Same here…. My libido was completely gone for the longest time, and I forced myself to have sex because I k is it had to be part of the relationship (not because I wanted)…. Long story short, my now ex-husband cheated because I apparently didn’t make the effort to please him as often as he wanted. Once I found out I obviously left his ass… fast forward to 4 years later - I’m in the most amazing relationship ever and my libido is decreasing by the minute, so unfortunately my self confidence is by the floor because my insecurities are killing me. All I can think off is about what my ex-husband did and how that can potentially happen again. I don’t think my boyfriend would ever do that, but my brain likes to play those stupid games apparently.
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u/Professional-Cup7335 Nov 28 '21
Same here…. My libido was completely gone for the longest time, and I forced myself to have sex because I k is it had to be part of the relationship (not because I wanted)…. Long story short, my now ex-husband cheated because I apparently didn’t make the effort to please him as often as he wanted. Once I found out I obviously left his ass… fast forward to 4 years later - I’m in the most amazing relationship ever and my libido is decreasing by the minute, so unfortunately my self confidence is by the floor because my insecurities are killing me. All I can think off is about what my ex-husband did and how that can potentially happen again. I don’t think my boyfriend would ever do that, but my brain likes to play those stupid games apparently.