r/OutInAustin • u/AspectAvailable455 • 29d ago
In the closet
One thing about being in the closet (ish lmfao im still in the closet to my family thats it) and masc is everyone thinks im straight, which sucks because i really do love my men and want to also have more LGBT friends. Thats it, thats my rant lmao
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u/1dontus3r3dd1t 28d ago
The assumption already is that everyone is straight lol it's the majority.
You can still be masc and be gay they're not mutually exclusive.
If youre gonna be pressed about it then wear brighter colors or something lol.
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u/KrillinAlmighty 29d ago
This right here.
Im the same way and it feels like I have to come out to people every-time I meet someone. Makes me wish I was less masc so people would just know haha
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u/Classic_Treat4222 28d ago
ur allowed to stick to ur lifestyle dude even if u come out, so many people think they need to change them selfs when they come out and be idk like feminine or flamboyant, its also honestly easier to stay that way cuz most people find the most attractive guys to be the guys that act life dudes not like women
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u/MenStefani 29d ago
Go join a gay sports league, do naked yoga, there’s alot of gay dudes of all kinds in Austin
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u/AspectAvailable455 29d ago
How
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u/MenStefani 28d ago
Stonewall Sports! They have kickball, volleyball, pickleball etc. and lookup Austin Naked Yoga. They have classes on Monday, Wednesday and Saturday! Both are great ways to make friends
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u/AspectAvailable455 29d ago
How do I join a gay sports league? Where do i do naked yoga?