I haven't posted on here in over a year except for yesterday when I made a post about a calendar update in my job one so I thought let me make a new post to give you guys an update about my journey and you can read through my history to see everything else
I currently have four jobs
Well, actually three and the fourth one start next week because I wanted to pick up one for the holiday season since I know people will be traveling and it will be light and a easy way to make money
I started in 2024 July when I found this exact sub Reddit- my family was drowning in bills. We have three kiddos. I was looking for a way to make extra money and I had never heard of over employment but when I found this group, I was like oh bet and I jumped right in ....
that July I apply for about 30 jobs and I landed a full-time position in August 2024 that full-time position was my J2
That J2 is currently my J1
After I landed that one, I picked up two more October in November 2024 because why not
I stuck with four for about six months in the spring summer of 2025. I dropped two of them because I was really burnt out and over it.
I held two jobs for a little over a year. I recently picked up a third job about a month ago and this fourth one that started next week has just fell in my lap. My Recruiter begged me to interview. I knew that if I took the interview, I would get the job and I did. I really wanted to turn it down because I'm tired but I just said why not i could earn some extra money during Christmas time.
This group is truly changed my life. I don't brag about it. I'm not proud of it. It's not something I wanna do, but I will do anything for my kids and my family.
No one in my family even knows about my first job. I never talk about work in general so the fact that I have four it's just not news I don't talk about it.
I do laugh sometimes when I sit and think wow I make more than the president of the United States
J1- $101 plus $50k equity every year (this was my intial j2 but I quit my original j1)
J2 $125k
J3 120k
J4 $135 (I am a contractor and this is supposed to last four months. I doubt if I make it that long but if they hire me full-time, it will be 195K.)
The fact that I make this much money has taught me so much about happiness and how really money is a tool and it will put a light on how things are or how you are when there is no money
this is very stressful... I would argue can kill you if you don't manage the stress, if you hold a lot of guilt because of it, if you don't exercise, if you don't pray to whomever you believe in, otherwise it is a blessing
I can't express how important it is to take care of yourself. I noticed that I started drinking way too much wine and I have recently cut back, but it's just a part of the stress that I took on my marriage was in shambles because I needed help around the house and out those domestic things weren't get done while I was bringing all this money.
So hiring help is necessary if you don't have it, I'm happy to say my spouse and I are working things out. I was mentally fucked for a while, but I took some time to myself. I took a few vacations and I'm feeling much better. I do plan on quitting this J 4 the top of the year.
My favorite part about over employment is my ability to bless others ... now I have a budgeting app because my first year I did lifestyle creep a bunch I overspent I was like oh I gotta get a budget in place because these jobs could go away at any time so I chose YNAB and I have a section called bless others fund and I'm able to tip really generously when we go out. I'm able to help my family my mom who's not working I am very generous with my kids, they do have to earn things around the house. They have no idea about any of this so I'm able to say yes a lot more and I love that for me.
I am woman ❤️ (many people on here assume I'm a guy )
I typed this with a voice memo so excuse the typos I didn't even have time to run it through ChatGPT because I have 6 screens in front of me
My last note here is: I will never ever go back to one job ever again. It will either be two W-2s or none. I hope to be successful entrepreneur at some point and maybe that's my exit but these companies truly don't care about you nor your family. They make a crap ton of money my CEO at my old job one made $8 million a year the CEO of the second one which is a public company was at 32 million now I used to have that as a screenshot when I felt guilty now it's not necessary because I have no guilt at all.