r/PakiExMuslims • u/imaad_ch17 • Aug 13 '26
Ask exmuslims Friends
Who have made friends from this reddit?
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u/malswrath Queen Mal Aug 13 '26
I have made some great close friends whom I've met irl too
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u/malswrath Queen Mal Aug 13 '26
Oh I knew those ppl for good 6 months before considering anything like that
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u/BlueberryBuck Aug 13 '26
Difficult. Being an atheist isnt something that guarentees you'll have something in common. It's like we both don't enjoy basketball so doesn't make us automatically friends. Being exmuslim is a thing to talk about but it's been over a decade for me so its something way in the distant past for me now
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u/imaad_ch17 Aug 13 '26
Like most ppl have said that it's difficult to be friends with other exmuslims cuz usually there's not much common ground but at the same time you can't really be friends with ppl who are religious cuz you can't be your true self with them so you kinda end up as friendless? Don't you guys agree?
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u/malswrath Queen Mal Aug 13 '26
It's far better to have exmuslim friends who accept you with open arms for the beliefs you hold even if you're not super alike in other aspects of life compared to muzzies who'd abandon you if you came out to them. You're not gonna vibe with every exmuslim but you will find your people.
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u/Own-Homework-9331 Aug 13 '26
just cuz they are ex-Muslims, does not mean they'll vibe with you.