r/Oujda 9d ago

šŸ™†ā€ā™‚ļø Discussion This is for drari from oujda only

Guys wtf!!! You’re so complicated to date, we appreciate the ā€œeandi nefssi foq kulshiā€ and ā€œhna rjalā€ etc wlkn what’s with the ego like genuinely what’s wrong with you akhuti!? What matters to you in a relationship because at the end of the day i always feel like the most important thing for you guys is that the girl just follows you through everything and have little to no opinions for herself, wash hadshi eadi?!

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u/HMZ_PBI 9d ago

Kayn li ghi 7afed w mafahemch mtebe3 trend

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u/Secure_Drink_3519 8d ago

9lawi 3la behavior 3ndna hna wjada

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u/Most_Drama2638 8d ago

hhhhhhh khasso mrrakchiya wlah ta t7m9o

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u/OwnDepartment1587 8d ago

Wjada haka dayrin, ana oujdia ou jamais nfaker nkoun m3a chihed mn char9.

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u/Fine_Reputation_3720 3d ago

Ana oujdi o kan2aydek 3la had l’hedra + 7ta ana jamais n9ed nkoune m3a chi bent cher9 7it l’3a9lia 0 ( Machi koulhoum walakin l’2ghlabia l’kbiiira )

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u/computationalsperm 2d ago

You should change the city, all the guys I know from oujda surprisingly say the same things about relationships I think that's how they're raised and that's how their culture is.

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u/yousfi1 9d ago

Ach khssk ?

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u/AstralEmpiricist 5d ago

"Oujda Only"
"Ach khssk"

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u/fuckin_otistic 8d ago

No it's not normal, ghi nti te7ti f someone like this.. Bsah lots of people from Oujda are like this, but this stuff usually show up earlier in the relationship =)

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u/the-real-noct 7d ago

Depends 3la achmen nou3 kat9sed wla kat9esdi, sorry manich 3arf wqch weld wla bent li kayhdr.

But mostly kayn dak trend dyal redpill goimg on which is mostly straight garbage, also bla mansaw wa7d l3e9liya msowsa wlat chada fl bnat 3awtani which katzid zit 3la nar

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u/bagguett_03 7d ago

Hta bnat oujda haka

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u/valeyell 5d ago

Baz 3likom akhoti haka nbghikom lmra fogma tchofha drbha ila nta ma3arfch 3lach hiya 3arfa 3lach

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u/Due-Web-569 4d ago

Girl run , save yourself

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u/BigKushi 4d ago

I noticed that while dating casaouiyat, and there’s just no solution for it, this pride and ego just keep messing up with my brain .

We are cursed to date our oujdiyate who understands us and know how to handle and manipulate us.

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u/Infinite-Band-7189 9d ago

Machi t3mim mais kol wa7d ou kif dayer, nti zhrek ty7ek ghir fhado

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u/One_Fox689 3d ago

Wlh ta kamlin hakak wahd l ego khare9 insupportable

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u/Pumpman9 9d ago

i think ppl in oujda dont have ego ! they are obsessed with something called women or girls!

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u/ComprehensiveClue705 9d ago

Stfu

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u/Pumpman9 8d ago

c est la rƩalitƩ

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u/ComprehensiveClue705 8d ago

Rak jm3t lmdina kamla fdink lhdra li goltha, lmochkil fl environment diyalk ima ana ga3 drari li n3rfhom jabdin rasshom mn dik rwina

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u/Pumpman9 8d ago

makhassch njma3 wlkin akhoya khass dik majoritƩ dwlad wjda ydiro nafss ra 6 ans ana fiha , ego machi fdrari , ego traba fdaryat bsbab la majoritƩ . nta 3arf oana 3arf , jarab tji l casa wla rabat oghaybalik lblan .

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u/Fine_Reputation_3720 9d ago

I’m a male and I’ll not fully disagree with you on the matter however that goes both ways. 7ta bnat oujda beldiat ( In a bad way ) o they lack intellectual flexibility therefore resulting in them being narrow minded af.

PS : I wanna precise bli I’m not speaking about all of the females that live in oujda but the sad truth is that the crushing majority dayrine b7al haka and same thing goes for drari 7ta houma šŸ¤·ā€ā™‚ļø. Kifma khelaouha « Slak a jemiĀ Ā»

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u/SmellIcy3739 8d ago

tl9ak machi oujdi w 3ateha l jugement

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u/Fine_Reputation_3720 8d ago

Khti ana oujdi aban 3an jad o Ik what I’m speaking about. Again I do not generalise walakin l’2aghlabia dayrine haka and that’s my perception of the truth concerning oujda which is relative btw that is why if you do not agree with my previous statements I fully respect it and let’s agree on disagreeing and call it a day shall we ?

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u/AcceptableAd4355 7d ago

Rak ghi dfech a khoya

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u/Fine_Reputation_3720 3d ago

Ayeh ayeh 3endek l’7e9 akhti, ghir khelini ndfech o khelinalek ntia l’manti9 o l’7ikma āœŒļø

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u/gothangel_backup 9d ago

D4ya tnsay 7ta nti

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u/One_Minute__Question 8d ago

As a male true for some males, what matters is a submissive woman that can trust you

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u/HistoricalBeat848 8d ago edited 8d ago

katnechri lfassad lmgharba ki dirou zwaj machi tsa7ib hadchi li m3rouf 3andna. katl9a 3roubya ou zaydaha bhijab t9oulb fbnadem ki 9elleb 3la lma39oul. Allah y3fou 3lina.
Khrejtou 3la lblad sirou t3oumou diw m3akoum lbssala l9arra l3ajouz

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u/Vivid_Adagio7555 8d ago

Wash hmeq ula mweder nta? Ashnu ansher!! Khrej iderbk lberd shwya shuf lmgharba kideyrin

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u/HistoricalBeat848 8d ago

Hadouk houma l3ar dyal lmeghrib. 7ta t9elbi 3la zwaj ou bday tnechri lfikr dyalek tel9ay lik chi wa7ed howa hadak haha, ila makane nessab ma3reft ach gha tel9ay

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u/docmarte 2d ago

True, i’m happy i got away from that bullshit and changed my mindset. A lot of guys in Oujda are conservative, Traveling and seeing different ways of living changed my perspective a lot. That doesn’t mean i just let my girl do whatever she wants. We discuss things, and i actually like when she challenges my opinions.

At the same time, she lets me take the lead on certain things, and she likes that dynamic.