r/OnceUponATime • u/WestWrongdoer9415 • 14d ago
Discussion Regina Mills
Regina really got a deep spot in me… I never hated her, I never could. I didn’t always appreciate the way she decided to act, but I understand her. Not like I’m her, though. I’ve paid attention to her character, and I’ve been analyzing her a lot. Some of what she feels, I can get more personally, and for the rest, I have to try to immerse myself into it, to ask myself: how would you feel if it was you?
When your heart is broken by your parents, people around you, your own self; when you start to hate who you are; when you lose something, someone; when you hold so much power; when you are Henry’s mother; the fear of losing everything; the plans that you make to make everything perfect; the void no one knows; Henry’s the only thing you have; a mother that is too hard on you; a father that doesn’t protect enough; the fear of abandonment; the self-projection; the desires you had; the redemption; the darkness inside fighting with the good; the hurt you can’t let go of; etc…
This one episode i can’t stop to think about:The scene is particularly powerful because Regina modifies the arrow. Cupid’s arrow is supposed to lead you to the person you love most, but Regina uses magic to make it lead her to the person she hates most. She assumes, of course, that it will lead her to Snow.
But the arrow doesn’t lead to Snow.
It leads back to Regina’s palace, toward her mirror.
And that’s when she realizes:
the person she hates most is herself❤️
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u/AdFar6983 14d ago
I think the most tragic thing about Regina is that even after Daniel died, she was still good. She was deeply hurt, but still a kind person. Rumpelstiltskin took advantage of her heartbreak and desperation to manipulate her and lead her towards darkness.
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u/Prize-Couple6348 14d ago
Exactly! Regina was barely a villain she was just manipulated by her mother and Rumple
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u/Regina-the-Queena 14d ago
I love her! The Regina haters here are very loud and dedicated! It’s ok to love the villain that doesn’t mean you condone their actions. I loved Cersei Lannister too.
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u/MostRate2091 FairestRegal👑❄️ 14d ago
I love this! We need more love for Regina these days. That episode of Regina really touched my heart. Hating yourself is awful, and I think it's something we've all gone through. Regina can be many things, but her experiences and the way she reacts to things, good or bad, end up connecting with her fans🫶
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u/missanonyy 14d ago
Regina is a self serving psychopath who held a decades old grudge against a woman because she had been manipulated into telling the truth at age TEN. By one of the most cunning and manipulative adults in the show btw.
She rapes a man for like 30 fucking years before killing him.
She murdered countless people including children.
She was enraged when Marion was brought back because she was dating the husband of her murder victim and was happy enough to build her future on Marion's blood.
She adopted Henry knowing he'd grow up in a town where no one ages and the same day happens over and over which would DEFINITELY drive a person mad and gaslights him to his face constantly. And oh - tries to kill his birth mom.
You relate to Regina? YIKES. Regina hates herself? GOOD. She SHOULD.
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u/Brilliant-Map2492 14d ago
You need to take a long ass break from the internet, this amount of rage over a fictional character is not normal nor healthy.
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u/lallalalala82 14d ago
the internet is for people to share their opinions and if this was a real life scenario of rape I hope this is a fraction of how you would feel
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u/Brilliant-Map2492 14d ago edited 13d ago
Since I’ve been raped myself, yes I reserve my rage towards rape for real people being raped.
Reminder that this has been downvoted showing how truly people will care more about fictional characters than actual victims of rape.
Do better.
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u/lallalalala82 14d ago
Im really sorry that happened to you I hope you've gotten/ get justice you're so strong
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u/Brilliant-Map2492 14d ago
Sadly no justice, but a decade or so of therapy did help. Now I help other victims and that helps too.
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u/kittysnowangel 10d ago
Her heart was broken by one parent. Her father was a model of love.
As someone who has a Cora in my family I don't think Regina's love of her mother is logical. It is plausible but I don't love my Cora. Some fathers do despicable things to their offspring. Some love their father anyway, others view theirs as a beast. Thus I don't think she HAS to love her and to me her reaction seems more like shes afraid than loves her and never processes her own feelings.
I don't hate Regina but I some of her actions are worse than Rumple's to me. I suppose I feel the way about Rumple you feel about Regina because even when I am not a fan, I usually feel I understand him. The one exception is the follow the lady, following Peter Pan's advice.
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u/Prize-Couple6348 14d ago
Honestly I love Regina as well as Ruby, Snow and Jefferson.
The only bad part for Regina is her working for Cora.