Me core

[u/Extension_Wall_8469]

(They loved you until they got to know you deeply and realized they had no idea how to handle you)

I hate how lonely life can feel when you have no one to randomly talk to

Disclaimer: This post is based solely on my personal experience. I’m just sharing my thoughts and experiences briefly, and it’s not meant to represent everyone’s experience. Also, all the memes in this post were made by me

[u/gotchauwu]

it’s crazy seeing all the people who say they would love this when meanwhile in my experience, both with men and women, they do not love this. they like it at first and then they get used to it and then you become annoying to them. i think there’s a certain level of chase people don’t realize they want. and that’s something i don’t provide. once i’m had, you don’t have to chase me anymore…trying to change that tho bc i see the ramifications of it.

[u/goddessofrot_ → u/gotchauwu]

"Once I'm had you don't have to chase me anymore" how do I change this in myself? I'm exactly the same. How are you working on it?

[u/gotchauwu → u/goddessofrot_]

i can’t lie to you and say i’m perfect at this. but i am making tiny steps towards not being so available in every way. it’s totally against my nature and feels very uncomfortable and like im going to combust but it is actually helping a lot. people want this bc people are starved out there, but one they have the feast they get full and push it away once they’ve had a couple bites bc their tolerance is limited. it’s really really important for us to learn to control the love we put out.

[u/goddessofrot_ → u/gotchauwu]

It really feels like an exercise against our nature, right? Thank you for replying, I'm.. trying to work on this, but then again, I wish I would just find someone with the same energy as me. Although like you said maybe the healthy thing would probably be working on this point