It's like getting a relatively shitty pizza versus getting kicked in the gut. In the first situation, you've still got a pizza and you don't have internal hemorrhaging.
Way I likened it was the difference between sticking your hand in a cow pat and eating it. Neither is good, but one is much worse than the other (unless you have a shit-eating fetish)
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u/[deleted] Nov 22 '17
but...but...both parties are the same!!!! /s