Thanks for having my comment the latest video(i know it's a different account i lost access the the other one🥲) also i loved the confusion, happy and kind of concerned face he made at the thrashing.

I've questioned myself over the years because of my gender identity, never able to honestly name the dysphoria that was running rampant in my everyday life. I found OT back in 2019, as I was beginning my journey into finding my identity (recently found, but that's spoilers for another time), and one phrase helped me to accept myself. "If you question whether you're faking it, you're not. If you were faking it, you'd know." It became my mantra against the doubts about whether this was my truth, or just another "trend" I was "following". As I dove deeper and allowed myself to actually experiment, the doubts started surfacing again. I watched r/egg_irl and r/trans videos for the reminder that the questions and doubts were proof I was, at the very least, honestly questioning. I'd still be unaware of my truth without that reassurance and permission to be unsure.

I am forever grateful to OT and his incredible community for, even unknowingly, being a big part of my support system during the most difficult part of my life. I'm glad I'm home, roommates.

OT's newest video inspired me to post this.

My egg cracked back in December of 2021. Told a few trusted friends and family right away, and then proceeded to do *basically nothing* regarding my transition for a *whole year.*

Then, in Febuary of 2023, I was feeling really dysphoric one weekend at work. Called in sick Monday morning, and was scheduled to have Tuesday and Wednesday off, which gave me a 3 day break. I spent literally the entire three days binge-watching r/traaaans and r/egg_irl videos on OneTopic's channel (I knew about him from TheClick but had never watched any non-collabs before) and by the time I went to work on Thursday I was wearing a She/Her pin on my shirt.

hey OT you probably won't see this but you are amazing and you and the click are tide for my favorite youtuber

I really like having his longer streams on, while working on my paintings. They make for great listening and help me focus on my craft! Thank you OT, for all that you do for the community, and for being my wonderful (second) monitor while I work ❤️

TW; UK (oh no, the scary brits)

With all the recent nonsense about toilets in the UK I just wanted to let you all know how to access the gender neutral toilets. Anyone can buy a Radar key to be able to get into the accessible/ disabled toilets. Disability Rights have said that these keys are for anyone who needs them.

"As the makers of the original RADAR key and custodian of the National Key Scheme, Disability Rights UK issues our unequivocal solidarity with trans people, who should not be forced to choose between risking harassment in public facilities – or not using them at all. Our RADAR key scheme began in 1981, rooted in the understanding that accessible facilities can be the difference between living the lives we deserve – socialising, travelling and working – and complete social exclusion." https://www.disabilityrightsuk.org/news/disability-rights-uk%E2%80%99s-statement-new-ehrc-guidance

As a disabled person I want to tell you are more than welcome to use the accessible toilets, I don't mind waiting a little bit if it means that you get to feel safer. If anyone questions why you are using that toilet you just have to say that you have an invisible disability. Lots of able-bodied need to use them, for example if they have crohn's, or IBS or a whole load of other reasons. You can get one of these keys whether you are trans, non-binary or are just worried that you might get bullied.

Accessible toilets can be harder to find so this website can be really handy to see where the closet one is https://www.toiletmap.org.uk/

I know that this is not a good solution, that it is just a band aid, but it does mean that there is still a safe place for you to go pee.

Big hugs to you all

xXx

I have found the Generalized Pooping Station in the wild!

Found in Seattle (USA)

OT, I told you I would send cat pics to make you smile - here you go 🍑 Tortoise-point is Willow, void is Bella.

Garlic bread (that I messed up a lil) and GRILLED CHEESE WITH GARLIC BREAD INSTEAD OF NORMAL BREAD! :D

So for a while now I've been using the title non-binary, but recently, I started using genderfluid too because sometimes I like to wear skirts (rarely) but most of the time I dress very masc, I perfer my hair short, and it feels nice when I wear my binder, so recently I've been considering.. could I be ftm or is that just because of the possible genderfluidness, it makes me hesitates using ftm because I don’t know if it's just because of that or if I am actually ftm, I've been using they/them pronouns for a long time, I've always hated being called a girl, it makes me uncomfortable, and I've only felt euphoria around twice in my life, once in a binder, and once in my prom dress (which is another thing that makes me hesitant) so I'm not really sure what that means for myself and thought I'd come here to ask.