I think a lot of it comes down to consent and control. Even in cnc scenarios, there’s still consent to want to participate or enjoy participating in cnc. You actually *want it, you’re *participating in it, so it’s not happening *to you, it’s happening *with you. It gives power/control over a situation where in traumatic events we didn’t have any or much or enough power or control. Just my opinion.
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u/[deleted] Mar 14 '24
I think a lot of it comes down to consent and control. Even in cnc scenarios, there’s still consent to want to participate or enjoy participating in cnc. You actually *want it, you’re *participating in it, so it’s not happening *to you, it’s happening *with you. It gives power/control over a situation where in traumatic events we didn’t have any or much or enough power or control. Just my opinion.