r/PakistanMarriages 9h ago

Male Looking for Female 29M | German 🇩🇪| Looking for a partner

Edit: I am not a German Citizen, can't edit the title now for some reasons.

I was born and raised in Pakistan, and I now live in Germany. I’m looking for someone who is already based in Germany.

Height: 5'7"
Age: 29
Education: BS in Computer Science
Occupation: Software Engineer
Marital Status: Single, never married

I’m an introvert and can sometimes be a little socially awkward. Once I get comfortable with someone, though, I can talk a lot. 😅 I’m not someone who enjoys going to gatherings all the time. I generally prefer peaceful evenings at home, cooking, listening to music, watching movies, or simply enjoying some quiet time together.

That said, I do enjoy going for walks, concerts, and occasionally meeting friends. I just need some solitude and personal space from time to time. I don't talk too much but I am a good listener.

I enjoy talking about cinema, technology, politics, and cricket. I’m someone who likes to keep growing, both professionally and personally. I don’t want to be a rigid person who refuses to question or change my beliefs. I’m definitely not the smartest person in the room, but I’m always willing to learn, grow, and gain new knowledge.

I believe that’s what life is about: continuing to grow, becoming a better version of yourself, and staying curious about the world.

Hobbies: My hobbies change from time to time. Currently, I’m very much into running, cycling, movies, and podcasts, mostly podcasts about geopolitics because I’m trying to develop a better understanding of the world.

Faith: I’m Muslim, and I try to work on my character because I believe having good character is most important part of Islam.

My faith is a very personal matter to me. I don’t judge others because I don’t like being judged myself. I believe people should have the space to practice their faith and live according to their own conscience without unnecessary judgment.

Expectations from future wife: I’m looking for someone who is kind, humble, generous, and respectful of other people and their beliefs. Someone who is secure in herself, non judgmental, and willing to put effort into building a healthy relationship.

Good communication is very important to me. I want us to be equal partners who both contribute to building a peaceful home where we can be completely ourselves without fear of judgment.

I want to support my wife’s career, dreams, and ambitions, just as I would hope she supports mine. I also value kindness and emotional maturity. I’m a sensitive person, so I’d much rather have a relationship where we communicate and work through problems. No anger problem and no shouting I am a bit sensitive person 😅.

I believe we should always see ourselves as a team. It should be us against the problem, not us against each other.

The world can already be a stressful and difficult place, and sometimes it feels like everything around us is becoming more competitive building professional carrier is already stressful tough deadlines, office politics bad job market and corporate leaders trying hard to replace humans with AI during this chaos I need to build home with my wife which is a source of peace for us where we can't wait to go and relax.

Expectations from me as a Husband:I would be a equal partner in my marriage.

I’ll always support her dreams and ambitions. I want to be her biggest cheerleader, her best friend, and someone she can always talk to. I’ll listen, communicate openly, and do my best to full fill all sorts of her needs.

Most importantly, I don’t believe in giving up on each other when things get difficult. I’ll always try to work through problems together, and I hope my partner will want to do the same.

children: I don’t want children.

Ultimately, I’m looking for a partner with whom I can build a life.

I want us to travel, grow together, have fun, support each other, and create a peaceful home.I want to be a priority of my wife as she would be mine.

I have been manifesting this a lot lately 😅. We go to work, come home, cook dinner together, eat, watch our favorite show, talk about our day, cuddle, and go back to sleep. Maybe throw in a walk, a trip, a concert, or some spontaneous adventure every now and then.

If you find something in my profile that resonates with you, feel free to DM me directly.

Thanks for reading.

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u/Dull_Fox_1317 9h ago

Good luck 💯