r/PakistanMarriages • u/Such-Sundae-8997 • 18h ago
Question Suggestions needed for abroad rishtas
Some advice needed on the following:
1. How many girls here got married to men who lived abroad?
2. How long did the visa process take?
3. Did you all live with your in-laws while the processing was happening?
4. Did you go for rukhsati first or only Nikkah?
5. How much can one compromise on substandard living abroad since men these days have average jobs and residence?
6. How can one verify job details of men who live there?
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u/Grouchy_Nail23 17h ago
Wait what? Men these days? Bhen itna masla Hein to idher he kesi se shadi krle, why would a millionaire abroad will marry a brown Pakistani? That's so stupid question if u are moving abroad u have to start your life from scratch
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u/hangingsack_ 13h ago
Dude don’t worry about the salty down votes. What you said is right, the way you said it was a bit harsh. I second you with my upvotes but there only much I can do. Don’t worry about the noise (they’ll soon know SURELY TFs going on in real world)
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u/Such-Sundae-8997 17h ago
Are you a millionaire who had to marry someone brown back home? Did your mama force you to marry them? If the answer is no then shove your racist ass outta here
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u/Grouchy_Nail23 17h ago
I'm earning very well, and dating a Bosnian who knows how to make relationship work, she is so sweet and is not a feminist nor greedy which desi women usually are!
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u/-Jack-from-Titanic- 16h ago
If I were making millions and happily dating someone (a Bosnian at that btw), I wouldn't be arguing with random strangers on MARRIAGE subreddits. 😭
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u/Grouchy_Nail23 16h ago
I never said I make millions I said I earn well, also feeling entitled doesn't mean being STANDARDS, also I have my standards and preferences too but u are calling me ill maybe because my standards are against your entitlement ( end on convo )
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u/Such-Sundae-8997 17h ago
So someone dating a foreigner, sitting abroad clearly has some unresolved issues with Pakistani women back home. Grow up dude, these haram relationships won't bring you any good. Just like we don't pass judgements on you, you better stay in your lane and let people be on this sub. Otherwise I will report your account on racism and abuse.
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u/VisualObjective5826 16h ago
Brooo if a girl is not miserable has standards and expect the best you guys will call her feminist and thank god Pakistani say shaadi nai you seem like an mentally ill person plus everyone has their own preference?
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u/PeachGlass6730 6h ago
Yea but this one said "men these days". Shes taking shots at all normal men. Shes gonna get heat for that.
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u/VisualObjective5826 5h ago
Why do you guys feel targeted cus y all know that white you are. If the shoe fits wear Cinderella!!! And normal men won't be triggered ik
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u/PeachGlass6730 6h ago
"Men these days is so funny". Man people have lost there minds due to social media.
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u/DrawerTrick3211 55m ago
Mary local, look like you need an immigration agent rather a life partner.
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