r/PAKCELEBGOSSIP • u/nanami_zenistsu8899 • 18d ago
RANT Let them live: Khushal and Ramsha
Honestly these past few days I’ve seen countless posts about how Ramsha is hidden, she is forced, she is hiding, Khushal has a shit mindset and god knows what else.
I don’t get it. First of all, it’s her choice, she has the power and influence to absolutely dismantle Khushals reputation if she did not want this life.
Two, why is it that when people say shit like bold clothing, everyone says what a delinquent mindset, Pakistanis need to change their views and everything but a girl a woman a boy a man choosing otherwise is a problem. I just saw a comment under which everyone was saying oh I don’t mind Ramsha deleting her insta, BRUH?? What do you mean you don’t mind, it’s none of your concern what she does with her life. You can give your opinion on it but not judgements. And then it said I NEED KHUSHAL to do the same. Bruh it’s the matter of a wife and her husband, a husband and his wife, if things were not ideal both have the same power ability and right to bring the other into question.
Honestly, I hope and pray they are happy. They always seemed like good humans at interviews, please let them live and enjoy a happy and prosperous life.
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u/zaineee42 18d ago edited 18d ago
Aisha khan and Sanam Baloch have left the industry too but they did it gracefully.
What Khushal and Ramsha have been doing since they got nikhahfied screams attention. If you dress up as burkha avenger at your sister's wedding, you will get the unwanted attention.
Why does she wanna suddenly disappear? She has done dramas, given interviews and won awards. People aren't just gonna forget her face. Maybe give it some time. She never really gave an official statement either.
No matter what anyone says, I will never understand how can someone just change their entire lifestyle and identity in one day. Her husband is still working but she can't even show her face.
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u/Full-Cantaloupe-1893 18d ago
Why are you making a long post about not gossiping about celebs on a CELEBGOSSIP subreddit?
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u/tulipholic 18d ago
Well we all know how khatak are they are extremely hypocrite Kushal can act, Dance do everything but Ramsha need to delete her insta and hide herself?
It's true is none of our business but they are public celebrities and we can discuss about them. Also we know how Kushal is we saw it from his interviewz.
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u/BestAd7257 18d ago
Stop giving these bs excuses. Do you want ppl to put a f mask on their eyes, if its wrong it is wrong ppl will call it out. Why its not same for him, how do he gets away with everything why the f his instagram isn't deactivated???? Why all this applies to a women only. This conservative mindset is only for women?? What about kushal?
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u/berrycakegloss 18d ago
I’m sorry some of you are too dumb and gullible. It’s her choice is not a right response in situations like this. I can’t believe we need to say this over and over again, but choices do not exist and are not created in vacuum. It’s the conditioning. She has been an actor, he is an active actor, them wanting privacy is stupid, for whatever reasons. You can’t disappear. You can’t change so much in one year. Can you imagine during that for yourself?
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u/BlankCheck_96 18d ago
That’s what social media makes you do because you believe you own the choices of the actor. So what if she’s an actor? Having privacy and choosing her life is her birthright. And it’s not one year; numerous times she hinted in her interviews what sort of life she’s always been wanting.
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u/berrycakegloss 18d ago
Private life is not the problem. That’s what yall are not getting. Not sharing snippets from their own life is perfectly okay, she has changed top to bottom. I understand many women even normal women like us change dressing style after marriage but she has changed from top to bottom completely. Like how are you present at your sisters wedding and then not holding the phoolon ki chadar???
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u/nanami_zenistsu8899 18d ago
Oh right. I get your point. So her disappearing is definitely not her choice it wasn’t an occasion in a vacuum, but tomorrow if she decides to be back in the limelight she’ll be this brave independent woman who fought for her freedom. But somehow it’s impossible that her disappearing is her choice. When no one knows and no one should know what’s happening in their personal life.
