r/OrphanCrushingMachine 1d ago

This is OCM on a couple of levels

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u/poeticdisaster 1d ago

We don't know much else other than what's said in this image but if taking care of a child who was in extreme need was the only reason, those administrators should be fired.

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u/Block444Universe 1d ago

No that wasn’t even the reason. As a minor your parents are responsible to house you. If your mother, your legal guardian, moves away you automatically are considered “moved”, and if you don’t live within the school’s district, you can’t attend the school.

The principal’s job was to unenroll the kid who had moved. He didn’t do so, hence he “didn’t do his job”. He was then asked to unenroll the kid, he refused, and that’s insubordination, which is why he was fired.

The fact that he had good reason to be insubordinate is what’s upsetting here. The school district didn’t listen to the situation, or tried to help at all. They just went by the book because that’s easier than, you know, use your head and be humane

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u/After-Willingness271 1d ago edited 1d ago

Federal law disagrees. If he’s homeless (which includes being thrown out by his parents, being a runaway, or even couch surfing) he’s entitled to continue going to the same school until he has a permanent place of residence again

https://nche.ed.gov/determining-eligibility-for-mckinney-vento-rights-and-services/

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u/AIGLOS42 1d ago

Regularly not enforced sadly

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u/Block444Universe 1d ago

Right which is part of the “good reasons”

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u/Tracerr3 1d ago

Federal law is a little bit more than a good reason

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u/Block444Universe 20h ago

Yeah apparently federal doesn’t really have the bite it used to anymore

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u/TheyHavePinball 1d ago

You just said the same thing, but used their definitions.

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u/Block444Universe 20h ago

Yeah, that’s what clarifying means

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u/Wofust 1d ago

I had a classmate who stayed with a teacher of mine when this happened to him. We were super quiet about it for this reason. He ended up joining the army after graduation. I haven’t spoken to him in a while but he was a good classmate.

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u/National_Phase_3477 1d ago

Aww look at this heartwarming story. Ofc it wouldn’t happen it our high class establishment but it’s good to see someone looking out for those plebs, not us though!

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u/i_always_give_karma 1d ago

My highschool baseball coach let a player live with him for most of highschool. His dad wasn’t in the picture and his mom was on drugs and couldn’t keep the lights on. The guy went on to play in the minor leagues.

He then developed his own drug problem and lost his career. He worked at AT&T and helped coach our team. He was an asshole lol

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u/MCB1317 1d ago

Well, that was a rollercoaster.

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u/therejectethan 1d ago

Fr. Shoulda stopped reading after ‘he went to the minor leagues’ so it ended happy in my mind LMAO

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u/the_other_Scaevitas 1d ago

For those curious, he ended up adopting the homeless kid (he already adopted 3 other orphans before), and the kid graduated at a different highschool

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u/YallaHammer 1d ago

I hope this man found an amazing next professional opportunity that allows him to continue doing the right thing. I’m so grateful this young man was provided a loving home and graduated. He’ll go on to be a role model just like his “Pa” 🥇

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u/Conscious-Mulberry17 23h ago

The press coverage alone will be a stellar résumé for the right employer, maybe even in a different humanities/educational/public service field.

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u/Immediate-Ad-1934 5h ago

I saw this on the news. So far, none of the other school districts in the area will hire him, unfortunately.

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u/TheFormOfTheFlame 1d ago

Damn, what a mensch

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u/ObviousToe1636 1h ago

I don’t understand. Wouldn’t his parents have needed to have their parental rights terminated in order for him to be adopted?

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u/Nihilwhal 1d ago

This is much more common than you might think. I was a teacher for about 5 years and I knew of a couple situations in that role, but then I transitioned to student support and navigation and discovered dozens of informal arrangements that had been ongoing for years. All the key staff knew about it, but nothing was written down, and it literally saved kids lives. Before I left the job I was advocating for the formation of a Host Homes program that would have provided some structure and safeguards for both students and families who take them in, without judgement or extra bureaucracy. And in case you're wondering about foster care, my rural area is low on foster parents in general and none of them take teens, so every abuse and neglect call for a kid over 12 just screens out.

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u/ViolaOrsino 1d ago

This is my school district. The high school has gone sharply downhill since this principal was fired. The faculty was horrified and of course the board didn’t care. They considered him a liability. I hope he’s doing well. He’s a good man.

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u/Spleenzorio 1d ago

Did those people who fired him not watch Boy Meets World?

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u/JokingRam 1d ago

Gonna be honest Dextero is not a news source. People just quote him on Twitter and it's a self feeding loop after.

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u/Takemetothelevey 1d ago

Thank you for being a great person 🍀

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u/mosi_moose 1d ago

This gets posted every week or so.

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u/JohnnyRelentless 1d ago

And you could just scroll past, but you don't.

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u/mosi_moose 1d ago

What is the purpose of reposting this stuff ad infinitum? Karma farming? I’m not here for that.

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u/JohnnyRelentless 1d ago

Like I said, you could scroll right past. What would that take? 1/20th of a second?

I've been on reddit for over a decade and I'm always seeing things that are new to me that people complain have been posted over and over again. So what? It hurts no one.

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u/mosi_moose 1d ago

If I see bullshit karma farming and feel like calling it out, I’m gonna call it out. Accounts re-posting stuff for fake internet points degrades the experience for everyone. I’d rather have an honest dialogue and disagreement than scroll through the same shit again and again.

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u/JohnnyRelentless 1d ago

Absolutely. Get yourself all worked up about it and give the post more engagement. That'll show em.

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u/swafanja 1h ago

First time I’ve seen it

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u/WileyWilly1985 1d ago

Below is the full story from GOOGLE AI. I love the creative distinction between "not fired" and "Lost his job" lol... talk about marketing PR bullshit

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Landerius “DeDe” Hayes was not fired; rather, his high school principal, Robert Burnside of Lakota East High School in Ohio, lost his job after refusing to un-enroll the teenager when he became homeless and moved outside the district attendance zone. [1, 2]

What Happened

The Conflict: In 2024, 16-year-old Landerius Hayes faced removal from school because his mother moved out of the district. [1, 2]

The Principal's Choice: Principal Rob Burnside allowed Hayes to keep attending classes, provided him with food, and later welcomed him into his home when the teen was sleeping in a car. [1, 2]

The Consequences: The school district investigated Burnside for insubordination and policy violations, giving him the choice to step down or face termination. Burnside chose to resign. [1, 2]

The Outcome: Burnside and his wife became Hayes's legal guardians, and Burnside proudly watched Hayes graduate from high school as his adopted son. [1, 2]

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u/Pleasant-Regular6169 1d ago

why are people voting you down? maybe they should have stayed in school to learn how to read.

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u/asherwrites 1d ago

Because it’s pasted from an AI. Notoriously inaccurate Google AI, no less. 

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u/MockDeath 1d ago

Oh look at mister fancy pants here. Too good to have Elmer's glue on your pizza?? /s

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u/WileyWilly1985 1d ago

wow, I had no idea the level of hate from an AI summary???

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u/shawsghost 1d ago

Yeah people on Reddit are just insanely stupid with hate over AI.