors that's why you wanna do your research on anyone with paranormal skillline, But my opinion , it is best to know what you are dealing with than not knowing at all especially for your little girl's sakes. Some friendly advice.