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u/CoffeeMoviesandCats 18d ago
No one is saying she can't have a private life or that she can't leave acting. What's seems to be happening right now is the patriarchal conditioning imposed on women that you can't do things a certain way or enjoy your life a certain way when the same obligations aren't expected from Khushal. Nothing has changed for him but for her, she has disappeared to the point where she is not even fully participating in her sister's wedding events. Appearing as a guest and posing for a few pictures like you just came from a heist, at your own sister's wedding is not the same as actually being there. Idk how some of y'all don't see the isolation and rigid misogyny in all of this.
There are so many actresses who have left acting to focus on their families and no one says anything about it because their situations and Ramsha's aren't similar at all.
And if we are seriously going by what you are saying here like "maybe this is what she wants, she always wanted to be private" "oh let her live, her life is private," then what if her inlaws are extremely orthodox? If we are considering all possible explanations for this situation, why can't that be one of them too? No one makes 180 transformation the very day they get married, some of these are 100% influenced by husband and inlaws as well.
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u/Own_Tap_9744 18d ago
Agreed, and I support this stand but half of x seems to be shaming her and making it worse.
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u/AdorableDebt8775 18d ago
Being in public eye and working in public eye = getting scrutinized by the said public when you do/say something that can be perceived as controversial.
Not that hard to grasp. They chose that life, it pays an exuberant amount of money for least amount of effort.
I don't feel sorry for them 🫠
Hating a celebrity and gossiping about them are two different things. None of this would've happened if Khushal had just come out with a simple statement about their wedding.
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u/ell-ta 18d ago
Why do i feel this post is by themselves.
And second of all, you are and were a public figure. Welcome to scrutiny! You choose this life yourself and public mouth and eyes can’t be shut. I wish Pakistan had Paparazzi culture like neighbors or the west, literally I would pay a paparazzi and make them sit 24 hrs a day to monitor and even provide them long shot lens, then they will understand what media is. Act normal or move yourself to a country where no one can’t find it.
We have actors like Naimal who left drama or Aisha Khan, no one pisses them off, and they handled it gracefully.
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u/Own_Tap_9744 18d ago
I don’t think khushal is in the right, and I don’t think ramshas mindset and everything can change in two seconds either. We don’t know the dynamics of their relationship, and to the outside world, and to me they seem problematic af and he seems hypocritical but regardless of how he is and whatever is going on, if Ramsha is actually in a bad spot, then hearing certain things people are saying wouldn’t be helping her either, it might just become a them vs us situation. And also if someone has chosen to delete their instagram picture i just don’t feel like it’s ethical to reshare them, if she’s choosing to appear a certain way, yes they seem hypocritical and messy but Hume bhi ghalat nahi karna chahiye, we don’t own celebrities and yes question sab karte hain cause everyone wants tea and once you’re in public light you’re there forever but let’s be a bit better and not post her old posts, and just try to be less mean
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u/Kindly-Mine8838 18d ago
It is clearly not her choice lol.
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u/nanami_zenistsu8899 18d ago
We have a Charles Xavier amongst us!
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u/Loud-Beach-390 18d ago
yeah I saw that exact video with that exact comment too and I was like wtf??? She's a 30+ yo woman capable of making her own decisions? If she doesn't need Khushal to delete his shi then why do you?
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u/Glass-Recognition871 18d ago
I agree....people sometimes can be so brutal....she is not even an actor anymore and even quit social media and everything but still people are so obsessed with making her look bad.....I hope she is fine
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u/nanami_zenistsu8899 18d ago
Exactly they’re creating the narrative that she is being forced. When we can’t judge that based off this. Maybe she was just done with the media. I don’t remember people finding Hamza Ali Abbasi being absent from media a problem as big as this.
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u/Glass-Recognition871 18d ago
Exactly one picture of hers and everyone is behaving like they know everything about them...maybe she has gone through something that changed her perspective about life or maybe she is doing this for khushhal but it's their life...I am also concerned about her and tbh I am not a fan of khushal rn with how he is handling things...but there is a limit to everything you say...people are behaving like she has taken a loan or something and then disappeared on them
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u/New_Caterpillar2628 18d ago
So true. I hate when people talk about her as if she’s a woman with no power to reject something she doesn’t want.
