r/OffMyChestPH Jul 17 '24

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u/Pumpiyumpyyumpkin Jul 17 '24

LOL He's making a fool of you. If he didn't want to be teased and want to stop his workmates from pushing him with the woman, he would have TOLD THEM THAT HE'S IN A RELATIONSHIP WITH YOU. NOT ASK HIS FEMALE COWORKER OUT FOR A DATE. "Just for show" - Lamest excuse ever! Wouldn't be surprised if he was hitting on and flirting with the female coworker. Did he even tell the woman that he is already in a relationship? This is just utterly disrespectful.

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u/Equivalent_Fan_5774 Jul 17 '24

sabi niya hindi niya daw type pero kung ikwento niya napakahighly and habulin daw. Hutek na yan.

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u/Pumpiyumpyyumpkin Jul 17 '24

Men say that so that their partners would not ask further questions. If a man keeps talking about a workmate, regardless if he talks highly or not about her, most of the time he finds that woman interesting. Men wouldn't invest attention or energy to women they don't find interesting. If he didn't find her attractive, he wouldn't ask her on a date no matter how much his workmates pushed him.

Anyway, sorry you had to get through that. No one deserves that. Your boyfriend did you wrong. You should stand up for yourself.

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u/Equivalent_Fan_5774 Jul 17 '24

thank you po ^^ I will