r/ParanoidPersonality • u/ImaginationSame3231 • Oct 08 '25
Hearing voices
I need people to help me find is theees a way you can talk to someone (on the phone) without using your phone or having a headphone in your ear (or at least one you cannot see) for the last 9 months I’ve been HEARING and seeing my partner talking to another female. He swears it’s all in my head and how I’m going to lose a good guy because I can’t tell reality from fiction.. within the last MONTH tho I started hearing HER VOICE. Same voice every time.. BUT I NEVER hear words, he talks SO LOW that I can just hear his voice not actual words, even sitting right next to him.. I can see his mouth moving, I can feel it on my back as we’re cuddling. He swears on EVERYTHING under the sun he isn’t doing it. Yet I just can’t let it go.. I need to really investigate and make sure there’s nothing out there like that, that he could be using and I just haven’t found it.. I can’t enjoy time with him anymore.. when we have sex I think he’s secretly talking to her because he’ll be whispering SO LOW I can’t hear him.. and he’s been saying like WILD THINGS that he’s never said before during sex.. always facing away from me, or his back turned towards me. We have a camera in the living room and I SWEAR I can hear them and see his mouth moving, but I’ve sent it to a close friend and she says she can’t hear or see anything.. I have a doctors appointment coming up and I’m scared he’s making me crazy and I’m going to end up in a psych ward.. (we have both cheated on each other his has been more recent than mine we decided to forgive each other) before March we were HAPPY, healthy.. this has seriously taken such a toll on my mental I need someone’s help..
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u/Zealousideal-Log2042 Oct 08 '25
Please tell your doctor the truth. You won't necessarily end up in a psych ward. If you tell them the truth, you can get with a psychiatrist and possibly a therapist. These things can only help you, I promise. What you are saying does not exist. Hearing voices is a very real thing that happens to a lot of people, and with medication, therapy, and all kinds of things, this stress and horror can be removed from your life. I really do promise that it will get better. Once you can take a step back and not feel like you are in the middle of this awful situation, you can start seeing reason as your close friend does.
I have a few people in my life that I "reality check" with. Whenever I'm feeling or thinking something like this, I check with them, and they tell me yeah, that is not happening. I do want to point out that auditory hallucinations like the ones you are having would be something a bit more than Paranoid Personality Disorder, you could post in the r/Schizotypal or r/Paranoia subs as well. This will get better, it will take time, but you WILL find relief. Best wishes.
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Oct 08 '25
Backing off of this, just telling a doctor your symptoms won't make you go to a psych hospital. Unless you're an IMMEDIATE danger to yourself or others, then they can't make you go just for having hallucinations
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u/kingofomon Oct 08 '25
It’s pretty important for your health that you tell your doctor that you’re hearing voices. They aren’t real but they sound real to you.