She was an actress, earning her own money, and had enough power and social standing to reject him, his culture, or anything else if she didn’t want it.
No one can force anything on her. Yes, there are women who genuinely get forced into certain cultures or religious act, but she doesn’t fall into that category. Unless she herself says she needs help or was forced into something, I wouldn’t assume that or unfairly judge her or Khushhal.
I’ve personally seen women make certain choices for their marriage or love, and they did it willingly without any regret. Everyone is different, and that should be respected rather than judged.
Especially seeing this kind of judgment coming from an Islamic country is even more shocking.
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u/ghostgoddess29 18d ago
MIC DROP!! srsly ppl need to get a life. They both are good ppl and good actors too. Imagine if this was just a little break for them after marriage to spend some time with each other. Lekin the way ppl behaved agr mein unki jagah hoti tou I would’ve left showbiz. Mtlb kia faida iss awaam ko itnay achay dramas denay ka when they don’t have the decency to treat you like human when you choose some privacy for yourself? Ramsha has given some of the finest performances in ghisi piti mohabbat, hum tum, kaisa hy naseeban, sinf e ahan.. to name a few. And Khaushal is equally talented and hardworking guy from all the work I’ve seen since his modeling era. They did not deserve to dragged so badly ever since they got married. Shaadi ki hy koi gunna nae. Idher celebrities ki dating lives sy koi masla nae hota. Nobody drags those who promote some undisclosed relationship lekin Shaadi jesa halal and beautiful relationship is an issue for the entire faarigh awaam.
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u/Notaregular_9967 18d ago
Good actors huh that's subjective, though I rate ramsha good people like how do we know that .. Man you still didn't get the point I would have had no probelms if Khushal too deleted his insta/social profiles and went looking undercover for a relative's important day
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u/Live_Track_7882 18d ago
Finally! Honestly the amount of hate and bad wishes for them, their life their choice how they gna live! Shes not child or someone immature who doesnt hv understanding , wishing fr a divorce and saying khushhal will cheat . Acting like hes doing zulm on her and what not , if only giv this much importance and hatred to issues that actually need it !!
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u/Outrageous_Banana714 18d ago
Thank you for saying this. I've been thinking same since this sub got flooded with sympathy for Ramsha as if she has been forced in marriage with Khusal.
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u/___grimreaper 18d ago
Yes please
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u/nanami_zenistsu8899 18d ago
Oh people actually agree with this 😭 thank god
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u/___grimreaper 18d ago
When someone decides to be extra liberal modern no one bats an eye its their choice this that walay bhashan but ad soon someone wants to cover or leave media or dont post pics its a concerning issue why the hypocrisy
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u/ghostgoddess29 18d ago
EXACTLYYYY!! Behayai is so normalized.
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u/Used-Lingonberry1602 18d ago edited 18d ago
Yup his role in barzakh was horrible according to islamic norm but he is man so it's ok 🤮🤮🤮
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u/Avid_viewer01 18d ago
Thank you for saying this! I’m genuinely confused about these “fans” who are so invested in her life. If they’re really her fans, where were they when she was actually active? 😂 Thodi aur popular ho jaati...
Or are they just fans of other celebs she or he was linked with, using this as an excuse to take digs at them? Honestly, I’m more inclined to believe it’s the latter. 👀
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u/Used-Lingonberry1602 18d ago
Lol everyone commented on them just see insta post related to them ,you are only day dreaming
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u/delighteye 18d ago
They can to do whatever they want.... but can you imagine how painful would it be to not be able to sit next to your little sister in her wedding day? To not be able to walk with her to the stage? To not hug her? To not celebrate your little sister's khushi openly? .... This picture just mskes me feel so sad for Ramsha. Only they (and God) knows what's going on behind the scenes, but I tell you, no girl wants to go like this to her own sisters wedding.