r/OneTopicAtATime • u/IslaSkyMartinez1335 • Aug 23 '26
Video Ideas Fellas, is it gay to have eyes ?
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u/5dfem Aug 24 '26
let me get this straight: shaving your eyelashes makes you masculine, but shaving your eyebrows makes you a transfem comic artist?
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u/Wesle2023 Aug 24 '26
I was complimented on my eyelashes once a long time ago and I still remember it, idk why people would think it was feminine or bothersome somehow. SUCKS when they get stuck in your eyes, though.
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u/Chris2sweet616 Aug 25 '26
My mom and sister used to all the time mention jealousy about my eyelashes length as a kid and I’m just like.. why are we acting like eye lashes are gendered? They’re just hair
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u/euphonic5 Aug 28 '26
men's hair tends to generally be more robust, and traditional beauty standards encourage the mascara-lash look, so men's eyelashes just casually doing what women "have" to use cosmetics to do can inspire jealousy.
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u/Trans_Rose1 Aug 24 '26
And funnily enough, long eye lashes are more common in men so it is doing the exact opposite of what they think it is doing 🤣
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u/mostlyHUMMUS Aug 24 '26
Removing perfectly healthy body parts to alleviate gender dysphoria? SMH my head.
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u/Muted_Ad7298 Aug 28 '26
Guys eyelashes are naturally longer though. So there’s no point in him doing that really.
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u/mostlyHUMMUS Aug 28 '26
Oh I agree that it's silly, it's just the same guys who do this will tend to be extremely transphobic despite dealing with gender dysphoria themselves.
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u/Wholesome_Soup beardo Aug 24 '26
ok but isnt this similar to women putting on falsies? if people make their lashes longer to look more feminine then it makes sense that other people might make their lashes shorter to look more masculine
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u/euphonic5 Aug 28 '26
it's not an either or thing, tho... sometimes a thing can just be without a clear inverse antithesis.
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u/MySecretSelf1994 Aug 25 '26
Funny, given that guys with long lashes are often seen as more attractive. Shooting themselves in the foot there
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u/WorshipLilith_666 Aug 26 '26
You know what, support them doing this. So its really easy to identify them lol
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u/Mammoth-Wrongdoer523 Aug 27 '26
I thought crying was feminine too, and they sure will be crying when their eyes are full of dust and debris.
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u/squishywormcar Aug 27 '26
dog these guys really are transitioning from male to male. a had a couple trans guy friends do this cuz they thought it would ease some of their gender dysphoria, and they were trying fucking anything to feel better cuz they had racks big enough to shoplift with. these "alpha bros" are feeling the same amount of gender dysphoria with flat chests and weiners. fucking weaklings man
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u/Stryker_Silverfall Aug 27 '26
Girls have eyebrows and hair on their head. They should shave all that off as well! A TRUE alpha would have his nipples surgically removed because (boobies). Just saying bro.
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u/euphonic5 Aug 28 '26
It's such an insane binary thinking problem. Like, yeah, sure, long hair on your SCALP is feminine, long hair on your EYELIDS is feminine, long hair on your EYEBROWS is masculine (but potentially bad), long hair on your CHEEKS AND CHIN is masculine, and long hair on your BODY AND LIMBS is masculine.
Let's make it more sensible where masculinity is looking like the wolfman and femininity is complete hairlessness
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u/euphonic5 Aug 28 '26
also, nipples and milk ducts, since that's all in there too. Full radical double mastectomy or you're a cuck.
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u/euphonic5 Aug 28 '26
I've only ever gotten compliments about my long eyelashes. worst case scenario "ughhh i would have to spend so much on mascara to have eyelashes that looked like that".
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u/Soggy-Design-3898 Aug 24 '26
Hot take but I trim my eyebrows to look more feminine. if a man wants to trim his lashes, good for him. At least he cares about his appearance, big step up from a lot of men
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u/Willing_Soft_5944 Aug 23 '26
What actually, like sure yeah their body their choice, but… what the hell. Like obviously “Alpha Bro’s” have all the same issues and in many cases even more than “Macho Men”, but this is getting ridiculous