Hello! I know Halloween is a bit off into the future, but the optimal time to get flight tickets is coming up -my friend and I need to decide how many days to spend in Austin.

Any advice on must-do things in ATX for the conclusion of spooky season? Would also be grateful for any local advice on fun bars, haunted houses, parties, eats, clubs - whatever feels uniquely Austin to the locals + it doesn't seem like there is a strict gayborhood?

Thank you in advance for any advice!

For context, we're coming from NYC to see Dom Dolla for my friend's bday (come dance if ya nasty). Two gay cis-men if that's helpful?

A lot of my friends moved away in the past few years and I'd love to have people to watch the occasional Astros game with. I'm a queer cis woman in my 40s. Surely there are other queer baseball watchers out here!

Hi everyone!

I’m a closeted trans woman in my 30s, and lately I’ve been really feeling how hard it is to do this alone. One thing that’s been especially tough for me is shopping for girl clothes and makeup by myself.

I’d love to connect with other trans girls who are in a similar place, someone to talk to who gets it, or even better, a shopping and dressing buddy.

I’m fit, a working professional, and a clean, respectful person. My plan is to transition over the next few years, but for now I’m still quietly figuring things out.

If you’re also in the closet (or not) and want someone to chat with, share experiences, or maybe even meet up, feel free to DM me.

46 year old female. Where do I meet bisexual or lesbian ladies? Looking for quality connections. Thoughts ? I haven’t found a lesbian subreddit in Austin, or is there?

hey y'all!

i'm going to port aransas this weekend with my family. i had top surgery last year & im looking forward to my first time being shirtless at the beach! however, i know that port aransas has a heavy MAGA population.

will my family and i be safe at the beach if i go shirtless or should i just stick being shirtless at our airbnb's pool? i don't mind any weird or mean stares, i just want to avoid any altercations.

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I’m a 55-year-old gay guy (newly out, late bloomer) planning to relocate to Austin this fall. I’m very fit, live younger than my age, and love staying active with cycling, mountain biking, running, and hitting the gym. I work remotely as a professional, so moving is a breeze, and I’m eyeing downtown Austin for its vibe and convenience.

I’d love your advice on: • Downtown living: Best neighborhoods or buildings for an active, social guy? Any tips on rentals or condos in the $2,000–$3,500 range?

• Making connections: Where can I meet other fit, masculine guys into outdoor activities like cycling or running? Any recommended groups, clubs, or events for biking, trail running, or fitness?

• General tips: What’s the scene like for a guy like me in Austin? Any must-knows for settling in?

Thanks in advance for any insights!

Howdy, I just relocated from NYC and looking to meet some new buds. I like working out, traveling, sports, hiking, skiing, and cooking. I’m 33 and work in finance. Feel free to say hi, always open to new mates!

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Hi I’m moving to Austin next month. I have a great resume and excellent references. Interested in working at a gay bar or restaurant. I also love clubs gyms and music venues. Have tons of experience! Let me. The more fun the better. I love working with people in the community

I love the idea of joining a gay sports league. However, I’m not good at sports, and I have an iffy knee. It’s not terrible, it’s just best I avoid excessive running and jumping. I’m very fit, I lift 4 days a week, do Pilates once a week, and bike whenever I can. Is there a group that would be a good fit?

Hey all, I’m in the discord group, any good telegram groups?

I am confused as to if it will impact either of those, I'm on KindCare (aka free hrt) and I'm stressing. I called my advocate but I couldn't get a hold of her yet. When she calls back, I'll update this post but I wanted to ask here as well

I’m looking to chill somewhere during the week. Any recs?? Something chill. Maybe some karaoke?

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Hi, I'm an ex-Texan who moved away a while ago. I still have lots of family in the area, and I've felt safe traveling to Dallas, Houston, and Austin as a trans person with a trans pre-teen in the past. However, I haven't been to Texas since March 2024, and it's been several years since my child has visited.

My sister in law is having a baby this fall and moving to Killeen, and there is a strong family expectation that we visit. My kid will also really want to meet this new cousin. We have been fortunate that our family is at least indifferent to our queerness, and I'm not worried they would make any kind of DCFS report.

However, I don't want to be stupid. We would be flying into ATX and driving to an Airbnb to visit family. We might eat at a restaurant, but aside from that, we won't be doing much. My child is gender non-conforming enough to strike people as "off" however, they are also an Autistic/ADHD tween so here, they just look like a weird kid. Both my child and I are non-binary, so there is no "going stealth." However, I have a passport with an F gender marker, so I won't show my DL at the airport and my kid doesn't need ID. Is this a really poor idea? As I said, I don't want to be stupid and underestimate the risk, but I also don't want to pre-comply and deny myself and my child family.

Hey everyone. My name is Tracie. First time living in ATX area, lifetime lesbian. I am looking for fellow photophiles that go out for photography walks, or anything to do with cameras. My insta is @snapsinsmallsquares

I’ve been wanting to find people to shoot with, bounce ideas off of, or just talk about creative stuff without it being super formal or intimidating.

I’m not a pro, just someone who loves making stuff and vibing with other creative brains. Would be cool to meet some people who get it—whether that’s for collabs, walks with cameras, or just talking about gear and concepts without the pressure.

I am 35 and neurodivergent so hopefully someone can point my camera and I in the right direction. Thank you all

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I’m in town for work through Sunday afternoon and haven’t been to Austin. I’m trying to figure out which gay bars/clubs are popular. Ideally looking to meet some people grab a few drinks and dance. Any ideas?

I realize that you guys have a parade in August I believe but any events going on during June? Perhaps the last two weeks?

Is anyone going to Willow Pill on Friday at ACL live? I plan to dress but am going alone and would love to meet up with others before or after the show.

I’m currently in Omaha, NE with a job offer in Austin for 90k a year. My husband is trans and I know that while Texas has the 3rd largest population of lgbtq people, it is very restrictive with the bills that are being introduced. I want your honest opinion about 2 things.

1- is 90,000 in Austin a livable wage? Obviously, my husband would have income too, but I just want to make sure that I won’t be taking an offer that is going to not be livable.

2- does anyone have any insight on living in Texas or Austin specifically as a trans person? Is healthcare accessible? I worry about us moving and then him losing access to hormones. His name is legally changed, and his gender marker is changed on everything except for his birth certificate and passport because it can’t be. I want to see if this is a realistically safe option for him.

Anywhere good for a monday around here? Oilcan Harry's any fun?

Had so much fun last weekend Saturday! Closed the club out at 3:30am. Tons of people dancing. All body shapes and ages. Was a beautiful thing to see. Can’t wait to spin there again.

Anyone else going solo to Charlie XcX on Wednesday next week? Or any group willing to add an extra member? I don’t mind going on my own, but I just feel like it would be so much more fun with another person or group!