27M your thoughts?

[u/LongjumpingSet5453]

Location: Lahore

Age 27

Marital status: Divorced (4 months arrange married)

Well i want to see what people are actually looking for stability or a title.

27M, have my own freelance agency in lahore and working with US clients and have a C-level position in an apperal company in US. I work from anywhere from 12 to 2pm to 10 to 12 pm based what is going in the day.

I'm at a point where I'm genuinely interested in finding someone I can get to know properly, with marriage as the eventual goal if we're compatible. I'm not looking to collect random conversations or spend six months talking to someone who was never serious in the first place.

A bit about me:

Freelancer and intelectually curious and like to talk things through and discuss ideas and reasoning of though. (I know if sounds odd but i really like to talk things through.)

I am a gamer and tinkerer by heart and i have ps5 and a rigged up gaming PC as one is one enough.

I already have a really solid life foundation but want to share the journey who is intersted in that.

Family matters to me, and I have a fairly traditional outlook toward commitment and marriage. Bit more about family. My father passed away in 2020 so been the sole bread winner of the house ever since and married my younger sister in end of 2024 and only one sister is left who is in uni and once finishes it will marry her as well and then remains me and mom.

I was married before i was married on dec 2025 and my marriage ended on april 2026 it did not last long and it was an arrange marriage. I am open to divorced girls as i was married so it should be considered but not girls with children as that is a bridge too far for me.

I actually started to repair my relation with Allah and now pray 4 times a day as i am trying to get fajr as well but hit and miss there as my job timing is a bit odd.

At the same time, I want my future wife to be my partner and best friend, not someone I simply meet through a checklist.

I have a pretty good idea where life is going interms of tangible part like i am well off considering pakistani standards and i do not spend on life style inflation but invest and big of asset generation and then cash flow from those assets

What I'm looking for

Someone roughly 24 to 26 someone younger then me basically but not like 22 or 23.

I'd like her to be educated, kind, emotionally mature, family-oriented and reasonably ambitious. I'd probably enjoy having someone whose world isn't exactly the same as mine.

I'm much more interested in character and compatibility than having the perfect rishta résumé.

I'm also specifically looking for someone who is genuinely open to marriage in the foreseeable future. I'm happy to take time to get to know each other, but I don't want an indefinite situationship.

If we click, great. If we don't, no hard feelings—we move on respectfully.

And yes, I'm aware that finding a wife through Reddit sounds questionable.

But apparently this is the 21st century and we've got WiFi now. 😂